Guest guest Posted July 25, 2007 Report Share Posted July 25, 2007 *** Accepting Change by Melody Beattie Accepting Change From the book The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations For Codependents By Melody Beattie One day, my mother and I were working together in the garden. We were transplanting some plants, for the third time. Grown from seed in a small container, the plants had been transferred to a larger container; then transplanted into the garden. Now, because I was moving, we were transplanting them again. Inexperienced as a gardener, I turned to my green-thumbed mother. " Isn't this bad for them? " I asked as we dug them up and shook the dirt from the roots. " Won't it hurt these plants, being uprooted and transplanted so many times? " " Oh, no, " my mother replied. " Transplanting doesn't hurt them. In fact, it's good for the ones that survive. That's how their roots grow strong. Their roots will grow deep, and they'll make strong plants. " Often, I've felt like those small plants - uprooted and turned upside down. Sometimes, I've endured the change willingly, sometimes reluctantly, but usually my reaction has been a combination. Won't this be hard on me? I ask. Wouldn't it be better if things remained the same? That's when I remember my mother's words: That's how the roots grow deep and strong. Today, God, help me remember that during times of transition, my faith and my self are being strengthened A positive thinking, positive affirmations support group, that discusses ways to cope with the stresses of daily life. Come aboard! PJ and Gang Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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