Guest guest Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Wow, Evy, How beatiful and true about the spirituality of men. I am also changing my perspective too. In fact, I think this was one of the big lessons I learned from my illness. Who knows what causes illness really? But I do suspect that for me, longstanding past angst around men was a factor. Undischarged hurt and anger that lodged in the cell stucture. And now... I am appreciating the emergency room doctor who was kind, my surgeon, who gave me is cell phone number, so I could call him asap to find out the prognosis, (!) and who is quite and unassuming but has a huge reputaion for excellence that precedss him, the anesthesilogist, a man from South Aftica who made me laugh. .. My partner who said " you are not alone. I will be with you " and who insisted on taking me to the hospital to begin with, even though I didn't want to admit that anything was wrong or that I needed help. (Not trusting in " the world of men " !!! oh well, I forgive myself} My Reiki friends Saurab abd Chris. My friend in Virginia who cried tears of joy when he heard I would be all right. Why was I so shocked? I would have done the same for him! My Dad, with whom at long last I have become friends. My brother, who has shown his love and support and has let me know how much the family connection means to him... My son, who continually amzes me with the beauty of his soul and the integtrity with with he lives his life, who has totally shown up for me, even though he has a lot going on in his life too, moving, cutting a CD and more. It is as if I pulled off a dark screen from across my eyes, letting me now see the truth about 40 % of the world's population. They breathe, they hurt, they love. I have SO replaced my old paradigm about men. This month. Suddenly. Now. They are us, we are them, we are one. We get to be all colors, all shapes, all socio-exomomic strata, straight, gay, male and female, rich, poor, you name it. So we can learn compassion. We are spiritaul beings in skin suits. God bless those suits. I am learning to appreciate mine more than ever! I am happy to be a woman and... I am happy to be a patient, daughter, a sister, a lover, a mother, a friend, of men. And finally, I am beginning to open to the idea of working with men. Up until now, almost all my clients have been women, with some notable exceptions. Who knows? All bets are off as each day is new. Anyway, thanks for your letter, which awakened the realization within me of how much I have come to respect the kindness and radiant hearts of men. What an amazing gift from you, my sister, whom I have never met! (Is this cool or what?) You have so MUCH contribution to make the world, dear Evy. You have a beautiful mind and a beautiful spirit and gorgeous writing skills. With your permission, I will pray, for your awareness of your talents and gifts, the value of your contribution and for your prosperity. Namaste, Love and Gratitude, Kanta --- EVELYN BELL <beleve2005@...> wrote: > A wonderful reminder of upon whose shoulders we > stand as a people. I am humbled to have so little > (if any) contribution to make to the world or > society -- I so unemployable. My God! There's been > so many geniuses able to make things possible for > others!! So much ability and power. Any security, > any convenience I benefit from done by strangers I > likely will never meet...or have met and not known > -- not recognized their contributions. > I'm thinking of a kind of broody scientist I knew -- > husband of a flamboyant woman who could have > obscured him from sight anytime she pleased to. And > she pleased to, often. That quiet man was content to > sit for hours with his butterfly collection. They > weren't just pinned because he found them pretty. He > was studying nature, it didn't stop with > butterflies, and because he worked with the Corps of > Engineers, boaters were able to navigate our river > -- once clogged by water hyacinths. Beautiful to > look at, but deadly in rudders. > There are such quiet men making life better the best > they can. I generally assume the silent, almost > nonvisible men simply wasted themselves in alcohol > and on football games. I've sold them short, as a > mass, because of the stereotypes. > ----- Original Message ----- > From: Kanta Bosniak > > Sent: Monday, May 28, 2007 8:07 AM > Subject: [] We are Family! > > > Dear Liane, > > Thanks for the flower and for the sisterhood. This > is > such a gift and I so appreciate it! One of the > main > lessons I am learning is how stong family IS and > how > family extends past the confines of place. > > These are a few of the many things that I am > grateful > for today: > > My sister and brother and I have become closer > since > my illness. > > I have gotten great advice and energetic help from > a > young man in India, whom I have never met, but for > whom I feel the love and respect one would feel > for a > family member or close friend. > > One dear friend of this circle is actually doing a > Reiki " house call, " which will happen in Divinely > appointed timing, just as I am in the midst of > chemotherapy. I am just in awe of how perfectly we > support each other in this Human Family and how > Infinte Intelligence is in charge. My heart chakra > is > expanding daily as I open myself to the awareness > of > it. > > I feel so grateful to this group and and > Myspace. What an amazing thing this is, this > invisible > yet potent tool for experiencing connection and of > joining our hearts and minds, loving intentions > and > healing energy. > > In the seventies 1970 on, I was a meditation > teacher. > I remember as ong we sang after dharmachakra > (group > meditation), in which we gave thanks. One of the > many > sorts of thanks expressed was that to the " sages > of > the past " , inventors, ancestors, etc. I thank the > scientists, the engineers, the math geniuses, the > brilliant minnds who made this circle possible! > Nikola > Tesla, all you guys in Spirit and physical form > who > gave us this opportunity to connect OUR minds. > > Thank you! And thanks also to the anscestors who > fed > the fires, who carried on the wisdom traditions > that > we still share in al their forms and variations, > still > growing and developing. > > Both left and right brain, completing the circle. > > We are family! > > Love & Gratitude, > > Kanta > --- lianeqrz_legey <butterflygris@...> > wrote: > > > > > Hello dear Kanta, > > > > I am so so glad to hear those wonderful news... > I do > > believe in miracles > > and I do believe also you are the one that > deserve > > all of them. We all > > have been holding you in prayers , very close to > our > > hearts. > > > > I am sure I am talking in the name of all here, > we > > are very happy , and > > we will continue to stand here , for as long as > you > > need it. > > > > Many Blessings to you, sister! > > > > Hugs, Liane. > > > > Here is a flower for you! > > [Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket] > > > <http://photobucket.com> > > > > > > > > Hi Liane and and everyone, > > > > > > Thank you so much for the encouragement, > prayer > > and Reiki.I am resting > > > and healing after my surgery and the Doctor > told > > me my chances are > > > very good. My stage was determined to be a " 1 " > > which is very good. The > > > cancer was limited to within the stuff that > was > > removed. And, I will > > > only have to do 3 rounds of chemo. I am so > > grateful. I have learned so > > > much and still am. I know I will get through > this. > > And, with how much > > > cancer was in my repro systym (2 sites- > uterine & > > ovarian, a cantelope > > > sized tumor)--for it to only be a stage > > 1!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!This is a > > > miracle, pure & simple. > > > > > > Thank you, thank you, thank you. > > > > > > Love & Gratitude. > > > > > > Kanta > > > > > > > > > Hold an image of the life you want, and that image > will become fact. > -Dr. Norman Peale > > Imagination is only intelligence having fun. > -Albert Einstein > > > __________________________________________________________ > No need to miss a message. Get email on-the-go > with for Mobile. Get started. > http://mobile./mail > > > Hold an image of the life you want, and that image will become fact. -Dr. Norman Peale Imagination is only intelligence having fun. -Albert Einstein ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Small Business. http://smallbusiness./domains/?p=BESTDEAL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.