Guest guest Posted September 6, 2007 Report Share Posted September 6, 2007 I hope you all don't mind me asking for this but you are my family and you are all I have. I sat down tonight with my supposed daughter in law and though she is shy she finally opened up. She, my son and their 2 year old live together. She is deeply confused right now, interested in dating other men out of the blue (she says one at work makes her feel good about herself), wants to move home find herself and get the things her parents are offering her if she will leave my son (a horse and new car). I remained neutral in total love trying to offer wisdom...I want them to be happy and I know there is a lesson in all of this for me too. I don't know how to put into words so she will understand that another man is not going to fix her loneliness or low self esteem but only increase it later. She doesn't seem to have a huge reason why she wants to end the relationship other than her attraction to this guy at work and her parents not liking my son and my son not keeping a job. He has had a fear of keeping jobs for some time though he tries. He stays home and watches his son while she works. She wants to go to college and stay home like the rest of her girlfriends (a man take care of her) as if in today's society we can just all get that lol. I can't make her grow up and I can't make my son grow up but it pains me so because I know how fragile my son is and I really love her. Does anyone have any articles I could send her or my son? Ones that might be on their level of reading. Thank you dear family, @-{------ PS..., I'm trying really hard to be quiet shhhhhhhhh lol. (laughing) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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