Guest guest Posted July 5, 2007 Report Share Posted July 5, 2007 Hello Vicki, I am Luna, new to this group but when I read your message about your sweet former mother in law, I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. I am an empath and could " read " your feelings but I feel that is intrusive unless you are ok with it. From reading your message, dear, my heart goes out to you and your family. The transition of a loved one is very difficult, especially when brought on by such a traumatic illness as a major stroke. I feel that when you saw your mother in law, she was in the astral plane or her subtle body and was just letting you know she is ok. Her physical " shell " as I call the body our spirit chooses to inhabit is sick but whom she is deep inside is still very much alive and I have to agree, I feel she is ready to go to her " heaven " or the otherworld, whichever is her belief of the afterworld. Your son, although I am sure is sad, has in his own way accepted his grandmother's passing being near, although difficult, he is trying to be strong. Your daughter may seem angry for she finds it difficult to express that she does not want her grandmother to pass and I agree, you may have hit the nail on the head when you said she is having much difficulty with seeing her grandmother in pain. I lost 13 members of my family, 2 cats are included in that number in the span of 3 years and it is a very difficult thing, death...At some point though, your heart and your family's hearts will find some peace. A friend told me and I believe this also, that death is never easy, you never forget and the pain just becomes more tolerable as the years go by...I hope this helps you, dear and I will keep your sweet mother in law in my thoughts as well as yourself, Vicki, and your loving family...Brightest Blessings to you and yours and I am here for you! Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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