Guest guest Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 I have spent the day in " discussion " with a friend who is angry with me because I called them a loser. NO actually I didn't. I wrote a blog post almost two months ago about running the half-marathon. I did finish but my time was slow. I said in my blog post that I was a winner, the losers stayed home. You see my friend has always wanted to be a runner. She suffers from bulimia and her weight fluctuates from 50-100 pounds in a matter of months. She will be 40 in January and her goal was to run a marathon. She ran most of 2007, attended spin classes and weight classes and lost about 100 pounds. She looked damn good. Then she had some bad things happen and let that all slide. This is someone I have known for years, and we have always gone on walks together, hiking, etc. When she was fit and healthy I was happy for her. Now she tells me I'm wrong for calling her and saying, " hey want to go for a walk " I should point out that walking and road trips are my way of connecting with people, getting to know them, spending one on one time with them. No hidden agenda in asking her to walk other than hanging out. Apparently I'm putting pressure on her to get off the couch and she is angry to the point of ending our friendship. -- Sheila " If you want real results, they're not coming for free. " --Jillian s Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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