Guest guest Posted July 24, 1999 Report Share Posted July 24, 1999 Yes, there are better friends out there than what you had. And you deserve the best!!! Sue AIH Wisconsin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 1999 Report Share Posted July 24, 1999 Hi , It is pretty astute of you to realize you need different friends. Half the battle of chronic illness is realizing that you have limits and that you are going to have some changes. I can tell you that my circle of friends has changed completely over the years. My first marriage went down the tubes too. He just couldn't handle it. I have really kind and generous friends now who understand that I can't just run out every second of the day. And, what is even better is that they don't feel sorry for me! We just deal with everything as it comes along. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 1999 Report Share Posted July 24, 1999 , Autoimmune diseases do tend to run in families. But that is not always a given. Sometimes family members may have had or do have an autoimmune disease and don't know it. There are over 80 known autoimmune diseases including diabetes, Grave's disease, Sjogern's syndrome, rheumatic fever, ect. If the people that you called friends do not understand, or care to understand how you feel, then maybe they were not real friends in the first place. I have been lucky, all my friends have pretty much stood by me. Keep your chin up, maybe you will meet a true friend through this illness experience. I personally have met 2 really true and wonderful friends, and that is because of my illness & transplant. We have a saying in the USA- If someone gives you lemons, make lemonade. In another words- make the best of a maybe bad situation. Take care & God Bless you!! Lori Cummins AIH~ liver transplant 3~11~97 Remember " No one should go through this alone " [ ] family Hi, I'm the only in my family who have autoimmune disease. Should I think that it is not hereditary or should I ask my family to pay attention or do some tests ? My parents are wonderful and give me all the support and love that I need from them. But I can't say the same for my friends. They don't understood that I couldn't go out because I was tired and don't realize what is happening with me, I think. It made me sad , but no more. I deserve better friends, don't you think ? ) Take care AIH Brazil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 1999 Report Share Posted July 24, 1999 , you are so smart! Get different friends. Lynn in Wa AIH Matela Lobosco wrote: > Hi, I'm the only in my family who have autoimmune disease.Should I > think that it is not hereditary or should I ask my family to pay > attention or do some tests ? My parents are wonderful and give me all > the support and love that I need from them. But I can't say the same > for my friends. They don't understood that I couldn't go out because I > was tired and don't realize what is happening with me, I think. It > made me sad , but no more. I deserve better friends, don't you think ? > ) Take care AIHBrazil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 1999 Report Share Posted July 24, 1999 , Well I hope you consider us among you good friends...who will listen,try to help, and understand what you are going thru... Luanne Ty's mom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 27, 1999 Report Share Posted July 27, 1999 HI latecia, friends come and go..it seems like its time for those to go..you do deserve people in your life who are compassionate and supportive.. Jody === ISO B-family DOB 5-23-61 b-name: Compton *VOTE TO RE-ESTABLISH ADOPTEES RIGHTS TO KNOW THEIR FAMILIES** ---Lynn <CEN32195@...> wrote: > > , you are so smart! Get different friends. Lynn in Wa AIH > > Matela Lobosco wrote: > > > Hi, I'm the only in my family who have autoimmune disease.Should I > > think that it is not hereditary or should I ask my family to pay > > attention or do some tests ? My parents are wonderful and give me all > > the support and love that I need from them. But I can't say the same > > for my friends. They don't understood that I couldn't go out because I > > was tired and don't realize what is happening with me, I think. It > > made me sad , but no more. I deserve better friends, don't you think ? > > ) Take care AIHBrazil > > > <HR> <HTML> <BODY BGCOLOR= " #FFFFFF " > <FONT COLOR= " #FF0000 " >, you are so smart! Get different friends. Lynn in Wa AIH</FONT> <P> Matela Lobosco wrote: <BLOCKQUOTE TYPE=CITE> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT COLOR= " #000000 " ><FONT SIZE=+1>Hi,</FONT></FONT></FONT> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT COLOR= " #000000 " ><FONT SIZE=+1>I'm the only in my family who have autoimmune disease.</FONT></FONT></FONT><FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT COLOR= " #000000 " ><FONT SIZE=+1>Should I think that it is not hereditary or should I ask my family to pay attention or do some tests ?</FONT></FONT></FONT> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT SIZE=+1>My parents are wonderful and give me all the support and love that I need from them. But I can't say the same for my friends. They don't understood that I couldn't go out because I was tired and don't realize what is happening with me, I think. It made me sad , but no more. I deserve better friends, don't you think ? )</FONT></FONT> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT SIZE=+1>Take care</FONT></FONT> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT SIZE=+1> AIH</FONT></FONT><FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT SIZE=+1>Brazil</FONT></FONT></BLOCKQUOTE>  </BODY> </HTML> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 27, 1999 Report Share Posted July 27, 1999 HI latecia, friends come and go..it seems like its time for those to go..you do deserve people in your life who are compassionate and supportive.. Jody === ISO B-family DOB 5-23-61 b-name: Compton *VOTE TO RE-ESTABLISH ADOPTEES RIGHTS TO KNOW THEIR FAMILIES** ---Lynn <CEN32195@...> wrote: > > , you are so smart! Get different friends. Lynn in Wa AIH > > Matela Lobosco wrote: > > > Hi, I'm the only in my family who have autoimmune disease.Should I > > think that it is not hereditary or should I ask my family to pay > > attention or do some tests ? My parents are wonderful and give me all > > the support and love that I need from them. But I can't say the same > > for my friends. They don't understood that I couldn't go out because I > > was tired and don't realize what is happening with me, I think. It > > made me sad , but no more. I deserve better friends, don't you think ? > > ) Take care AIHBrazil > > > <HR> <HTML> <BODY BGCOLOR= " #FFFFFF " > <FONT COLOR= " #FF0000 " >, you are so smart! Get different friends. Lynn in Wa AIH</FONT> <P> Matela Lobosco wrote: <BLOCKQUOTE TYPE=CITE> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT COLOR= " #000000 " ><FONT SIZE=+1>Hi,</FONT></FONT></FONT> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT COLOR= " #000000 " ><FONT SIZE=+1>I'm the only in my family who have autoimmune disease.</FONT></FONT></FONT><FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT COLOR= " #000000 " ><FONT SIZE=+1>Should I think that it is not hereditary or should I ask my family to pay attention or do some tests ?</FONT></FONT></FONT> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT SIZE=+1>My parents are wonderful and give me all the support and love that I need from them. But I can't say the same for my friends. They don't understood that I couldn't go out because I was tired and don't realize what is happening with me, I think. It made me sad , but no more. I deserve better friends, don't you think ? )</FONT></FONT> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT SIZE=+1>Take care</FONT></FONT> <FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT SIZE=+1> AIH</FONT></FONT><FONT FACE= " Arial " ><FONT SIZE=+1>Brazil</FONT></FONT></BLOCKQUOTE>  </BODY> </HTML> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2004 Report Share Posted January 23, 2004 What I meant to say...before I sneezed and hit enter.... Family And Mentors I Love You Ya'll have come to mean a lot to us in such a short time.... > My aunt sent this to me today, and I so needed it. I haven't quite > been able to describe what I've been feeling since Shane was > diagnosed except to call it " nervous " or " worried " . What it really > is...FEAR. I've been sitting here crying and crying over this email > because it touched me so much. I know that his diagnosis is not a > death sentence, but it is a sentence of so much undeserved pain and > anguish. I don't mean to be morbid, but it just struck me that I've > been so fear driven these past couple of weeks that I haven't really > taken the time to appreciate what I have. I'm sure ya'll have had > the same thoughts and feelings I'm experiencing now, but the end of > the email just hit me so hard. I don't care about the bad things > that have happened in the past. It was like everthing except the > good in our marriage was wiped away as soon as the doctor > said " Hepatits C " . Over this past week or so, I've come to rely on > ya'll for answers, laughs, and support...and know I will continue to > do so. As I've been typing this, the tears have stopped, and it's > come to me. " Family " also taken on a new meaning to me lately... > > Friends > And > Mentors > > > > > > F A M I L Y > > I ran into a stranger as he passed by. > > Oh excuse me please " was my reply. > > He said, " Please excuse me too; > > I wasn't watching for you. " > > We were very polite, this stranger and I. > > We went on our way and we said good-bye. > > But at home a different story is told, How > we treat our loved ones, young and old. > > Later that day, cooking the evening meal. > My son stood beside me very still. > > When I turned, I nearly knocked him down. > " Move out of the way, " I said with a frown. > > He walked away, his little heart broken. > I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken. > > While I lay awake in bed, > > God's still small voice came to me and said, > " While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use, but the > children you love, you seem to abuse. > > Go and look on the kitchen floor, > You'll find some flowers there by the door. > > Those are the flowers he brought for you. > He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue. > > He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise, > you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes. " > > By this time, I felt very small, And now my tears began to fall. I > quietly went and knelt by his bed. " Wake up, little one, wake up, " > I said. > > " Are these the flowers you picked for me? " > He smiled, " I found 'em, out by the tree. > > I picked 'em because they're pretty like you. > I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue. " > > I said, " Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today, > I shouldn't have yelled at you that way. " > > He said, " Oh, Mom, that's okay. > I love you anyway. " > > I said, " Son, I love you too, and I do like the flowers, especially > the blue. " > > FAMILY > > Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are > working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. > > But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of > their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into > work than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don't > you think? > > So what is behind the story? > Do you know what the word " FAMILY " means? > > FAMILY = > ( F )ATHER ( A )ND ( M )OTHER ( I ) ( L )OVE ( Y )OU Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 28, 2004 Report Share Posted July 28, 2004 I don't think any of us want " attention " from all of this. We just want acknowledgement that people understand. That's what I am looking for. I don't like to complain to my friends, except you friends here! When people ask how I am I say I'm okay, very busy and very tired. That's it. I learned long ago no one really means it when they say how are you, unless they say it a certain way, like how are you holding up through all of this, or are you still being strong trying to get through this. A very wise old woman taught me that when I was a little girl and I think of her often when this subject comes up. What I don't want is for people to constantly complain about their problems to me and turn around and not want to listen to me if I do tell them what's going on. Seems like I'm rambling here I know but we just want a little courtesy and understanding. Becky [ ] family Hi everyone, this time in weeks I have felt like posting, but have had the group in my thought:) At this present time, I have been thinking of my own family, and lack of support, and was prompted to send a post. My problem is like some of you, I don't appear ill, in actual fact I am looking the best ever in years, because of the weight I have lost. All the best to everyone - Carole Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 28, 2004 Report Share Posted July 28, 2004 funny how different everything can be and how different everyone can be. When I am busy wearing my nurse hat and ask people how are you, sometimes even THEN they shrug and say- oh fine. LOL. SOme patients I have to really draw things out of. I have to remind them that I REALLY want and need to know, LOL. > I don't think any of us want " attention " from all of this. We just want acknowledgement that people understand. That's what I am looking for. I don't like to complain to my friends, except you friends here! When people ask how I am I say I'm okay, very busy and very tired. That's it. I learned long ago no one really means it when they say how are you, unless they say it a certain way, like how are you holding up through all of this, or are you still being strong trying to get through this. A very wise old woman taught me that when I was a little girl and I think of her often when this subject comes up. What I don't want is for people to constantly complain about their problems to me and turn around and not want to listen to me if I do tell them what's going on. Seems like I'm rambling here I know but we just want a little courtesy and understanding. > > Becky > [ ] family > > > > Hi everyone, this time in weeks I have felt like posting, but have > had the group in my thought:) > > At this present time, I have been thinking of my own family, and > lack of support, and was prompted to send a post. My problem is like > some of you, I don't appear ill, in actual fact I am looking the > best ever in years, because of the weight I have lost. > > All the best to everyone - Carole > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 Why do you think they can not? Lots of AS people live NORMAL lives. Joann Trzecinski <MTrez@...> wrote: Hi all, Can person with AS have a family?. Thanks, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 Hi . I and my husband both have aspergers! Lol - what a coincidence that we were attracted to each other. We both have mild symptoms but I had more severe symptoms as a child. We have a happy family. I think there are so many different situations - depending on the severity. I can see how you must be worried depending on your child's situation. Good wishes to you and your family. Trzecinski <MTrez@...> wrote: Hi all, Can person with AS have a family?. Thanks, _____ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 Hi Joann, I think some people with AS don't know what to do. Thanks, Re: ( ) Family Why do you think they can not? Lots of AS people live NORMAL lives. Joann Trzecinski <MTrez@...> wrote: Hi all, Can person with AS have a family?. Thanks, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 Hi , That's good thing, right?. Thanks, RE: ( ) Family Hi . I and my husband both have aspergers! Lol - what a coincidence that we were attracted to each other. We both have mild symptoms but I had more severe symptoms as a child. We have a happy family. I think there are so many different situations - depending on the severity. I can see how you must be worried depending on your child's situation. Good wishes to you and your family. Trzecinski <MTrez@...> wrote: Hi all, Can person with AS have a family?. Thanks, _____ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 Yes - it's a good thing :-) _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Trzecinski Sent: Sunday, September 25, 2005 10:05 PM Subject: Re: ( ) Family Importance: High Hi , That's good thing, right?. Thanks, RE: ( ) Family Hi . I and my husband both have aspergers! Lol - what a coincidence that we were attracted to each other. We both have mild symptoms but I had more severe symptoms as a child. We have a happy family. I think there are so many different situations - depending on the severity. I can see how you must be worried depending on your child's situation. Good wishes to you and your family. Trzecinski <MTrez@...> wrote: Hi all, Can person with AS have a family?. Thanks, _____ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 In a message dated 9/25/2005 7:25:01 PM Eastern Daylight Time, MTrez@... writes: Hi all, Can person with AS have a family?. Thanks, , my dad has Aspergers and he is a very successful Math Professor at a local community college and has two children, my brother and I. Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 In a message dated 9/25/2005 11:06:42 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, MTrez@... writes: Hi Joann, I think some people with AS don't know what to do. Thanks, OF course they know what to do, I expect one day to have lots of Grandkids from my son LOL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 Hi, , I hope when my 8 year old son grows up he will have lots of kids too. He is already great with very young kids now. I already know, he will know just what to do and be a great father. RNMOM72668@... wrote: In a message dated 9/25/2005 11:06:42 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, MTrez@... writes: Hi Joann, I think some people with AS don't know what to do. Thanks, OF course they know what to do, I expect one day to have lots of Grandkids from my son LOL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Share Posted September 28, 2006 Note: forwarded message attached.Jan Want to be your own boss? Learn how on Small Business. Note: forwarded message attached. All-new - Fire up a more powerful email and get things done faster. Wow, is this ever true!!! F A M I L Y I ran into a stranger as he passed by, "Oh excuse me please" was my reply. He said, "Please excuse me too; I wasn't watching for you." We were very polite, this stranger and I. We went on our way and we said goodbye. But at home a different story is told, How we treat our loved ones, young and old. Later that day, cooking the evening meal, My son stood beside me very still. When I turned, I nearly knocked him down. "Move out of the way," I said with a frown. He walked away, his little heart broken. I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken. While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said, "While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use, but the family you love, you seem to abuse. Go and look on the kitchen floor, You'll find some flowers there by the door. Those are the flowers he brought for you. He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue. He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise, you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes." By this time, I felt very small, And now my tears began to fall. I quietly went and knelt by his bed; "Wake up, little one, wake up," I said. "Are these the flowers you picked for me?" He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree. I picked 'em because they're pretty like you. I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue." I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today; I shouldn't have yelled at you that way." He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay. I love you anyway." I said, "Son, I love you too, and I do like the flowers, especially the blue." FAMILY Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don't you think? So what is behind the story? Do you know what the word FAMILY means? FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU Pass this message to 7 people except you and me. You will receive a miracle tomorrow. Don't ignore and God will bless you Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadow.Helen Keller Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2007 Report Share Posted March 5, 2007 > >(they think I am crazy). I guess no one really will know the benefits until they try it for themselves. Any clue as how to convince people that this really works? Hi Deb, everyone in my life thinks I'm crazy. I'm starting to realize that I just cannot change other people's minds; that's up to them. My fiance (?) and I had a rather heated discussion yesterday about nutrition and health. He continually INSISTS that the food we've eaten all our lives has absolutely nothing to do with our current state of health. WHAT?? I simply cannot understand how anyone could think such a thing. It just blows my mind. How could anything think that what goes into the body has nothing to do with the condition of the body? It's insane. But I have not yet been able to convince my fiance, my parents, my ex-husband (for our son's sake), or my vegetarian friend. All I can do is take care of myself. They won't change until they're ready (if ever). in Tennessee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2007 Report Share Posted March 5, 2007 When I started this diet not only did my family not understand, they mocked me! They would say things like; " It's not worth eating if you can't eat what you like. " " I couldn't live without that. " " You're crazy to try. " " Why would you do that to your DH? " " You'll never be able to do it long term. " Well guess what?! After just three months of being on the diet their tune is starting to change! DH has many moles (had many many large ones removed when he was a baby) that are always being monitored. Well, many of them are starting to fade, or fall off! We were at his sisters for dinner the other night and she commented on a mole saying he should have it checked. I then told them to look at his arms, and did they notice fewer and less pronounced moles?? Dead silence for about thirty seconds, then " Tell me again about your diet? " They have also commented on how clear my face looks (I had acne from the time I was in third grade up until ~two months ago- age 35). Not to mention the comments on weight loss, and general healthy appearance. Still, if people try to say negative things I just turn it around saying, " It is worth every steak if it helps me to be healthy! " or " I know, such a sacrifice to eat shrimp bathed in butter and garlic!!! " It really doesn't matter what other people think, though. DH and I are feeling better, sleeping better, eating better than ever and have great energy. That is what we are doing it for- not for " them " ... I do see your point about family members who you wish would listen to you, as it may help them. I have been watching my M-I-L go through cancer treatments this past year. She also has diabetes, high blood pressure, and is extremely overweight. We have tried to make some tasty meals to tempt her, but she won't even listen... I can only control what I do, but it hurts to watch what she is doing to herself. I agree. Thank goodness for this group, all you wonderful supportive people, and Bee! http://kelleygate.blogspot.com 3 months 1 week 2 days > This week is going to be a very hard week for me .... It just makes me very angry to see people like that pop all their pills continue to eat like PIGS and make snide remarks about what I am doing. I guess no one really will know the benefits until they try it for themselves. Any clue as how to convince people that this really works? ....but I feel like a 20 year old person instead of just turning 57. > > Thank God for Bee and this support group. > > Deb > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2007 Report Share Posted March 5, 2007 > > This week is going to be a very hard week for me ....mainly emotionally. We are having a lot of family over due to my husband's father's 80 th birthday. His sister is obese, on bp pills, seizure medication and is a diabetic. It just makes me very angry to see people like that pop all their pills continue to eat like PIGS and make snide remarks about what I am doing. My latest response to people when they say " I just could not do what you are doing " , is could you do it if you knew everything that is hurting or killing you would all go away? Then they really start doubting me (they think I am crazy). I guess no one really will know the benefits until they try it for themselves. Any clue as how to convince people that this really works? ==>I sure feel for you Deb. I don't have answers on how to convince people this really works because I have problems with my family too. The line I like to use is " you do not get sick from a lack of drugs! " OR you do not get a headache from a lack of Tylenol or aspirin, etc. Sometimes that stops them in their tracks and makes them think, but it isn't necessarily going to make them change. Some people do not want to take responsibility for their own condition. They want to rely on doctors and medicines instead, and most of them want to feel sorry for themselves and/or get your sympathy, and they don't want to work for it. Obviously they do not want to improve their condition. I think the reason they make snide remarks about what you are doing is because they " have to make you wrong " for doing the right thing, which they know they are not doing equals " guilty as charged! " ==>My parents don't rely on medicines but they refuse to change the way they've eaten these many years because as my mother puts it " it's got us this far. " They are 85 and 87 years old. Yes their diet got them to their ripe old age, however they are both suffering and failing miserably. I told mother " why not make yourself more comfortable " ? Why suffer? But I have to back off because I get too upset about it. I don't want my parents to go through needless suffering, and it hurts, but I've done all I can do to help them. ==>My sister-in-law had cancer twice (bowel & uterine). She recently had a hysterectomy and a few years ago had most of her bowel removed. Yet when I offered help she said " I already know it all! " She sells vitamins so they take tons of supplements every day but that won't help them when they still eat white flour products (cereals & breads), too much sugar, bad fats, junk foods, and they don't take cod liver oil, etc., etc.. If she " knows it all " then why is she getting cancer, yet I'm not? Duh? > > Yes, this is difficult and when I look in the mirror I don't like what I see (very under weight), but I feel like a 20 year old person instead of just turning 57. Thank God for Bee and this support group. ==>That's wonderful you feel like a 20 year old Deb! It's onward & upward my friend. We can only help those who will accept our help and who are willing to help themselves. When my Mother called that my sister-in-law had cancer again, I told her how much it pains me that I can help so many hundreds of people I do not know personally, yet my own family will not accept my help. But I do have to let that go and not stress myself about it. I'm so grateful that you and the others in this group are appreciated and accepting of my help. God love you all! Luv & Hugs, Bee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2007 Report Share Posted March 5, 2007 Dear , May I please post your wonderful message in our Success Stories? Luv, Bee > > When I started this diet not only did my family not understand, they > mocked me! They would say things like; " It's not worth eating if you > can't eat what you like. " " I couldn't live without that. " " You're > crazy to try. " " Why would you do that to your DH? " " You'll never be > able to do it long term. " Well guess what?! After just three months > of being on the diet their tune is starting to change! > DH has many moles (had many many large ones removed when he was a > baby) that are always being monitored. Well, many of them are > starting to fade, or fall off! We were at his sisters for dinner the > other night and she commented on a mole saying he should have it > checked. I then told them to look at his arms, and did they notice > fewer and less pronounced moles?? Dead silence for about thirty > seconds, then " Tell me again about your diet? " They have also > commented on how clear my face looks (I had acne from the time I was > in third grade up until ~two months ago- age 35). Not to mention the > comments on weight loss, and general healthy appearance. Still, if > people try to say negative things I just turn it around saying, " It > is worth every steak if it helps me to be healthy! " or " I know, such > a sacrifice to eat shrimp bathed in butter and garlic!!! " > It really doesn't matter what other people think, though. DH and I > are feeling better, sleeping better, eating better than ever and have > great energy. That is what we are doing it for- not for " them " ... > I do see your point about family members who you wish would listen to > you, as it may help them. I have been watching my M-I-L go through > cancer treatments this past year. She also has diabetes, high blood > pressure, and is extremely overweight. We have tried to make some > tasty meals to tempt her, but she won't even listen... I can only > control what I do, but it hurts to watch what she is doing to herself. > I agree. Thank goodness for this group, all you wonderful supportive > people, and Bee! > http://kelleygate.blogspot.com 3 months 1 week 2 days > > > This week is going to be a very hard week for me .... > It just makes me very angry to see people like that pop all their > pills continue to eat like PIGS and make snide remarks about what I > am doing. > I guess no one really will know the benefits until they try it for > themselves. Any clue as how to convince people that this really > works? > ...but I feel like a 20 year old person instead of just turning 57. > > > > Thank God for Bee and this support group. > > > > Deb > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2007 Report Share Posted March 5, 2007 Absolutely > Dear , > May I please post your wonderful message in our Success Stories? > > Luv, Bee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2009 Report Share Posted March 30, 2009 Geri - If family doesn't come to visit you the way they once did - SHAME ON THEM! You visit people, not houses. I would stop by and visit right now if we lived closer! You aren't being thin-skinned - they are just being ignorant. Geez, I don't have CMT, but with my artificial hip, and arthritis everywhere my house isn't as spic and span as I used to keep it, but that's life and you shouldn't be judged by how often people stop by. Have a bright and sunny and pain free day! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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