Guest guest Posted June 7, 2008 Report Share Posted June 7, 2008 I don't know if this is directed at me or not, but there are some things I want to say. Maybe I can explain a bit. I don't see anything improperly personal about this at all, at least where I am coming from, although naturally I cannot speak for what others have said. But I think it is being mis-characterised here. I'm absolutely in favour of people having opinions contrary to mine - so I'd say it is a much greater than " toleration " . I've been at university doing one degree or another for about 20 years. The whole point of academia is to make claims and defend them, and it would be less than no fun if people didn't disagree. It's basically institutionalised disagreement, and that's where I've chosen to spend my life. I wonder if it was libelous when I wrote my dissertation asserting that one of my professor's arguments was incoherent. However, when someone presents a paper, or directly says that 1 + 1 = 12, or 1 + 1 = elephant - and I think it's about something important, I'm going to disagree. It's nothing personal, it's about what has been said, and I don't even see why that has the appearance of being personal. My issue in this case is with the 1 + 1 = elephant claim that was made. And sorry, but when something like this comes out of someone's mouth, I don't respect them for having a differing point of view. Then when I am telling someone about it, I talk about how they stood up and said something stupid. He didn't even get to something arguable or contestable that anyone *could* disagree with - it was just literal nonsense from the word go. That's what the " stupid " comments are all about, based on the direct statements made, the evidence he provided when he spoke. When someone says something that is just plain fallacious, and then purports to be an authority, I think it is appropriate and correct and human to consider what their biases are, including their emotional biases - just as pro-vax people discount studies done by people who make money by selling jabs. And regarding his son, I am very uncomfortable with a person who jumps up and makes the point that he has an autistic child every time it suits his purpose the way he does. ly I find this very exploitative and I'm certain this is because he thinks it makes his argument stronger (which is just another example of his grossly inadequate reasoning skills), because after all, if a parent of an autistic child doesn't want to blame vaccines (and he's a GP too, important to mention that because he knows some people will be fooled into thinking he's making some brand of sense because of his job), then he must be speaking the truth, and not in denial. There's no other reason for *him* to be interjecting the personal into his claims. So yes, when someone chooses to make something personal one of the premises of his argument, it's quite likely to be discussed. And lastly, I think the whole " toleration " for everyone else's view is overrated. I think it engenders this politically-correct camaraderie and false sense of respect and goodwill at the expense of the quest for good science or what works or rigorous thinking. Someone has just recently said on the list that they're now scared of chelation because of some (again erroneous) comments made by people claiming authority. I've seen it before on this list when there is a disagreement, and I just really am unwilling to play along with that, I'm truly sorry if that makes people uncomfortable. I wouldn't hire a physician who felt very passionately that our children could be cured with lead and mercury, no matter how great his fervor, and I wouldn't listen to someone else recommend it without weighing in, even if it does upset peace and harmony and makes me appear to not be tolerating someone else's view. If this physician is really someone who really, really just cares about whether we are harming our children, it would benefit all of us a great deal if he would stop speaking in logical fallacies. There is no lack of toleration for views that are not the same as my own, but I am rather slavish in that I do insist that people adhere to the basic dictates of reason, even if others are not as stringent. I'm glad that you posted what you think. I am in complete, sincere agreement with you that is important for people to be able to disagree. I hope you don't decide to leave the group over this, even though I personally quite understand the annoyance of having to write posts like these, but like you, I don't want people to think I endorse what has been said. I don't think anyone needs to be censored - presumably we're all adult enough to be able to deal with our emotional reactions to what other people say, and to respond, if we choose. I do want to say that I think the honest discourse is more important than the annoyance, at least for me. > > > The whole of this week the general attitude regarding Fitzpatrick has > greatly bothered me - the name-calling, making reference to his son, and various > conspiracies/theories regarding him... Why is it so hard to tolerate someone > who has an opposing view without resorting to personal or emotive comments > about him? I have found the discussion to be very alienating and quite painful > actually. > Personally I admire him for one thing - for standing up for what he believes > in. Maybe, just maybe, he thinks we are genuinely harming our kids and this > is a cause that he sees validity in standing up for. ly, I'd rather see > someone passionate and active for a cause they believe in than the sea of > apathy that I see around me everyday among my peers. I find apathy so very much > more harmful (and dangerous) than activism, even if the activism is > diametrically opposed to my personal view. At least activism often welcomes > dicourse and debate and can provoke people to thought. A complete and utter lack > of tolerance for views outside of one’s own is, to be very frank, > proto-fascist. > I understand that some people here feel very strongly about biomed and > helping and informing others but please, don’t take the very weak position of > making personal attacks and resorting to name calling, etc. I want to be here to > help others help their kids, that’s all, and when this happens it feels that > if I remain silent then I tacitly endorse the sentiment that is being > bandied about. I don’t want to have to post posts like this but I think that I > have two choices †" either leave the biomed group (something I don’t want to > do) or speak up. So there you go, I’m annoyed that I have to open this > potential can o' worms but I don’t feel that I can be silent. > Darla > PS I think I did, a few years ago refer to him by a not so nice name in an > email just in case anyone thinks I’m being self-righteous here. The slander > has never gone as far as it has this time, if I recall correctly. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2008 Report Share Posted June 7, 2008 Amen to that. And as steph said, he is not just another neurodiverse out there, what he says carries certain weight unfortunately. We, including DAN! doctors, can all write hundreds of letters to say BMJ, and they would not get a second glance from the editor. Yet this guy writes in again and again, and his comments get published again and again, and they get read by people like my GP, who forms his opinions partly on what he reads in BMJ etc etc... nx > > > > > > The whole of this week the general attitude regarding Fitzpatrick has > > greatly bothered me - the name-calling, making reference to his > son, and various > > conspiracies/theories regarding him... Why is it so hard to > tolerate someone > > who has an opposing view without resorting to personal or emotive > comments > > about him? I have found the discussion to be very alienating and > quite painful > > actually. > > Personally I admire him for one thing - for standing up for what he > believes > > in. Maybe, just maybe, he thinks we are genuinely harming our kids > and this > > is a cause that he sees validity in standing up for. ly, I'd > rather see > > someone passionate and active for a cause they believe in than the > sea of > > apathy that I see around me everyday among my peers. I find apathy > so very much > > more harmful (and dangerous) than activism, even if the activism is > > diametrically opposed to my personal view. At least activism > often welcomes > > dicourse and debate and can provoke people to thought. A complete > and utter lack > > of tolerance for views outside of one’s own is, to be very frank, > > proto-fascist. > > I understand that some people here feel very strongly about biomed and > > helping and informing others but please, don’t take the very weak > position of > > making personal attacks and resorting to name calling, etc. I want > to be here to > > help others help their kids, that’s all, and when this happens it > feels that > > if I remain silent then I tacitly endorse the sentiment that is being > > bandied about. I don’t want to have to post posts like this but > I think that I > > have two choices †" either leave the biomed group (something I > don’t want to > > do) or speak up. So there you go, I’m annoyed that I have to > open this > > potential can o' worms but I don’t feel that I can be silent. > > Darla > > PS I think I did, a few years ago refer to him by a not so nice > name in an > > email just in case anyone thinks I’m being self-righteous here. > The slander > > has never gone as far as it has this time, if I recall correctly. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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