Re: Marrying for Love ... of Money

[Guest guest]

>

> I am so sorry to hear you are going through this, mimi. I hope

> things improve greatly in short order.

>

> Raven

> Co-Administrator

>

Thanks Raven mostly Mimi is tired that's all. I feel like the

Movie. Keep moving foward,...

[Guest guest]

>

> " Be honest you don't ever want to marry and that is your decision and

> not an excuse of unsuitable opposite sexed individuals(as the case

> may be). It is too easy to " blame " a decision on some convient

> circumstance. "

>

> I cannot speak for , but I've ALWAYS wanted to marry, even

> when I decided to give up dating. It truly was the women that made me

> decide to stay single until I met Raven.

>

> Tom

> Administrator

>

I can coniede that standing alone that statement seems harsher than I

meant. I also concede that finding a suitable mate is exceedingly

difficult if you have any sense. People do marry to easily and without

thought, although at some point one has to hope for the best. I am

sure Raven is one in a Million, and those odds are tough. I have been

married twice and well those relationships were based on fear(fleeing

my mother) and then fear again (fleeing my first ex. The second

marrage ended in a breakdown of commitment. what our son is autistic,

yes well marriage over. So I can only speak about my own hopefulness,

but I hope decent opposite sexed individuals do exsist in the world,

and that of those people there is someone out there, that matches each

of us