Hard time dealing with daughters aggression

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Hi I was wondering how you all, dealing with aggression, handle it. I

am having a real hard time after our episode last night. She scratched

me up pretty good. This time she gave me a good one on the side of my

face. Not to mention my arms and hands. Does this happen to anyone

else? I am embarrassed to go out of my house. I am also feeling kind of

sad about it. I know I should not take it personal and I dont think I

am but I am feeling a little heart broken because these things happen

to us. Is there certain teqhniques you all use to restrain those

needing to be restrained? If so could you share. My daughter is as big

as me at 11 and a half. Thanks, I think I just need some possitive

words.