Re: Faith and Loneliness-Lynn

[Guest guest]

Hi Lynn

I have to agree with you that being alone is better than being in a bad

marriage. I did have some people say that I was a bad mother for depriving

my son of his father. I came back with the same reply that you have. I am

not depriving him of his father. His father just can't live with us.

Sometimes it is better not to have one than to have a terrible one and be

psychologically scarred. I also do not want a bar person. That type of life

is definitely not for me. I guess I'll just have to wait a little longer.

Hugs,

Stacey in PA

[Guest guest]

Hi Stacey,

I have had all that said to me and worse. My children were older when I

divorced and I even had someone say, it was harder on them because they were

older. I beg to differ my children came to court with me and sat with me.

There

so called father didn't even speak to them. I divorced my husband and so did my

children. I just won't listen to what people say or don't say. We lived the

nightmare with him and I know we did the right thing. So it takes me back to my

belief, if you didn't live it don't comment on it. We are so much happier

without him, he had become such an embarrassment. I knew my kids deserved

better. I wish there was someone in my life, maybe it is God's plan down the

line. See I use to think God was mad at me for the divorce but I know he is

not. I had to loss some catholic teaching before I realized this. Know you

did

what was best, you know it and that is all that matters.

Lynn (MeMom)

bintherdunit@... wrote:

> Hi Lynn

> I have to agree with you that being alone is better than being in a bad

> marriage. I did have some people say that I was a bad mother for depriving

> my son of his father. I came back with the same reply that you have. I am

> not depriving him of his father. His father just can't live with us.

> Sometimes it is better not to have one than to have a terrible one and be

> psychologically scarred. I also do not want a bar person. That type of life

> is definitely not for me. I guess I'll just have to wait a little longer.

> Hugs,

> Stacey in PA

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