Re: Introducing myself, Tyler, Texas

[Guest guest]

Do you have tricare insurance? That has. Great autism services coverage. If you are interested in ABA, please contact me. Regan Roth Fitzgerald, M.Ed., BCBABoard Certified Behavior Analyst Autism SpecialistB.E.S.T.www.bestaba.com reganfitzgerald@...Sent via BlackBerry by AT&TDate: Wed, 26 Nov 2008 08:06:10 -0800 (PST)To: <Texas-Autism-Advocacy >Subject: Introducing myself, Tyler, Texas Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step? Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Tomeka

It sounds like you are doing what you need to do. I realized something was "different" about my son when he was almost 4 years old. He lost a lot of his words and was happy to play all alone. I live in Kaufman, not too far from you. I would be happy to e-mail back and forth. You can also read my blog at:

www.autismblessingschallenges.blogspot.com

Let me say my son just turned 7 years old and he is doing great! It is HARD to realize your child may have Autism, I cried for 2 months straight. Then I decided to move on!!

KRISTI

Subject: Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasTo: Texas-Autism-Advocacy Date: Wednesday, November 26, 2008, 10:06 AM

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor

because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Tomeka,

I recommend that you contact Kim at POAC TX, www.poactx.org.

She is the parent of an older child with autism and is a great resource

for finding services in East TX. POAC is a non-profit organization.

Gail

Tomeka White wrote:

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a

beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very

happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to

the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21

years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception

of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just

taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other

people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I

was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example,

ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his

fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise

instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to

ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with

the doctor because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is

extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help

seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment

with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I

welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Hi Tomeka & welcome! You also need to contact ECI

(Early Childhood Intervention). http://www.dars.state.tx.us/ecis/index.shtml

Since your son has a speech delay, he should be eligible for

services until he turns 3. After that, your local school is

responsible.

Tonya

From:

Texas-Autism-Advocacy

[mailto:Texas-Autism-Advocacy ] On Behalf Of Tomeka White

Sent: Wednesday, November 26, 2008 10:06 AM

To: Texas-Autism-Advocacy

Subject: Introducing myself, Tyler, Texas

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of

a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very

happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the

Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years.

We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed

speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his

time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people

while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was

devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example,

ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his

fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise

instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride

Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor

because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely

hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far

out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric

neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your

comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Thanks Regan... Yes we do have Tricare Prime. Do you know of any developmental pediatricians here in East Texas?

Tomeka

Subject: Re: Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasTo: Texas-Autism-Advocacy Date: Wednesday, November 26, 2008, 4:12 PM

Do you have tricare insurance? That has. Great autism services coverage. If you are interested in ABA, please contact me. Regan Roth Fitzgerald, M.Ed., BCBABoard Certified Behavior Analyst Autism SpecialistB.E.S.T.www.bestaba. com reganfitzgerald@ bestaba.comSent via BlackBerry by AT & T

From: Tomeka White <tomekawhite1176@ yahoo.com>Date: Wed, 26 Nov 2008 08:06:10 -0800 (PST)To: <Texas-Autism- Advocacy@ yahoogroups. com>Subject: [Texas-Autism- Advocacy] Introducing myself, Tyler, Texas

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor

because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

I don't know any in east texas just dallas. Feel free to call me anytime. I am an autism specialist and behavior analyst and I have a family member on the spectrum.Regan Roth Fitzgerald, M.Ed., BCBABoard Certified Behavior Analyst Autism SpecialistB.E.S.T.www.bestaba.com reganfitzgerald@...Sent via BlackBerry by AT&TDate: Wed, 26 Nov 2008 11:11:57 -0800 (PST)To: <Texas-Autism-Advocacy >Subject: Re: Introducing myself, Tyler, Texas Thanks Regan... Yes we do have Tricare Prime. Do you know of any developmental pediatricians here in East Texas?TomekaFrom: Regan Fitzgerald <reganfitzgeraldbestaba>Subject: Re: Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasTo: Texas-Autism-Advocacy Date: Wednesday, November 26, 2008, 4:12 PMDo you have tricare insurance? That has. Great autism services coverage. If you are interested in ABA, please contact me. Regan Roth Fitzgerald, M.Ed., BCBABoard Certified Behavior Analyst Autism SpecialistB.E.S.T.www.bestaba. com reganfitzgerald@ bestaba.comSent via BlackBerry by AT & TFrom: Tomeka White <tomekawhite1176@ yahoo.com>Date: Wed, 26 Nov 2008 08:06:10 -0800 (PST)To: <Texas-Autism- Advocacy@ yahoogroups. com>Subject: [Texas-Autism- Advocacy] Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasHello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step? Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Kristi,

Thanks for the advice. I can relate about the initial shock of learning that there may be something wrong with your child. I hven't been able to focus on anything this entire week. The Thanksgiving turkey is still in the freezer. (Not to mention today is my birthday.) I can't help blaming myself and thinking what could I have done differently. I wonder is he suffering due to his inability to communicate with us. I watch his struggle to give us huggies and kisses like he did a month ago. It's like he wants to accept us loving him but as if something is holding him back. It's just a very helpless feeling inside. Regardless he's still the sweetest little boy I know. I would love to email back and forth with you. Any advice you have is appreciated greatly.

Tomeka

From: Tomeka White <tomekawhite1176@ yahoo.com>Subject: [Texas-Autism- Advocacy] Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasTo: Texas-Autism- Advocacy@ yahoogroups. comDate: Wednesday, November 26, 2008, 10:06 AM

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor

because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Thanks Gail... I'm so glad to hear that there are people here in the East Texas area who are willing to help. I'll be in touch!

Tomeka

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor

because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Tomeka,

My e-mail is butterflylady97@.... I started a blog to release some of what I was going through. It has really been therapy for me!

Hope to hear from you soon.

Kristi A.

From: Tomeka White <tomekawhite1176@ yahoo.com>Subject: [Texas-Autism- Advocacy] Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasTo: Texas-Autism- Advocacy@ yahoogroups. comDate: Wednesday, November 26, 2008, 10:06 AM

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor

because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Thanks Tonya! How does this program work? Do they qualify you by your income? How long does it usually take to get help started?

Tomeka

Subject: RE: Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasTo: Texas-Autism-Advocacy Date: Wednesday, November 26, 2008, 5:55 PM

Hi Tomeka & welcome! You also need to contact ECI (Early Childhood Intervention) . http://www.dars. state.tx. us/ecis/index. shtml

Since your son has a speech delay, he should be eligible for services until he turns 3. After that, your local school is responsible.

Tonya

From: Texas-Autism- Advocacy@ yahoogroups. com [mailto:Texas- Autism-Advocacy@ yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of Tomeka WhiteSent: Wednesday, November 26, 2008 10:06 AMTo: Texas-Autism- Advocacy@ yahoogroups. comSubject: [Texas-Autism- Advocacy] Introducing myself, Tyler, Texas

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with

the doctor because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Ok, Thanks I will.

From: Regan Fitzgerald <reganfitzgerald@ bestaba.com>Subject: Re: [Texas-Autism- Advocacy] Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasTo: Texas-Autism- Advocacy@ yahoogroups. comDate: Wednesday, November 26, 2008, 4:12 PM

Do you have tricare insurance? That has. Great autism services coverage. If you are interested in ABA, please contact me. Regan Roth Fitzgerald, M.Ed., BCBABoard Certified Behavior Analyst Autism SpecialistB.E.S.T.www.bestaba. com reganfitzgerald@ bestaba.comSent via BlackBerry by AT & T

From: Tomeka White <tomekawhite1176@ yahoo.com>Date: Wed, 26 Nov 2008 08:06:10 -0800 (PST)To: <Texas-Autism- Advocacy@ yahoogroups. com>Subject: [Texas-Autism- Advocacy] Introducing myself, Tyler, Texas

Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor

because this was his absolute favorite thing to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?

Tomeka

[Guest guest]

Happy to help!

When we used ECI (1996-97) it was completely free. I don’t

know about now. Many state services have gone to a sliding scale. (That

means what you pay is based on your income.) According to their

website, the evaluation & assessment is free, so I’d sure call them.

If there is a fee for the services they recommend, you can decide then whether

or not to accept them.

We received Speech therapy & occupational therapy (helps

with motor skills) through ECI. There was also a lady that I think may

have been a social worker that would come and visit with me and a home teacher

that visited weekly. The teacher and I became friends, which isn’t “official”

therapy, but has been invaluable through the years. She too had a child

with special needs and helped me get started advocating for our son.

Tonya

From: Texas-Autism-Advocacy

[mailto:Texas-Autism-Advocacy ] On Behalf Of Tomeka White

Sent: Wednesday, November 26, 2008 1:42 PM

To: Texas-Autism-Advocacy

Subject: RE: Introducing myself, Tyler, Texas

[Guest guest]

Tomeka my first suggestion to you is to establish your belief about

autism. If you believe as the mainstream that it is a lifelong

disability with no cure then you like them, will begin therapies and

attitude that operate off of this belief. Your response will be

based on your belief. Many " experts " in the mainstream almost

looked at me in pity as I believed in myself and my son. How sad

they felt to see this mother in denial. They tried so hard to get

me " to see and accept. " Acceptance doesn't mean passivity. I

stay away from folks like this. No thankyou, do not take hope away

from me when it comes to my child. My husband and I don't have

autism and I was going to find out what happened. What has caused

this explosion??

Though my son at 18 months was " gone in his own world " with no

language, or eye contact, and constant stimming I decided that I

believed we would be one family who would recover. So I started

finding families who were experiencing success. Moms who were

taking matters into their own hands like Kim Wallace at Spectrum of

Hope.

My son is very far into his recovery today at 5. He is alert,

talking, looking, playing, laughing, no sensory dsyfunction,

mainstreamed for swimming/gymnastics (the instructors didn't know)

etc... Last night he finished his young coconut kefir, salad, and

asked May I be excused. He then carried his bowl to the sink

returning with a smile and great eye contact " mommy come play with me

in my playroom. " The other day I was interviewing someone for our

sonrise playroom to address his social milestones that he missed

during his early childhood. Anyway I had 4 5 yr old kids playing

outside and she couldn't determine which kid she was here to

interview for.

Some searches below if you believe as we decided:

generation rescue

care clinics

thoughtful house

spectrum of hope

body ecology diet

pecanbread (scd)

autism treatment center of america (sonrise)

autism research institute

USAAA

Blessings for young Donovan!

>

> Hello!  My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22

month old son, Donovan.  Donovan has always been a very happy,

independent toddler.  My husband and I have just relocated to the

Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21

years.  We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the

exception of delayed speech.  He was learning new words so we figured

he was just taking his time.  A few days ago I noticed how he

interacted with other people while we out at a family function. 

After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many

signs of autism.  For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling

his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at

night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words,

and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that

it was time to make him an appt with the doctor because this was his

absolute favorite thing

> to do.  This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the

area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach.  We are now

awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a

developmental pediatrician.  I welcome all of your comments and

advice.  What should be my next step?

>  

> Tomeka

>

[Guest guest]

, My husband and I really enjoyed reading your email. Your experience and knowledge give us hope and inspire us to beat autism. Like you we refuse to believe that autism is a disability. Although Donovan show some signs of autism, he is still eager to play and learn different things. My family and I have been trying different things to stimulate his mind (musical instruments, puzzles, books), and give him self confidence. I do believe and I would love to talk with you to learn more. I am new to the Tyler area and I would hear of any assistance or groups here. Again, Thanks !

Tomeka

Subject: Re: Introducing myself, Tyler, TexasTo: Texas-Autism-Advocacy Date: Saturday, November 29, 2008, 3:48 PM

Tomeka my first suggestion to you is to establish your belief about autism. If you believe as the mainstream that it is a lifelong disability with no cure then you like them, will begin therapies and attitude that operate off of this belief. Your response will be based on your belief. Many "experts" in the mainstream almost looked at me in pity as I believed in myself and my son. How sad they felt to see this mother in denial. They tried so hard to get me "to see and accept." Acceptance doesn't mean passivity. I stay away from folks like this. No thankyou, do not take hope away from me when it comes to my child. My husband and I don't have autism and I was going to find out what happened. What has caused this explosion??Though my son at 18 months was "gone in his own world" with no language, or eye contact, and constant stimming I decided that I believed we would be one family who would

recover. So I started finding families who were experiencing success. Moms who were taking matters into their own hands like Kim Wallace at Spectrum of Hope. My son is very far into his recovery today at 5. He is alert, talking, looking, playing, laughing, no sensory dsyfunction, mainstreamed for swimming/gymnastics (the instructors didn't know)etc... Last night he finished his young coconut kefir, salad, and asked May I be excused. He then carried his bowl to the sink returning with a smile and great eye contact "mommy come play with me in my playroom." The other day I was interviewing someone for our sonrise playroom to address his social milestones that he missed during his early childhood. Anyway I had 4 5 yr old kids playing outside and she couldn't determine which kid she was here to interview for. Some searches below if you believe as we decided:generation rescuecare

clinicsthoughtful housespectrum of hopebody ecology dietpecanbread (scd)autism treatment center of america (sonrise)autism research instituteUSAAABlessings for young Donovan!>> Hello! My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22 month old son, Donovan. Donovan has always been a very happy, independent toddler. My husband and I have just relocated to the Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21 years. We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the exception of delayed speech. He was learning new words so we figured he was just taking his time. A few days ago I noticed how he interacted

with other people while we out at a family function. After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had many signs of autism. For example, ignoring the call of his name, rolling his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness at night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words, and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then that it was time to make him an appt with the doctor because this was his absolute favorite thing> to do. This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach. We are now awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a developmental pediatrician. I welcome all of your comments and advice. What should be my next step?> > Tomeka>

[Guest guest]

Tomeka I appreciate your post. I wanted to clarify that I do see

autism as a disability. However my belief of disability is

different than the mainstream. Also I see autism as a

disability....a challenge, however I don't accept an automatic

assumption of LIFELONG with NO cure. If you stop there our kids

have no chance.

They are human beings who are not genetically defective is my only

point. They have environmental insult on their unique genetics and

have missed milestones in development during a critical time in

development. But they are lovely children and human beings who

desearve hope. Anyone who claims to be an " expert " but only sees

autism when they see my child is not the energy we want in our home.

Tomeka I get your main point though. You choose to have hope and

Donovan is lucky. Do take this seriously though. Autism left

untreated can continue to get complicated. What looks not so severe

at 18-14 months can become quite a challenge even by 4. So get on

this. My intent is just to offer hope that our children have

symptoms and this doesn't have to be a lifelong sentence. Therapies

will be more effective if your child is well. Healing the body with

therapies such as ABA or sonrise or RDI is my best advice.

Blessings,

> >

> > Hello!  My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22

> month old son, Donovan.  Donovan has always been a very happy,

> independent toddler.  My husband and I have just relocated to the

> Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for 21

> years.  We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the

> exception of delayed speech.  He was learning new words so we

figured

> he was just taking his time.  A few days ago I noticed how he

> interacted with other people while we out at a family function. 

> After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had

many

> signs of autism.  For example, ignoring the call of his name,

rolling

> his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels, restlessness

at

> night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal words,

> and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then

that

> it was time to make him an appt with the doctor because this was

his

> absolute favorite thing

> > to do.  This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the

> area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach.  We are now

> awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a

> developmental pediatrician.  I welcome all of your comments and

> advice.  What should be my next step?

> >  

> > Tomeka

> >

>

[Guest guest]

corrections to fast typing:

18-24 months symptoms may not look so bad, but can unravel quickly

into a challenging situation even by 4

Also heal the body SO that therapies such as

RDI

ABA

sonrise

can be more effective is my point. Healing needs to come from

addressing immune damage, infections, metal load, gut damage etc.....

Hope this helps

> > >

> > > Hello!  My name is Tomeka and I am the mother of a beautiful 22

> > month old son, Donovan.  Donovan has always been a very happy,

> > independent toddler.  My husband and I have just relocated to the

> > Tyler, Texas area after traveling all over with the military for

21

> > years.  We thought that Donovan was developing fine, with the

> > exception of delayed speech.  He was learning new words so we

> figured

> > he was just taking his time.  A few days ago I noticed how he

> > interacted with other people while we out at a family function. 

> > After doing some research, I was devastated to read that he had

> many

> > signs of autism.  For example, ignoring the call of his name,

> rolling

> > his eyes back in his head, his fascination of wheels,

restlessness

> at

> > night, a sudden squealing noise instead of saying his normal

words,

> > and his dislike of going outside to ride Big Wheel. I knew then

> that

> > it was time to make him an appt with the doctor because this was

> his

> > absolute favorite thing

> > > to do.  This is extremely hard for us because we are new to the

> > area and finding help seem to be so far out of reach.  We are now

> > awaiting an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and a

> > developmental pediatrician.  I welcome all of your comments and

> > advice.  What should be my next step?

> > >  

> > > Tomeka

> > >

> >

>