your brother,

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

Do you remember 'the gift of criticism' exercise? Listening to

criticism, taking it in; if you can find where it is true, say Thank

you, if you can't find it, say Thank you!

I hear that your brother wants you to hear what HE experienced and his

pain, not to have you fix it. What a gift he's sharing with you,

after all this time, heartfelt feelings.

(Can you find where it is true for you that your father is a

murderer? For example when he doesn't want to hear your remarks, and

cuts you off?)

Wonderful sister,

Love from Tamara