Missed Opportunties

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Missed Opportunities

by: Nick Lazaris, A Cup of Chicken Soup for the Soul

I had offered to watch my 3-year-old daughter, Ramanda, so that my

wife could go out with a friend. I was getting some work done while

Ramanda appeared to be having a good time in the other room. No

problem, I figured. But then it got a little too quiet and I yelled

out, " What are you doing, Ramanda? " No response. I repeated my

question and heard her say, " Oh...nothing. " Nothing? What

does " nothing " mean?

I got up from my desk and ran out into the living room, whereupon I

saw her take off down the hall. I chased her up the stairs and

watched her as her little behind made a hard left into the bedroom. I

was gaining on her! She took off for the bathroom. Bad move. I had

her cornered. I told her to turn around. She refused. I pulled out my

big, mean, authoritative Daddy voice, " Young lady, I said turn

around! "

Slowly, she turned toward me. In her hand was what was left of my

wife's new lipstick. And every square inch of her face was covered

with bright red (except her lips of course)!

As she looked up at me with fearful eyes, lips trembling, I heard

every voice that had been shouted to me as a child. " How could

you...You should know better than that...How many times have you been

told...What a bad thing to do... " It was just a matter of my picking

out which old message I was going to use on her so that she would

know what a bad girl she had been. But before I could let loose, I

looked down at the sweatshirt my wife had put on her only an hour

before. In big letters it said, " I'M A PERFECT LITTLE ANGEL! " I

looked back up into her tearful eyes and instead of seeing a bad girl

who didn't listen, I saw a child of God...a perfect little angel full

of worth, value and a wonderful spontaneity that I had come

dangerously close to shaming out of her.

" Sweetheart, you look beautiful! Let's take a picture so Mommy can

see how special you look. " I took the picture and thanked God that I

didn't miss the opportunity to reaffirm what a perfect little angel

He had given me.