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Hi Group,

I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would not

let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have any

concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I

thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me.

Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took the

RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she sent

me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I would have to

pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained a attorney,

The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my money back.

I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this just made me curl

into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on family leave and I had

to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I did not want to deal

with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything but the kitchen sink at

her and 2 days after being served I got a email from her wanting to settle. I

told her I would not settle for anything less than half of what she took and she

agreed so now I am happily divorced.

Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives will

either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the worst, in

my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know her true

character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for who I

am.

Take care all, Brett

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Brett

man o man welcome back was wondering about you! I know what you mean about

people. like you I also got to find out there not so nice side your luck er then

I was she got to keep every thing including the kids and house . but as you will

see I am also way better off with out her big time. the tat. well I have never

heard of it doing any thing one way or the other . just do not do any names

(unless there your kids) or any thing you can not cover up easy . this is from a

person who I knew that was about 80% tat. my son has found his one and only tat

has gotten in the way of work more then one time so they tried to make shure he

was off when the big wigs came in. his is a cross on his left for-arm about 6 "

long and 4 " wide. just a thought. I know at the time of my devorce I thought

about one ya know the bad boy peeing and then under it put the ex wife glad i

did not do that as it is better to not have to see a reminder of her all the

time in My face.

again welcome back and take a few years to rediscover you and enjoy life with

out a nag

the redneck

Marty

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is absolute. He does not derive it from the State government. It is one of the

" high powers " delegated directly to the citizen, and 'is excepted out of the

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Marty,

Thanks for the kind words. I really never left the group I read the postings

everyday. There is a very special person in this group that has helped me get

through some tuff times and that's Danni. A caring person who is gone through

her own personal tragedies and being seriously ill yet will take the time to

make sure I'm ok. I ask the group to say a prayer for her.

Marty, the money is not that important, I just could not let her get away with

it. For now I will stay happily single and focus on getting my life back. This

will be the last time mention the ex or the divorce to the group, it is not

worth the cramps I get in my hands while typing.

Brett

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Brett,

It sounds like you have had a hard run but at least you have found some

peace!

As far as the tat I'm no doctor but I dont see the problem as long as the

equipment and after care is kept super clean to prevent infection. Also

something to consider would be what meds and dose you are on. If your doc

clears

it, go for it...sounds like you earned it! What kind and where are you

thinking of getting?

PS If I see your Ex down here in Florida I'll smack here around a bit!LOL

In a message dated 3/25/2008 8:43:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

steelhead65@... writes:

Hi Group,

I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would

not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have any

concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I

thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me.

Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took

the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she

sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I

would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained

a

attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my

money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this

just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on

family

leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I

did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything

but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from

her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than

half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced.

Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives

will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the

worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know her

true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for

who I am.

Take care all, Brett

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Brett,

It sounds like you have had a hard run but at least you have found some

peace!

As far as the tat I'm no doctor but I dont see the problem as long as the

equipment and after care is kept super clean to prevent infection. Also

something to consider would be what meds and dose you are on. If your doc

clears

it, go for it...sounds like you earned it! What kind and where are you

thinking of getting?

PS If I see your Ex down here in Florida I'll smack here around a bit!LOL

In a message dated 3/25/2008 8:43:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

steelhead65@... writes:

Hi Group,

I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would

not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have any

concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I

thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me.

Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took

the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she

sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I

would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained

a

attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my

money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this

just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on

family

leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I

did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything

but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from

her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than

half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced.

Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives

will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the

worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know her

true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for

who I am.

Take care all, Brett

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Yes I do have peace in my life now the trick is to learn to enjoy it.I already

know how my RD will respond to me getting a tattoo, the first time I saw her she

acted weird because of the one I have on my leg. I haven't been happy about the

treatment I have been receiving from her so I have one more appt with her then

I'm switching to a different RD.

Brett

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Brett,

It sounds like you have had a hard run but at least you have found some

peace!

As far as the tat I'm no doctor but I dont see the problem as long as the

equipment and after care is kept super clean to prevent infection. Also

something to consider would be what meds and dose you are on. If your doc

clears

it, go for it...sounds like you earned it! What kind and where are you

thinking of getting?

PS If I see your Ex down here in Florida I'll smack here around a bit!LOL

In a message dated 3/25/2008 8:43:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

steelhead65@... writes:

Hi Group,

I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would

not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have

any

concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I

thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me.

Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took

the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she

sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I

would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained

a

attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my

money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this

just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on

family

leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I

did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything

but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from

her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than

half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced.

Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives

will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the

worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know

her

true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for

who I am.

Take care all, Brett

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Yes I do have peace in my life now the trick is to learn to enjoy it.I already

know how my RD will respond to me getting a tattoo, the first time I saw her she

acted weird because of the one I have on my leg. I haven't been happy about the

treatment I have been receiving from her so I have one more appt with her then

I'm switching to a different RD.

Brett

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Brett,

It sounds like you have had a hard run but at least you have found some

peace!

As far as the tat I'm no doctor but I dont see the problem as long as the

equipment and after care is kept super clean to prevent infection. Also

something to consider would be what meds and dose you are on. If your doc

clears

it, go for it...sounds like you earned it! What kind and where are you

thinking of getting?

PS If I see your Ex down here in Florida I'll smack here around a bit!LOL

In a message dated 3/25/2008 8:43:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

steelhead65@... writes:

Hi Group,

I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would

not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have

any

concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I

thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me.

Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took

the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she

sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I

would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained

a

attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my

money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this

just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on

family

leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I

did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything

but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from

her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than

half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced.

Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives

will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the

worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know

her

true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for

who I am.

Take care all, Brett

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