Guest guest Posted July 23, 2002 Report Share Posted July 23, 2002 Hi Gail, This is a bit late but I just wanted to echo what everyone else has said and tell you I hope you " go for it! " I was 25 years old when I was diagnosed over a year ago, it was really scary, my husband was only 26. I thought I should be fair and leave him to live a " normal " life (I was in a very bad flare and thought it would be like that forever - thank goodness it's not!) He thought I had gone dotty and told me he married me for better or worse and we'd get through this together and that he loved me whatever our lives would be. About 6 months ago he was told he might not be able to have children, his first reaction was to tell me he would understand if I wanted to leave him- Then it was MY turn to tell him HE was being dotty (further tests proved this was a misdiagnosis, the problem is more mine than his!) Anyway, I told him then that I didn't see a " return to sender if life's not perfect " sticker on his tuxedo at our wedding and that we would get through everything as a team, now he tells me the same. When you start off with someone you love you don't know what's in store for either of you down the road, speak to him and let yourself enjoy being happy, you deserve it after all you've been through. Hugs, Heidi _________________________________________________________________ Chat with friends online, try MSN Messenger: http://messenger.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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