reasons for what appears tobe of lack of interest and or play

[Guest guest]

Theresa do you have maybe an easel board and or magnetic board. or

what if you did of the felt stories where one tells of the story

using the felt characters and you can make of it basic but it would

be of a thing one has to do for her but it will make simple stories

more visual?

If she is of able to match then the new candy land game which is not

a board game as in the past but now is of maked for preschoolers with

a hard plastic piece that fits onto a gingerbread man where you have

of to match the piece to teh shape. it is of to help with matching,

shapes , colors and finished sorts of things.

she sounds much like of me when I was to be of around age of 5 but

the things that did interest of me at that time as far as objects

were of cause and effects sorts of things. where if I to did one

things the toy reacted this way. such as today they have of race

tracks for preschoolers where you set the cars at the top and then

release of them and watch them race down. while did not understand

the associations to real race cars I to just liked of that movement

and it maked me happy. I to had no real stereotyped girls or boy

interest at that age it was of just cause and effect things/

To all, another things is no one ever teached me play or how things

worked or why they would be of fun so had no real play as a child

that was of typical in nature or development because no one helped me

learn of them. I to lacked their names, their reasons and such so it

was not a motivation for me to play with such things. I to remembered

when was of age 8 got a toy mixer things and loived of hte cause and

effect if I to turned it on the beater things twirled and this was of

my main interest to the toy altogether, but it was enjoyed by me much

so. I to also had of a peter pan book which was of my favorite things

to carry everywhere for a time.

the one good memory was of the birth father of me bouyed a kit where

you maked of you own hands be of a face and so could decorate of it

and then move of the thumb areas to make it look as if it were of

speaking to a person and this was of intriguing and yet some fearful

to me as did not understand it but he did expose of me to it. that

memory took of years to develop to a logical understand of hte

concept and so now can be of to look back to the past of it and see

it for what it was....but what saying was for me it was of more

inportant that adults or others around me expose me to the toys, do

the play of the toy modeling it and how it works, naming it and such

before it could bring me any motivation to want to seek of that toy

for self. sometimes lack of play too is not just developmental and or

cognitive, it can be of EF interfering and not being of able to know

of how motor wise to activate it or play with it. it is of for some

of us we may be mildly or severely impacted with movement and the

body cognitively might know WHAT to do but the body does not

cooperate to allow our bodies to move in ways to do the task we

understand cognitively.

it is of like of us putting 50 pound weights onto you wrist and legs

and putting onn a blind fold and then telling you, to do a simple

task of eating or drinking or going to the bathroom. since you are of

a seeing person you can visualize and know what to do but because you

have these huge weight and blindfolded it complicates doing what you

know you need to do. or better yet think of it as havingthese things

done to you and then expected to drive in a busy down town areas? now

thing of hte over all frustrations and anxiety and fear for knowing

how to do something but because of these barriers now cant do them

because you have some limitations preventing you from them. it is of

not a lazy thinking or a lack of motivations it is that the body does

not cooperate motor wise.

some of us cognitively cant understand the social aspects of playing

with doll or social interactive play, it is of too advanced but we

may enjoy as a baby just manipulating , tasting, carrying it, and

things of that..

sondra