Rosie

[Guest guest]

So sad that your husband would do something like that in front of your

dear mum. I personally think that you will be better off with out him

and his mum.

I always think that the best revenge is success, you will show the pair

of them that you can make a success of your life in all aspects:

professionally, intellectually, financially, with great and successful

kids and last but not least romantically... soon the weight will be

gone for good and you will be a different looking girl, wearing

gorgeous clothes, with many friends and admirers in your life...just

remember that you have us who will be here to encourage you along the

way.

This is your chance to design your life the way YOU want, you will live

in the house that you want, in the suburb that you want, you can drive

the car you want!

Courage and strenght my dear Rosie

Hugs

[Guest guest]

Hi Andi, yep, I consider his attitude towards me and lack of respect

a form of abuse. Even though I blame his mother for causing our

problems, I blame him for us being in the situation we are in today,

because he never had the balls to stand up for me when he should

have. I've never asked him to argue with his mum, but when she's

overstepped the line, like causing WW3 when I didn't invite her to

his workers' Xmas dinner, I did expect him to say something then.

The problem is that he actually thinks it was appropriate for her to

be there and that it was no big deal if I had invited her.

As far as the kids go, I know he loves them dearly but how can he be

a good role model of a man if he is still attached to the umbilical

cord?

I still love him. How do you stop loving someone after 21 years of

marriage? He says he doesn't love me anymore. But I don't think

he's ever really loved me, because he's never shown it in any way

apart from in the bedroom - and that's not real love, just sex.

He took the kids to dinner and a movie last night. In all our

married life he has never asked me to dinner and a movie. It's

always me that's instigated the going out.

I've been expected to go to work, cook, clean, wash, taxi the kids,

take care of all the bills etc, do his bookwork, and then feel like

screwing him at night.

Well, I hope he's happy now. As much as I love him, I can seen he's

not good for me, so I don't want him back. EVER.

How are you going anyway? So close to the wedding. Ooh, how

exciting!

Love, Rose.

>

> Sweetheart, there is only so much that you should have to endure

in

> one sitting.... Your husband (soon to be your " kick him as hard

as

> you can up the arse ex husband " ) obviously has no respect for

you.

> Not to mention your mother, but even worse, he seems not to be

worried

> about his own kids. This is sad indeed.

>

> You are an amazingly strong woman and you amaze me with what seems

to

> be inner strength in your messages that you are writting here. I

know

> that you would be hurting, but as I said in your messages I can

hear

> the pain, but I can also hear that strength that few people have.

I

> admire your courage in this time and just know we are all here for

you

> when you need to call on us.

>

> Keep that strong resolve Rosie, because honestly he is doing

nothing

> for you or your loving family, you are all much better off without

him.

>

> With love

> Andi

>

[Guest guest]

Hi Andi, yep, I consider his attitude towards me and lack of respect

a form of abuse. Even though I blame his mother for causing our

problems, I blame him for us being in the situation we are in today,

because he never had the balls to stand up for me when he should

have. I've never asked him to argue with his mum, but when she's

overstepped the line, like causing WW3 when I didn't invite her to

his workers' Xmas dinner, I did expect him to say something then.

The problem is that he actually thinks it was appropriate for her to

be there and that it was no big deal if I had invited her.

As far as the kids go, I know he loves them dearly but how can he be

a good role model of a man if he is still attached to the umbilical

cord?

I still love him. How do you stop loving someone after 21 years of

marriage? He says he doesn't love me anymore. But I don't think

he's ever really loved me, because he's never shown it in any way

apart from in the bedroom - and that's not real love, just sex.

He took the kids to dinner and a movie last night. In all our

married life he has never asked me to dinner and a movie. It's

always me that's instigated the going out.

I've been expected to go to work, cook, clean, wash, taxi the kids,

take care of all the bills etc, do his bookwork, and then feel like

screwing him at night.

Well, I hope he's happy now. As much as I love him, I can seen he's

not good for me, so I don't want him back. EVER.

How are you going anyway? So close to the wedding. Ooh, how

exciting!

Love, Rose.

>

> Sweetheart, there is only so much that you should have to endure

in

> one sitting.... Your husband (soon to be your " kick him as hard

as

> you can up the arse ex husband " ) obviously has no respect for

you.

> Not to mention your mother, but even worse, he seems not to be

worried

> about his own kids. This is sad indeed.

>

> You are an amazingly strong woman and you amaze me with what seems

to

> be inner strength in your messages that you are writting here. I

know

> that you would be hurting, but as I said in your messages I can

hear

> the pain, but I can also hear that strength that few people have.

I

> admire your courage in this time and just know we are all here for

you

> when you need to call on us.

>

> Keep that strong resolve Rosie, because honestly he is doing

nothing

> for you or your loving family, you are all much better off without

him.

>

> With love

> Andi

>