Fwd: Everything Happens for a Reason

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Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness,injury,love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be,life would be like a smoothly paved, straight,flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable,but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience help to create who you are and who you become. People come into your life for a reason, a season,or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,emotionally,or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them

to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on. When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share,grow,or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real. It's only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people; and put what you have learned to use in all other

relationships and areas of your life. it is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you,betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn a bout trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love,break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you're a great individual and believe in

yourself, fir if you don't believe in yourself it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life, then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets. Most important, if you LOVE someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. Most importantly,learn a lesson in life each day that you live.

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