Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 Hi Group, I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have any concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me. Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained a attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on family leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced. Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know her true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for who I am. Take care all, Brett Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 Brett man o man welcome back was wondering about you! I know what you mean about people. like you I also got to find out there not so nice side your luck er then I was she got to keep every thing including the kids and house . but as you will see I am also way better off with out her big time. the tat. well I have never heard of it doing any thing one way or the other . just do not do any names (unless there your kids) or any thing you can not cover up easy . this is from a person who I knew that was about 80% tat. my son has found his one and only tat has gotten in the way of work more then one time so they tried to make shure he was off when the big wigs came in. his is a cross on his left for-arm about 6 " long and 4 " wide. just a thought. I know at the time of my devorce I thought about one ya know the bad boy peeing and then under it put the ex wife glad i did not do that as it is better to not have to see a reminder of her all the time in My face. again welcome back and take a few years to rediscover you and enjoy life with out a nag the redneck Marty " The right of a citizen to bear arms, in lawful defense of himself or the State, is absolute. He does not derive it from the State government. It is one of the " high powers " delegated directly to the citizen, and 'is excepted out of the general powers of government.' A law cannot be passed to infringe upon or impair it, because it is above the law, and independent of the lawmaking power. " [Cockrum v. State, 24 Tex. 394, at 401-402 (1859)] " This year will go down in history. For the first time, a civilized nation has full gun registration! Our streets will be safer, our police more efficient, and the world will follow our lead into the future. " Adolf Hitler, 1935 " Waiting periods are only a step. Registration is only a step. The prohibition of private firearms is the goal. " Janet Reno as United States attorney general in the Clinton white house (now do we really want Hillary there to?) " We can't be so fixated on our desire to preserve the rights of ordinary Americans... " Bill Clinton Stills ; An illness I know to well! To learn about Stills http://www.stillsdisease.org/stills_info question-update long ot ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. http://tools.search.yahoo.com/newsearch/category.php?category=shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 Marty, Thanks for the kind words. I really never left the group I read the postings everyday. There is a very special person in this group that has helped me get through some tuff times and that's Danni. A caring person who is gone through her own personal tragedies and being seriously ill yet will take the time to make sure I'm ok. I ask the group to say a prayer for her. Marty, the money is not that important, I just could not let her get away with it. For now I will stay happily single and focus on getting my life back. This will be the last time mention the ex or the divorce to the group, it is not worth the cramps I get in my hands while typing. Brett question-update long ot __________________________________________________________ Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. http://tools.search.yahoo.com/newsearch/category.php?category=shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 Brett, It sounds like you have had a hard run but at least you have found some peace! As far as the tat I'm no doctor but I dont see the problem as long as the equipment and after care is kept super clean to prevent infection. Also something to consider would be what meds and dose you are on. If your doc clears it, go for it...sounds like you earned it! What kind and where are you thinking of getting? PS If I see your Ex down here in Florida I'll smack here around a bit!LOL In a message dated 3/25/2008 8:43:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, steelhead65@... writes: Hi Group, I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have any concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me. Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained a attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on family leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced. Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know her true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for who I am. Take care all, Brett [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] **************Create a Home Theater Like the Pros. Watch the video on AOL Home. (http://home.aol.com/diy/home-improvement-eric-stromer?video=15?ncid=aolhom00030\ 000000001) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 Brett, It sounds like you have had a hard run but at least you have found some peace! As far as the tat I'm no doctor but I dont see the problem as long as the equipment and after care is kept super clean to prevent infection. Also something to consider would be what meds and dose you are on. If your doc clears it, go for it...sounds like you earned it! What kind and where are you thinking of getting? PS If I see your Ex down here in Florida I'll smack here around a bit!LOL In a message dated 3/25/2008 8:43:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, steelhead65@... writes: Hi Group, I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have any concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me. Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained a attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on family leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced. Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know her true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for who I am. Take care all, Brett [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] **************Create a Home Theater Like the Pros. Watch the video on AOL Home. (http://home.aol.com/diy/home-improvement-eric-stromer?video=15?ncid=aolhom00030\ 000000001) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 Yes I do have peace in my life now the trick is to learn to enjoy it.I already know how my RD will respond to me getting a tattoo, the first time I saw her she acted weird because of the one I have on my leg. I haven't been happy about the treatment I have been receiving from her so I have one more appt with her then I'm switching to a different RD. Brett Re: question-update long ot Brett, It sounds like you have had a hard run but at least you have found some peace! As far as the tat I'm no doctor but I dont see the problem as long as the equipment and after care is kept super clean to prevent infection. Also something to consider would be what meds and dose you are on. If your doc clears it, go for it...sounds like you earned it! What kind and where are you thinking of getting? PS If I see your Ex down here in Florida I'll smack here around a bit!LOL In a message dated 3/25/2008 8:43:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, steelhead65@... writes: Hi Group, I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have any concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me. Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained a attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on family leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced. Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know her true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for who I am. Take care all, Brett Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 Yes I do have peace in my life now the trick is to learn to enjoy it.I already know how my RD will respond to me getting a tattoo, the first time I saw her she acted weird because of the one I have on my leg. I haven't been happy about the treatment I have been receiving from her so I have one more appt with her then I'm switching to a different RD. Brett Re: question-update long ot Brett, It sounds like you have had a hard run but at least you have found some peace! As far as the tat I'm no doctor but I dont see the problem as long as the equipment and after care is kept super clean to prevent infection. Also something to consider would be what meds and dose you are on. If your doc clears it, go for it...sounds like you earned it! What kind and where are you thinking of getting? PS If I see your Ex down here in Florida I'll smack here around a bit!LOL In a message dated 3/25/2008 8:43:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, steelhead65@... writes: Hi Group, I have wanted to get a tattoo for the longest time now but the wife would not let me. Now that were divorced I have decided to get one, Should I have any concerns being that I have stills? I have not posted for a long time so I thought I should give a update on what's been going on with me. Some of you might remember my wife left last June took all of savings,took the RX-8 and split to Florida and did not even say goodbye! Then in August she sent me a proposal where I would not receive any of my money back but I would have to pay off 5 grand of debt we had! I told her to F off and retained a attorney, The attorney told me that it would be next to impossible to get my money back. I was already depressed because of a failed marriage and this just made me curl into a ball for a few months. Then my attorney went on family leave and I had to find a new one which I did but because of the holidays I did not want to deal with it. So in Jan. my new attorney through everything but the kitchen sink at her and 2 days after being served I got a email from her wanting to settle. I told her I would not settle for anything less than half of what she took and she agreed so now I am happily divorced. Something I found out about people in general, trying times in our lives will either bring out the best in the ones we love or it will bring out the worst, in my case it brought out the worst in my ex but I'm glad now I know her true character so now when I'm ready I can find somebody who can except me for who I am. Take care all, Brett Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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