Banks-Address & update

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I now have 's Address. So I can send that to you. I'm not sure how

these things should be handled. 1. I think it would be nice to know folks

" care " . 2. But then does it encourage harmful behaviour by giving the harmful

behaviour attention??? I really don't know...but it is probably better to error

with caring.

Also...I have received an email asking for Financial help for .

Well...let me just copy the email here (more from me at the end)

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The good news is that is home, safe, and feeling somewhat better.

The bad news, of course, is that her financial situation is unchanged. Because

of that, we are making an unabashed plea for help.

The situation is that she has at least $558 in DMV fees to register the car.

She has to purchase car insurance with a down payment of $150. She has a ticket

for non-registration of her car that amounts to $939, but they'll lop off $300

if we can get it paid by 3/28/2010. It is unclear if the other $639 includes

DMV registration fees or not. I'm hoping it does. And there's the car payment

of $404.87.

And I can tell you flat out that neither she nor I can repay any money that

comes in, so if you can give anything at all, it would have to be as a gift.

On 's behalf, and with her reluctant permission, I am putting out this

appeal for help. Maybe, if we can get the car registered, we can get her back

on her feet enough that she can take care of herself. If not, we will at least

have tried. If it works, she can hire a financial planner/manager to help keep

her from hurting herself financially again.

I know it's a lot to ask, and it takes a lot of nerve to ask it. I myself will

be going into the red before my next check on April 14th. So, anything you can

spare to help her out would be gratefully appreciated. Unless you're a lot

wealthier than I think you are, we won't make the total amount. But anything

that gets her closer to the target will help. Give if you can, and maybe, if

you're ever in need, we can return the favor.

Thanks for listening.

A. Whiting

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Ok...back to me. I don't know who this Whiting is. But he has been the

one sending out updates on and letting us know she had been hospitalized

and was " ok " After an AUTO Response Sucide note was sent out by . I want

to make it clear....I am NOT asking this group to send money. I don't know

enough about what is going on in 's life. is very " hit and miss "

on this group. I'm sure her bi-polar issues are largely to blame for this.

(Deep sigh) I care very Deeply....but I don't know what I will, should or can

do. So I'm just putting it out there...and you can decide for yourself. Since

they are Stating the need for money...and that can't happen without an address

I'm going to go ahead and post it:

Bank's mailing address is 1512 E. 5th Street, space 59, Ontario, CA,

91764.

I want to repeat...I am NOT suggesting we send money. I'm just passing on the

info.

Anybody out there who has some experience in this area and has some advice on

the whole issue...please speak up!

Hugs

Jo