Communicate with the Death

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Communicate with the Death

by: Geoffrey (Jeff) Nickerson, Source Unknown

Do you have unresolved issues with one who is no longer in your life?

Perhaps that person has passed on? I know from personal experience

that this can be a haunting thing. One young woman I know had a fight

with her mother just before her mother committed suicide. She feels

that this one and only fight with her mother, in which she told her

mother (as a young teen daughter) that she hated her mother was a

large contributor to her mother's decision to give it all up.

Perhaps you've had a similar situation in your life. Maybe you even

blame God bitterly for taking this person while things were

unresolved with your loved one. It is not God's decision and He wants

only to love you now. When you realize this you can let go. If you

blame God, you are turning away your best source for comfort, love

and peace. You will know very little joy.

Let me share with you what I told this young woman, and something I

KNOW to be true. I told her that she needed to forgive herself for

what she did and that I KNOW her mother understood her and forgave

her. Most importantly, her mother loves her dearly and watches over

her now. I didn't just say this as a cart blanche sort of statement,

but rather knew it was true in this instance particularly, because I

felt it. I knew it was true, confirmed by that chill from God

saying " Yes. "

Her mother had many personal problems and she made the ultimate

decision, as do we all. I suggested that she face the fact that she

was perhaps a contributor and put that to rest forgiving herself,

making a personal vow to herself to always try to let others know of

her love for them. To strive to know the truth of her feelings and

speak of them through love and not from fear. Then I told her the

thing I know is true for all lives.

There is no such thing as an " end " to anything. When we die, no

matter how we've lived our lives individually, we all continue to

exist and live as the individuals we are - and much more. I know this

without a doubt. Furthermore, we can still communicate with whoever

we wish after they die. In many instances in a more concise manner

than if they were here with us today, though at first it may never

feel like it's enough, not being able to hold that person and see

them again in the ways we could before.

I say we can communicate sometimes more clearly after their death,

because a deceased person has total clarity and no ego getting in the

way. The path to understanding and communication through feeling and

experiences is paved on their side. Is yours? That is up to you.

We must forgive that person because we harm ourselves and the

potential connection of love that can bring peace to any situation.

Hate and anger are felt only for those for whom we care deeply. They

are fear based feelings. Let them go.

Think of the things that separate you and that person in your heart.

Live it all again, and allow the pain and tears to heal you. Forgive

and let go of it all. Then you will forget it very soon. Talk to that

person as if they can hear you, and they will.

After I told this young woman of this, I could tell it struck her as

I watched a bolt of energy chill her body letting her know the truth

of it. She put faith in what I told her. She thought about it during

that very painful time in her life. Resolution is often a painful

process, because it requires open honesty.

A few days later, her mother came to her in a dream. Her mother was

lovelier and more peaceful than ever, as the daughter had never known

her mother. Still, the apparition in the dream was distinctly her

mother. Her mother told her that she forgot about their argument long

ago and that she knew her daughter loved her very deeply. That her

realizing that she could still communicate with her allowed her to

come to bring her peace at that time.

She further told her that her decision for suicide was because she

just had to start over again. She couldn't bear to go on and needed

the peace that her mind and body didn't afford her. She said that the

life she was living was just too much for her. She said she regretted

her decision because it hurt others, but that it was the best she

could do at the time. She just knew of no other way.

She said, " My dear child, I'm so sorry I hurt you and that it was so

hard on you to not be able to tell me of your love before I died, but

I knew. I didn't mean to hurt you. Most of all, know that it had

nothing to do with our argument. You, darling, are such a vital part

of me. Please forgive yourself as I have myself. Please know it's

good between us. I love you, my precious child. I always will. "

She hugged her, held her, and stroked her hair. They had love and

peace between them once again - more than ever. The dream ended.

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I reprinted this article for the deeper, in between the lines,

message I saw there.

As healers, it is of us, our way, to want to reach into a " sickness "

or " illness " and command it obey us and leave, this very instance.

We tend to see it for what it is, an illusion, a collection of

thoughts that aren't serving. By loving thoughts, and knowing, we

seek to heal, simply by bringing the truth to " the matter " .

Thoughts create things, things are " matter " , made manifest. To heal,

we change the thing back into thought, there is where we change the

thought by bringing light...light is but information. The matter has

the wrong, or weak information, therefore, a weak or wrong

instruction.

Just like a computer program, if the code is wrong, in error, the

entire program will operate from this perception. The results

will " be off " .

Love, or loving thoughts correct the thing, or the matter. While it

may seem to take time to bring healing to the matter, it is actually

instant...we still operate " in time " . So, we do heal, bring

awareness, but we sometimes question our doing so, because of time.

Therefore, part of our growing, I think, is to allow ourselves to not

see time, not operate in it, giving no focus on it. Therefore

again, " we see IT already done " .

So, and I may be out on a limb here, but I always am...in meditation,

prayer, in wanting of a change, a healing...we must remember to " be

thankful " that it has already manifested...the healing is already

done. We no longer ask for it to be done...that's like looking at the

atarting line in a race and hoping, why not stand at the finish line

and rejoice.

And down at the " street level " , where what we call " reality " , real

life, everyday life...where the tears and pain and loss happen...we

have need of reenforcement of removing the illusion that something

ends. That is the front line, the place where the mother weeps for

her deathly ill child...where everything you know comes up for

questioning and test.

As healers we seek that place where we simply reach over and touch,

or just think, and instantly the sick are whole. This is the place

where we " think it so without the least doublt " and expect it to be

so.

This is the place where our attention is drawn.

This is the place where those higher selves and beings draw near to

see it done.

D~