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Hi ,

nice to meet you aww your lil guy sounds so cute I am mom to 3 2 are special needs my son has pdd adhd and is on 3 diff med's adderall risperdol and clondine my lil girl has aspbergers she is on adderall and abilify she has melt downs daily and fight everything then my baby she seems ok for now we are praying she is ok.

Hugs Kim

Hi My name is , My son Aiden, 8, has cerebral palsy (spastic diplegia) and has been taking risperdal and strattera to stabilize his mood, although they were hesitant to label him as bipolar at his age the Dr. said that is most likely what we are dealing with. I suspected aspergers when he was around 3 (we adopted him at age 28 mos from Korea) but it has been difficult to get people to listen to me because he is so engaging, charming, cute, intelligent etc when we are around others and even at school but then if there is one misstep at home it just sets him off or doing homework etc... it gets baaaaaaad. holes in the wall, knocked a hole in the BATHTUB of our new house, bites himself, bangs his head. We felt like we had to walk on eggshells. I really do want him to be happy and i love him more than the sun and the moon but im coming to realize that even if i put forth 110% he is still going to be unhappy when we are the ones that have to make him deviate from the thoughts that are playing over and over in his head.=( correction seems to make him escalate. happy as punch if you leave him alone or listen to his monologue... finally someone at school is listening and we have a therapist that is not fooled by his superficial novelties.... so i am hopeful, but a little sad. if he was just being 'bad' there was hope that he would decide to be 'good' but if its an actual diagnosis its going to be this way or worse for the long haul. he has to deal with cp and this... i try to prevent him from feeling sorry for himself or use his special needs as excuses but dang it i feel really bad for the little guy... thanks for listening

> Date: Sat, 19 May 2012 00:54:16 +0000> From: autism-aspergers-owner > To: seoultrainonanairplane@...> Subject: Yahoo! Groups: Welcome to autism-aspergers. Visit today! > > > Hello,> > Welcome to the autism-aspergers group at eGroups, a > free, easy-to-use email group service. Please > take a moment to review this message.> > To start sending messages to members of this group, > simply send email to > > autism-aspergersegroups> > If you do not wish to belong to autism-aspergers, you may > unsubscribe by sending an email to > > autism-aspergers-unsubscribeegroups> > You may also visit the eGroups web site to modify your > subscriptions:> > /mygroups> > > Regards,> > Moderat or, autism-aspergers> > > > >

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Can he do his homework at school?

Does he HAVE to have homework? What is he learning if he has meltdowns

doing his homework? We felt bad for our little guy who is now a big

guy and we made some serious mistakes because of how we felt. We have

always told him not to use his disabilities as an excuse and he doesn’t

but a lot of times, we did. Tonight, he said he doesn’t want to

live if his anxiety never gets any better. His anxiety is off the

charts. He has tried hard all his life and I fear he may go back to

drugs. He said an hour of peace is better than none at all. He has

been on a litany of drugs since he was diagnosed. Nothing seems to

work. I like the way you say “his monologue.” Too

cute. Welcome, by the way.

Eileen

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RE: Yahoo! Groups: Welcome to autism-aspergers. Visit ...

Hi ,

nice to meet you aww your lil guy sounds

so cute I am mom to 3 2 are special needs my son has pdd adhd and is

on 3 diff med's adderall risperdol and clondine my lil girl has aspbergers she

is on adderall and abilify she has melt downs daily and fight everything then

my baby she seems ok for now we are praying she is ok.

Hugs Kim

In a message dated 5/19/2012 4:45:12 P.M.

Pacific Daylight Time, seoultrainonanairplane@... writes:

Hi My name is , My son Aiden, 8,

has cerebral palsy (spastic diplegia) and has been taking risperdal and

strattera to stabilize his mood, although they were hesitant to label him as

bipolar at his age the Dr. said that is most likely what we are dealing

with. I suspected aspergers when he was around 3 (we adopted him at age

28 mos from Korea) but it has been difficult to get people to listen to me

because he is so engaging, charming, cute, intelligent etc when we are around

others and even at school but then if there is one misstep at home it just sets

him off or doing homework etc... it gets baaaaaaad. holes in the wall,

knocked a hole in the BATHTUB of our new house, bites himself, bangs his

head. We felt like we had to walk on eggshells. I really do want

him to be happy and i love him more than the sun and the moon but im coming to

realize that even if i put forth 110% he is still going to be unhappy when

we are the ones that have to make him deviate from the thoughts that are

playing over and over in his head.

=( correction seems to make him escalate. happy

as punch if you leave him alone or listen to his monologue... finally

someone at school is listening and we have a therapist that is not fooled

by his superficial novelties.... so i am hopeful, but a little

sad. if he was just being 'bad' there was hope that he would

decide to be 'good' but if its an actual diagnosis its going to be this way or

worse for the long haul. he has to deal with cp and this... i try to

prevent him from feeling sorry for himself or use his special needs as excuses

but dang it i feel really bad for the little guy... thanks for

listening

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