Just got back from ER/Surgery

[Guest guest]

Debs...we love you and I am so sorry to hear this

......

please I am sure your family ...especially your girls

will take you whatever way they can have

you....everyone is so worried about you....you have

been through so much...dont give up.....cry all you

want ....you deserve it .....I wish there was

something I could say or do to fix this for

you......you have my thoughts and prayers and I know a

whole group of people that think you are

tops......hugs to you Debs and I wish I was there to

give them in person instead of cyber hugs......Kathi

in OK

--- Auntblabbie2000@... wrote:

> Hi,

>

> Well, here I go again. I have just returned from my

> local ER who had to do

> emergency surgery to stop hemorrhaging in my right

> knee. They had to remove

> one of the staples and debride for infection and

> then close up the incision.

> I am on total bed rest in the immobilizer and they

> gave me one pain pill.

> Ron and came with me to change the towels on

> our way to the hospital.

> I am sitting here crying as a I type this because I

> am so frustrated with

> this situation. Now I have to see the hematologist

> and I see the ortho on

> Tuesday as he is out of town on Monday. I have

> blood all over my house,

> looks like a massacre. I can't take living with

> this disease any more. It

> is too hard on me and most importantly, my family.

> The look on 's face,

> I will never forget. This is no way to live your

> life. I can see almost a

> carbon copy of my Dad's life. It is like reliving

> my childhood and I don't

> want to do that to my girls. Ron, of course, is

> back sleeping right now and

> the girls are watching me like I am going to explode

> at any minute.

>

> To all my dear, sweet friends, who called or prayed

> for me while I had my

> surgery, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

> You will never be

> forgotten. You mean more to me than my family. God

> has so richly blessed me

> in the friends department.

>

> I will love you always,

>

> Debs in FL

>

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[Guest guest]

Oh Debs, you have been through so much. Your doctor

needs to give you adequate pain medication for the

procedure you have just been through and the

complications that you are having. I had a fairly

extensive knee surgery almost three years ago, nothing

like yours of course, I was in a lot of pain, but my

doctor sent me home on Vicodin and kept the refills

coming when I needed it and I sure did. I cannot even

imagine the amount of pain you must be having.

Please don't worry about your family - they love you

and you are their wife, their mother, and you are the

only person in the entire world who could fill those

shoes. I am sure they are much more worried about you

than you could ever be about them right now - you will

all make it through this and be a stronger family for

it. Let them take care of you, don't push yourself to

do anything more than simply let nature and God take

their time to get you better. All of us are thinking

of you, Debs, and sending healing thoughts and white

light your way, and hoping that you find some relief

soon for your pain.

Kathe in CA

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[Guest guest]

Deb,if it was possible for me to be with you at this time I would. The next best

thing would be to phone and talk to you. If you care to send your number, I

would like to try to help if only by listening. I am keeping you close to my

heart while you face yet another struggle. Just know that we are all with you in

spirit.

Hugs

June

[Guest guest]

June,

You are always with me in spirit. I always feel your strength and hope thru

your posts.

I will miss you during the time that you are gone, but hopefully, when you

return, we will both be back on our " feet " !

Take care, my friend!

Gentle, tender, angel hugs,

Debs in FL