Guest guest Posted August 10, 2008 Report Share Posted August 10, 2008 Ive, that's so cute. sounds like your hubby is a " big ol' daddy bear " . i know it's not helping but you have to admit, the love is precious. my hubby on the other hand will make my son do it or at least try to. he " babies " him in his own special way, too. But I am the one that gives in all the time and he gets on me about that. but he's right, it's a hard sometimes dusty road we have, but in the end we have to try to make them behave properly (as is possible given the circumstance)and be as independent as possible because it's for their own good. One day there may be a life without us who know them so well and we have to try to prepare them for it or it'll be harder on them. I have so much love & respect for everyone on this list because everyone is trying so hard. It ain't easy, but God knows just who to give these babies to. God bless~Keisha W > > > > > Do you think your husband would be open-minded about reading > some books > > > or even some writings online about Aspergers or better yet-- > things written > > > by Asperger adults themselves. That way he might actually come > across > > > specific behaviors that your child exhibits, and see that his > behavior is > > > all apart of having Aspergers! > > > > > > a > > > > > > Husband mad > > > > > > My husband tries to understand my 13 yr old with Aspergers but a > lot of > > > the time he thinks my son can control his behavior. He accuses me > of > > > not disciplining him. He says that is why he behaves the way he > does. > > > He told me tonight that my son is faking it and acting like he > doesn't > > > understand. I don't know what to do... It is impacting our > marriage. > > > I do make my son mind. He does have consequences but sometimes he > > > loses control, verbalizes anger, screams, bangs his head, throws > > > himself on the floor... My son has made so many improvements but > when > > > he does these behaviors...all the talks with my husband go out the > > > window and it starts all over again. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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