Re: OT- Carole- R U mad at me?(LOL)

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Keri, you just described a pretty god portion of my life except that I'm

on the other side of the coin..... I was the breadwinner (actually still am)

as prior to getting nailed I averaged 55 hours per week with my all time

record being 108 hours in 6 days! I did it all voluntarily as I was always

willing to work until I about dropped as one could never have " too " much

$$$$ laying around.

I can't fault my wife, as she does her share and than some. That I have

to honestly admit...but let me feel " off " or be unable to function and I

could almost bet my life she thinks I'm milking it. Just knowing that,

judging by the attitude and actions makes me seethe. God forbid I be in a

less than happy mood too!

Adios, Kirk.

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> Carole-

> I know that whole feeling of " are you mad at ME? " My hubby works his booty

> off 10 hours a day and when he comes home he is tired. When I feel well I

> make him dinner and I make sure that the house is clean, etc. But when I

> don't feel well, like the past week, he has come home to left overs that he

> has to make for himself, or to the famous question " what can we order? " The

> house has been picked up, but not cleaned. I know that he knows that I don't

> feel well but I know that he is disappointed? I don't know if that is the

> word, maybe inconvenienced? Something along those lines. I can sense it, and

> I feel bad that I don't feel well and that he has worked from sun up to sun

> down. But then I turn into a crabbier sick person. and then we are both

> asking each other " are you mad at ME " ? The question I think is just so funny

> is when Corey, my hubby knows that I haven't sleep, that I am aching and in

> alot of pain. But even though he know all this he will ask,

> " what is your problem, what is wrong with you? I want to yell at the top

> of my lungs, YOU KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!!!! But I don't even have the

> energy to yell (LOL)

> I don't know how you and your husband are when the other is in a bad mood

> but it seems that I can NEVER been in a bad mood. But watch out and leave

> him alone when he is in a bad mood.

> He came home today and barely said hi and went upstairs and shut the door.

> I am laying on the couch thinking what the heck did I do? Whatever I'd

> rather be by myself then having him be crabby around me.

> Does your hubby have a disability? I know I have seen you talk about your

> hubby but I can't remember if he is sick too and what it is he has to put up

> with.

> I hope that you are having a painfree day.

>

> Love and Support,

> Keri in CA

>

> Dear Keri:

> You know what, it's really good that I remembered those childhood things.

> Your post and my memories got me thinking.

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