What To Ask For

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What To Ask For

by Alan Cohen

A man walks into

a restaurant with a large ostrich and sits down at a table to have breakfast.

The man orders a stack of pancakes, and the ostrich orders the same. The bill

comes to $15.95. The man reaches into his pocket and empties all his bills and

change, which equals exactly $15.95 plus a 15% tip.

The following week the man returns to the restaurant with the ostrich and the

same waitress comes to his table. This time he orders bacon and eggs, and so

does the ostrich. The bill comes to $19.50. He reaches into his pocket and takes

out exactly $19.50 plus a 15% tip.

A week later he comes in again with the ostrich. They both have the same

meal. The same waitress presents a check for $18.75. The man empties his pockets

and reveals exactly that amount plus the appropriate tip.

By this time the waitress is quite curious. "I am astounded, sir, that you

take this ostrich to breakfast every week, and that you always have the exact

amount of money," she explains. "How do you do that?"

"It's an amazing story," he answers. "Several years ago I was cleaning my

basement and I found an old bottle. When I opened it, a genie emerged. He told

me I could have two wishes. My first wish was to always have enough money to buy

anything I wanted. Now, wherever I go, I simply reach into my pocket and the

exact amount of money is there. I buy all my meals this way; I have also bought

a car, house, and vacations -- no matter how much anything costs, I have the

exact amount in my wallet or checkbook."

"That's astonishing!" replies the waitress. "And what was your second wish?"

"To marry a chick with long legs."

This story teaches a profound truth: Be conscious of what you are asking for.

You can pray for something specific and get it. Or you can pray for a quality of

life, and get that. Praying for specifics is risky, for you are dictating a

form. Praying for essence guarantees reward, for you are seeking an energy.

Emerson noted that a wise man in a storm prays not for the end of the storm, but

for the end of fear.

I know a man who prayed to receive checks in the mail. Then he did.

Unfortunately, they were social security checks addressed to the previous

tenants of his apartment. He would have done better to pray to recognize himself

as a prosperous being living in an abundant universe that meets all his needs in

wondrous ways.

I also know a woman who intensely wanted a relationship. She found a magazine

photo of a handsome man and posted it on her refrigerator as a sort of treasure

map. Within a short time she met a good-looking guy similar to the fellow in the

photo and started a relationship with him. After a while she discovered he was

an alcoholic, which ultimately ruined their relationship. Then she went back and

looked at her treasure map photo and saw that her dream man had a drink in his

hand. She would have done better to focus on the kind of man she sought and the

energy of the relationship that matched her heart's desires.

Rather than dictating a specific object as your goal, designate a quality of

experience. Sure, you can pray or strive for a particular mate, job, or house,

and get it. But you may find something lacking about it. You will find far more

joy if you set your intention for the essence of relationship, job, or home you

desire, and how you want to feel about it. If you had a relationship that was

deeply fulfilling, replete with joy and passion, would the specifics matter that

much?

Get clear on where you want to go, and let God fill in the blanks about how

to get there.

How long is your "to do" list? The more things you think of that you have to

do, the more things you find to do. Then you end up feeling tired and

unfulfilled. Try replacing your "to do" list with a "to be" list. Who do you

want to be while you are doing? How do you want to feel? What inner experience

would you like to enjoy behind your activities? You can get everything crossed

off your "to do" list, but unless you have set your intention about who you want

to be and how you want to feel, you will miss your true goal, which is

happiness. Set your intention for soul fulfillment and watch your life take off,

spiritually and materially.

Before you climb the ladder of success, be sure it is leaning against the

right wall. You can get what you think you want, or you can get what you really

want. All thoughts are prayers, and all prayers are answered. You pray more with

your thoughts and intentions than with your words. In fact, you are praying at

every moment. Every asking that proceeds from the heart is a prayer. Ask for

your soul's dreams, not your mind's. When the mind and soul come into alignment,

you will achieve the mystical marriage that gets your head out of the sand and

into heaven.

Book by this author:

Looking in for Number One: Adventures in Uncommon Sense by Alan

Cohen.

Alan Cohen shares this thoughts, dreams, humor, and compassion in fifty-two

engaging essays. The book, Cohen says, is about "taking our power back from

external authorities and living the life we would choose, the life that calls us

by virtue of the voice of joy within us."

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About The Author

Alan Cohen is the author of numerous popular inspirational books,

including the award-winning A Deep

Breath of Life. To request a free catalog of Alan's books, tapes, and

seminars, call 1-800-462-3013 or visit Alan's web site at www.alancohen.com. For info on upcoming

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