Guest guest Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Hi -- I feel your pain, I had the same problems with my freinds and family they just don't want to hear about it == that way they figure it will go away because they didnt understand or want to. You should definately try to get to work as much as you are able to, but if you need to leave they be sure to do so. I often am miserable at work and don't always/ever call at when I am sick but this week Wednesday when I knew the building was toxic to me that was a good exit. hang in there hopefully you can get some support you need. Subject: OTTo: asthma Date: Sunday, August 17, 2008, 12:45 PM I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF MY STUPID BROTHER HE SAYS I SHOULD OF GONE TO WORK AND JUST TAKEN MY INHALER HE HASNT THE FIRST IDEA ABOUT WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE HE IS A USELESS IDIOT. MY MUM IS JUST AS BAD THOUGH BUT WHAT MAKES IT WORSE IS SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE CAUSE SHE HAS IT TOO.Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger .yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Hi thanks for your reply its just my stupid family that cause the problems im lucky with friends cos they are like a family to me and i thoroughly enjoy my job i work as a carer and the company is great. what winds me up with my brother is that since wednesday morning he hasnt been to work claiming he had aches all over his body yesterday i even offered to take him to the emergency doctor if i had to which he wouldnt he thinks you have to be ill 5 days before you see a doctor but what put the lid on it for me was after moaning he went down to the pub with a friend AND HE HAS A DAM NERVE TO TELL ME TO USE MY INHALER AND THATS THE CURE AND TO GO BACK TO WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OTTo: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) comDate: Sunday, August 17, 2008, 12:45 PM I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF MY STUPID BROTHER HE SAYS I SHOULD OF GONE TO WORK AND JUST TAKEN MY INHALER HE HASNT THE FIRST IDEA ABOUT WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE HE IS A USELESS IDIOT. MY MUM IS JUST AS BAD THOUGH BUT WHAT MAKES IT WORSE IS SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE CAUSE SHE HAS IT TOO.Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger .yahoo.com Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger.yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 you are preaching to the choir here too. It has been a hard adjustment with my family over the last year. Especially at first, and sadly I have many friends that have just fallen by the wayside because they just don't understand and I can't keep up the social schedule I used to. Although with all of the hospital time lately my family is really starting to get it. We are here for you. Madeline > > > Subject: OT > To: asthma > Date: Sunday, August 17, 2008, 12:45 PM > > > > > > > > > I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF MY STUPID BROTHER HE SAYS I SHOULD OF GONE TO WORK AND JUST TAKEN MY INHALER HE HASNT THE FIRST IDEA ABOUT WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE HE IS A USELESS IDIOT. MY MUM IS JUST AS BAD THOUGH BUT WHAT MAKES IT WORSE IS SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE CAUSE SHE HAS IT TOO. > Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger ..yahoo.com > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 , You will have to determine over time what you can tolerate as far as your asthma, unfortunatley most employers expect you to work and will accomodate you but if you continually lose time at work they may look to replace you. But seems like no one wants to tell you that. SO with that reality, take your inhaler but you need a nebulizer, I am 34 and just got a clue that it was time for one. If it is bad you should definately call your doctor and have it treated and maybe look for a new medicine plan. One of the other members can tell you or the doctors of putting to together an Ashtma Action Plan, I still havne't done that and usually wait long before my symptoms get BAD, before I get a clue which is not good. Since I have been on advair my astham is more controlled but still have symptoms. From: laura downie <lausmokeyyahoo (DOT) co.uk>Subject: OTTo: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) comDate: Sunday, August 17, 2008, 12:45 PM I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF MY STUPID BROTHER HE SAYS I SHOULD OF GONE TO WORK AND JUST TAKEN MY INHALER HE HASNT THE FIRST IDEA ABOUT WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE HE IS A USELESS IDIOT. MY MUM IS JUST AS BAD THOUGH BUT WHAT MAKES IT WORSE IS SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE CAUSE SHE HAS IT TOO.Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger .yahoo.com Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger .yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 I'm so sorry your brother doesn't understand, sounds like he needs to be talked to. Siblings can be a pain, Always keep an inhaler in your purse or nightstand. Always have an extra one on hand that way you can still have one yet not react to what he's doing because the more he knows it's bothering you the more he'll do this! Terry I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much. ~Mother Teddy Bear's Early Learning ProgramEstablished August of 1992 From: asthma [mailto:asthma ] On Behalf Of laura downieSent: Sunday, August 17, 2008 12:46 PMTo: asthma Subject: OT I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF MY STUPID BROTHER HE SAYS I SHOULD OF GONE TO WORK AND JUST TAKEN MY INHALER HE HASNT THE FIRST IDEA ABOUT WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE HE IS A USELESS IDIOT. MY MUM IS JUST AS BAD THOUGH BUT WHAT MAKES IT WORSE IS SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE CAUSE SHE HAS IT TOO.Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger.yahoo.com No viruses found in this incoming messageScanned by iolo AntiVirus 1.5.4.5http://www.iolo.com No viruses found in this outgoing messageScanned by iolo AntiVirus 1.5.4.5http://www.iolo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 , don't be so hard on your self, we are all learning as we go along!!! Terry I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much. ~Mother Teddy Bear's Early Learning ProgramEstablished August of 1992 From: asthma [mailto:asthma ] On Behalf Of M GSent: Sunday, August 17, 2008 3:35 PMTo: asthma Subject: Re: OT , You will have to determine over time what you can tolerate as far as your asthma, unfortunatley most employers expect you to work and will accomodate you but if you continually lose time at work they may look to replace you. But seems like no one wants to tell you that. SO with that reality, take your inhaler but you need a nebulizer, I am 34 and just got a clue that it was time for one. If it is bad you should definately call your doctor and have it treated and maybe look for a new medicine plan. One of the other members can tell you or the doctors of putting to together an Ashtma Action Plan, I still havne't done that and usually wait long before my symptoms get BAD, before I get a clue which is not good. Since I have been on advair my astham is more controlled but still have symptoms. From: laura downie <lausmokeyyahoo (DOT) co.uk>Subject: OTTo: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) comDate: Sunday, August 17, 2008, 12:45 PM I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF MY STUPID BROTHER HE SAYS I SHOULD OF GONE TO WORK AND JUST TAKEN MY INHALER HE HASNT THE FIRST IDEA ABOUT WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE HE IS A USELESS IDIOT. MY MUM IS JUST AS BAD THOUGH BUT WHAT MAKES IT WORSE IS SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT ASTHMA IS LIKE CAUSE SHE HAS IT TOO.Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger ..yahoo.com Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger ..yahoo.com No viruses found in this incoming messageScanned by iolo AntiVirus 1.5.4.5http://www.iolo.com No viruses found in this outgoing messageScanned by iolo AntiVirus 1.5.4.5http://www.iolo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2008 Report Share Posted August 19, 2008 I was quite lucky on that one - I was in Cuba until a week ago, and now Cuba is one of the countries on standby for a tourist evacuation... Jenn Tha can tek t'lass outta Yorkshire...! Don't brand me, don't classify me, don't tell me what to wear. I'll be who I want to be, and I'm proud to be me. Subject: OTTo: "Terry " Date: Tuesday, 19 August, 2008, 1:08 AMThose of you in the path of that soon to be Hurricane Faye, stay safe and let us know when you can that your alright! I know some of you are down in the Georgia and Florida. Terry I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much. ~Mother Teddy Bear's Early Learning Program Established August of 1992 _______________________________________ No viruses found in this outgoing message Scanned by iolo AntiVirus 1.5.4.5 http://www.iolo.com ------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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