Guest guest Posted April 30, 2008 Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 We went through something similar with my husband's ex...........the method to HER madness was to set the visitations up to fail, so that the judge would think we were some sort of fools and the visitations would be canceled and she'd appear to be some sort of martyr for caring for this child with so many needs. The issue stemmed from me working with children in a special needs setting, so when she had an issue with the child, I would offer her suggestions.........not to step on her toes, but to help her and the child. She saw that as a threat. I agree that you should speak with all the people that your child spends time with, if your ex wife continues to ignore your requests..........if you still can't get the answers you are looking for, make a formal request to the judge for his assistance. My husband's ex was eventually charged with contempt of court............long story short, she eventually lost all custody of him and only has minimal contact. All the things she said he had issues with, have all proven wrong..............specifically, she said he could only drink from a bottle and must be fed, only baby food...........within a month of us having custody, the bottle was gone and he fed HIMSELF whatever we were eating................ Good Luck!-- Jacqui HawkinsCelebrating Abilities Inc4309 SW 19th AvenueCape Coral, FL 33914http://celebratingabilities.blogspot.com/ http://thelifeandtimesofastressedoutmom.blogspot.com/www.celebratingability.com " Schools belong to children... ALL children. Schools must continue to change classrooms to meet the needs of children, rather than trying to change students to meet the needs of classrooms! " "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are."Teddy Roosevelt " Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I may not forget you. " -- Arthur Ward, author, educator, speaker (1921-1994)Listen to the Mustn'ts, child, listen to the Don'ts.Listen to the Shouldn'ts, the Impossibles, the Won'ts.Listen to the Never Haves, then listen close to me. Anything can happen, child, Anything can be. (Shel Silverstein) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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