Guest guest Posted February 8, 2006 Report Share Posted February 8, 2006 Well said Manipulation can only take place when you have a motive: You want to gain something (being with ) or you are afraid to loose something () If I care less about being or not being with him I would stay in my integrity. As long as I want to get him, I am in his business trying to act in a way that will make him want me. So I need to do the work on the motive I need to be with me Is it true? Yes, we could be so good together Can I know... NO, maybe he is not my man. Maybe I will meet him and not be interested How do react I try to do things to make him be with me: Call him not call him It is tiring Who would I would be Tami, free to act the way I feel TA I don't need to be with me I need Tami to be with Tami -- Tami, > > Tami, > > Obviously, playing hard to get is a form of manipulation. I think all > you can do is be yourself. Try to listen to the still small voice > within you, the one that give you your inner guidance, and just follow > that. You'll notice that this inner voice is not stressfull-- not " I > have to call him! " etc., it's more like, " I find myself being moved to > calll him now. " or " I find myself being moved to spend the night with > myself. " > > , > > I'm not sure I got your story straight. You came home and foudn these > pictures of your boyfriend with other people. Were you already aware of > them? If so, what was different about seeing them this time? What are > your thoughts on this whole situation now? > > Love, > Dwight > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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