SV: Re: lying

[Guest guest]

this is of why for me some people make the verbal language too

hard for me to do and cant so I to just sit silent among them. if

the words go too fast and are in fashions of idioms and or sarcasim,

and things of this it makes me just sit in confusion stuck trying to

figure out the words and after a short time will no longer be of

listening to the words but just trying to be of polite and will just

echo the actions of the people in the setting and just sit quietly

and be parallel in the actions but not able to do the words.

sondra

In Autism_in_Girls , Karolina Sjödin

wrote:

>

> I feel that you explain that very well, Sondra. My problems in

interacting with my colleague in my work, is that I never know what

she is to say and how I should react. The problem is that NT people

are never outright speaking

> ,you always have to look for hidden meanings and hints and it´s

such things you are not able to fully comprehend. It stresses me, and

I ask her, thats not always popular...*wry smile*

>  

>

> --- Den tors 2008-10-09 skrev sondra :

>

> Från: sondra

> Ämne: Re: lying

> Till: Autism_in_Girls

> Datum: torsdag 9 oktober 2008 06.35

>

>

>

>

>

>

> my speaking events I to speak of this honesty. and how that this

> wonderful attribute that many with autism have that we are cruely

> punished for it because we do not have the ability to counter the

> truth with more information so we simply will share the yes or no

> parts because that is of telling the truth but often we do not have

> of more ability to express the whys of it.... or if the other

person

> denies of it we cant find the words or even know how to begin to

> defend of our truths for self protections this has been of a great

> issues for me from people who try to be of or do become of a close

> friend like person. when they turn they put all the blame to me and

I

> to have of no clue to what is of happening and why it is of

happening

> because it seems to come with no warning. it leaves me forever

> trapped into that state of frustrations of not being of able to

> defend of my own being.

>

> Lying is of one of the hardest things for me to grasp from others.

I

> to want to believe that all people are of being of honest in words

> and actions and it is of very confusing when others are of not

> speaking truthful words. It causes of me great internal distress

and

> I to feel so frustrated and not understand but want of to correct

of

> the words much so quickly and this causes of more issues. because

> people think I to be of want to fight or argue of things but this

is

> of not so I to just want to fix the words that are of coming out

> wrong.

>

> I to been of no longer fix of the words I to just take the blame

and

> such for it because I to learned I to not have of equal power to be

> of heard , expressed and or to compete with others in this life.

many

> assume oh she has autism so she is of just confused and or things

of

> this and this upsets of me. because yes I to get of upset and

> struggle to inferred meaning or take of things literal but I to

know

> of what words often times others say almost word for word in some

> settings and so when a person denies to ever say that it makes of

me

> feel so defeated and so i to sit in silence now over such things.

But

> if one is of to do this to me I to be of them never can feel able

to

> trust of them again.

> sondra

>

> sondra

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> __________________________________________________________

> Låna pengar utan säkerhet. Jämför vilkor online hos Kelkoo.

> http://www.kelkoo.se/c-100390123-lan-utan-sakerhet.html?

partnerId=96915014

>

>