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Couldn't have said it better myself, ! : )

Kellie

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Couldn't have said it better myself, !  : ) (Ooops...meant Taryn.) Sorry.

Kellie

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Thanks Taryn. I totally agree with you!!

In a message dated 10/8/2002 10:43:20 AM Eastern Daylight Time, devynskye1@... writes:

I think people who do those things are just people who join lists to get a rile out of us. It's very sickening and sad when all someone has to do is join groups of loving parents who have nothing but the highest concern for their children and treatment and then bash us for being that way. I say don't sweat the small stuff, . We are all behind you 100% and know you are doing the right thing. People like that need to get a life and find another hobby if you ask me.

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In a message dated 10/8/2002 2:07:11 PM Eastern Daylight Time, jungle_buns@... writes:

I think they meant to be

offer encouragement and advice

I don't find that kind of advice helpful or encouraging...sorry but i was aimed at me...and i really felt that it wasn't encouraging at all..but rather insulting...

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I think people who do those things are just people who join lists to get a rile out of us. It's very sickening and sad when all someone has to do is join groups of loving parents who have nothing but the highest concern for their children and treatment and then bash us for being that way. I say don't sweat the small stuff, . We are all behind you 100% and know you are doing the right thing. People like that need to get a life and find another hobby if you ask me.

Taryn and

Indiana

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Thanks Kellie. Yea..i was thinking that too..if you are going to write a post like that..have enough guts to sign your name to it. I was looking for the kind of info that Taryn and and others have offered..not telling me about my parenting skills. Questioning someone's parenting skills will never get them to listen to the advice...all I see is the negative. Posts like the one just sent me...got the message across without adding insults. I didn't just ignore the plagio and tort...so therefore i am dealing with it fine. I got a helmet as fast as i could...i did the exercises at home that the dr gave me....i said that i am not doing the exercises as often as i should..but only after the dr told me that he is better....not before. I know i should still do them..but that does not make me not able to deal with this. Anyway, thanks Kellie!!

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In a message dated 10/8/2002 11:40:42 AM Pacific Daylight Time, Av@... writes:

I think they meant to be

offer encouragement and advice

I don't find that kind of advice helpful or encouraging...sorry but i was aimed at me...and i really felt that it wasn't encouraging at all..but rather insulting...

Yeah, , I agree with you. To offer encouragement and advice would be to do what most of us do for each other every day, and not in judgment. It was definitely a personal attack against you and totally out of line. The whole thing about "Who's the boss in this situation?" really erks me. Especially since the way a lot of drs behave when it comes to our children, it's almost as if they would like us to believe they are the boss, and not us. I especially think it's rude to join a group and post rudely to someone, before even introducing one's self or telling his or her story.

, you're the bomb and don't let anyone make you feel otherwise! : )

Kellie

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In a message dated 10/8/2002 3:19:02 PM Eastern Daylight Time, xtinaherp@... writes:

Let's do like we tell

our little ones when they fall down "brush it off,

brush it off"!

Amen !

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Thanks Heidi!!

In a message dated 10/8/2002 2:53:54 PM Eastern Daylight Time, zim34@... writes:

natalie, I completely agree with you. I know exactly how you feel.

This same thing happened to me in the hypothryoid group for children,

and the moditor kicked the person out of the group. I know that it

sounds kinda harsh to do that, but what funkyhelmethead had to saw

was just plain rude and that is not who we are. We are better than

funkyhelmethead! We know what each other go through. Yeah, maybe

that funky head is in the medical field, still has no right, but that

is just my opinion. But if funky helmet feels that he/she did wrong,

he/she will do the right thing, and appologize. Good luck! Heidi,

mom to Jeffry, 9 months, local helmet, MN

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In a message dated 10/8/2002 2:58:30 PM Eastern Daylight Time, Kelliesmith@... writes:

, you're the bomb and don't let anyone make you feel otherwise! : )

Thanks so much Kellie..you're the best!!

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> I think people who do those things are just people who join lists

to get a rile out of us.

I went back and read some of the other posts from tg57..it seemed as

though he/she knew a fair bit about plagio. I think they meant to be

offer encouragement and advice, but ended up sounding mean and

patronizing. Nontheless, I really doubt this person just joined up

to hurt people's feelings. From reading the posts it sounded like

they might have been a medical person of some sort (doctor, nurse,

tech, ortho..whatever)..they seemed to have an " insider " perspective

on this.

Ken

Zack & Zoey's dad

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natalie, I completely agree with you. I know exactly how you feel.

This same thing happened to me in the hypothryoid group for children,

and the moditor kicked the person out of the group. I know that it

sounds kinda harsh to do that, but what funkyhelmethead had to saw

was just plain rude and that is not who we are. We are better than

funkyhelmethead! We know what each other go through. Yeah, maybe

that funky head is in the medical field, still has no right, but that

is just my opinion. But if funky helmet feels that he/she did wrong,

he/she will do the right thing, and appologize. Good luck! Heidi,

mom to Jeffry, 9 months, local helmet, MN

> In a message dated 10/8/2002 2:07:11 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

> jungle_buns@y... writes:

>

>

> > I think they meant to be

> > offer encouragement and advice

>

> I don't find that kind of advice helpful or encouraging...sorry but

i was

> aimed at me...and i really felt that it wasn't encouraging at

all..but rather

> insulting...

>

>

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--- In Plagiocephaly@y..., -Herp <xtinaherp@y...>

wrote:

> Hey all - I think we all agree that this person was

> totally out of line and not very nice. was

> right to feel upset by the post. So can we not go

> back and forth amongst ourselves with this? We

> definately don't want to have bad feelings starting up

> by one person thinking that another was not supportive

> and so on and so on. Everyone is so supportive and

> positive on this board - I would like to keep that

> going and not devote any more of our energy to this

> negative person and this topic. Let's do like we tell

> our little ones when they fall down " brush it off,

> brush it off " ! We know we are right and that's all

> that matters, ya know?

Thank you - very very well said, I couldn't have said that

better myself. How tg57's reply is interpreted depends on the person

reading it. Most saw it offensive, where others did not.

Let's move on please

Debbie Abby's mom DOCgrad

MI

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i agree debbie....i think by keeping it up and going..IF this person is trying to get a rise outa someone..its working..lets not let that be the case!!! we ALL are great parents here and that is the bottom line..look at your children and you will see that!!!

brenda

mom of tucker

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> Hey all - I think we all agree that this person was> totally out of line and not very nice. was> right to feel upset by the post. So can we not go> back and forth amongst ourselves with this? We> definately don't want to have bad feelings starting up> by one person thinking that another was not supportive> and so on and so on. Everyone is so supportive and> positive on this board - I would like to keep that> going and not devote any more of our energy to this> negative person and this topic. Let's do like we tell> our little ones when they fall down "brush it off,> brush it off"! We know we are right and that's all> that matters, ya know?Thank you - very very well said, I couldn't have said that better myself. How tg57's reply is interpreted depends on the person reading it. Most saw it offensive, where others did not. Let's move on please :)Debbie Abby's mom DOCgradMIFor more plagio info

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In a message dated 10/9/2002 1:01:21 PM Eastern Daylight Time, devynskye1@... writes:

They did sound educated about the fact

but was also wrong as (i think it was ) pointed out on all their points...

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I totally understand where you are coming from, Ken. They did sound educated about the fact but also very crass in their response to . Thanks for calling me on it!!!

Taryn

Indiana

I went back and read some of the other posts from tg57..it seemed as though he/she knew a fair bit about plagio. I think they meant to be offer encouragement and advice, but ended up sounding mean and patronizing. Nontheless, I really doubt this person just joined up to hurt people's feelings. From reading the posts it sounded like they might have been a medical person of some sort (doctor, nurse, tech, ortho..whatever)..they seemed to have an "insider" perspective on this. KenZack & Zoey's dad

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