Re: RE: Fevers (dottie) and STRESS

November 10, 2008

Hi Dottie,

I'm so sorry you needed to come back to the group. You must be overwhelmed

with how large the group is now. I know I can't keep everyone straight yet!

I feel like I should make cue cards or something!

I'm happy you could even find your way to the computer with your fever being

so darn high! I know how sick you must be feeling. I am glad you don't

have the pain this time around!

You give me hope though, that I can find my way out of my flare and have

some good years in between all of this maddness....

can you tell me if you think anything pushed you back into a flare? Do you

know if you had any extra stress in your life or were pushing too hard

physically? I'm wondering if there is any way that we might have any control

over

getting out of a flare or staying out of a flare....

I can tell you all that stress over money has really been affecting my

marriage. And my poor dear hubby is venting more than he means to.... and I'm

very sensitive and get easily set off too.... and then the day after a fight,

we make up but my body is really responds so negatively! That emotional

stress just hammers me!!!

I don't know how anyone can get well when everything seems so screwed up --

and it feels like MY FAULT!!!

I would love to hear from anyone who has tips on how to keep these stressors

to a minimum.... I told my hubby he might like to log onto the group now

and again even if he just lurks. He's just beside himself as to how to help me

get well, and there is no money coming in on my end. The finances are not

easy right now to say the least... I think he could benefit from the group.

We are open to spouses right?

ok, thanks for listening all, and Dottie, I pray your fevers break for you.

hugs, Jo

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