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Dear Varsha hiiiii.........

 

Its nice to see on the site.......i truly agree with what you

said...........since having moved to the corporate world i have seen intense

competetiveness and the worst hung-ups.........

 

Dear Malini and di

 

Lovely thoughts put across..........can understand both the

dilemmas............coz have worked for hours on end with no respite

..........the worst hit was aayush..........coz no mom and then its no

fun.........having to juggle home, work, and the kid..........especially the

studies etc..........i just felt that the life was slipping by...........but

this year when i started looking out for the job i had an action plan at

hand...............can i work from home and ..............does my work( my area

of work) give me that freedom.................fortunately yes.........thus the

plunge to Dubai...........where it is hard work but i can choose to be at home

or at work after 4pm............obviously i choose to be home by 5-5.30 so can

spend time cooking ..........spending one on one time with

yushi..............and the best part relax with friends which i couldnt do in a

long long time.................i really love this place ........

 

Shyam Sir ............has put it right a western life with the gulf

salary.........i am not complaining...............after a while i can actually

hummmm...........well as far as the coupling times go.............wrong person

to answer Renuka Di..............but hey i am trying my part ( by eyeing a few

highs and lows)...........well for the movies shyam sir you need to send those

moneyed guys to you know where????..............yes i am planning to watch a

movie this weekend.............dont know whether at home or a

multiplex.........soooooo lets hope we can all find that lovely time to be with

our loved ones........

 

aasawari91

sleepless in Dubai................... 

Wow Shyam! I am impressed! You take only 15 minutes to solve your family

problems AND your financial planning! Normally, in the Shah household, these

occupy the whole day and at midnight we reluctantly decide to postpone the

discussions for tomorrow. I think that I must migrate to the Gulf....only

they will not take a male Gynaecologist. .. even if he is old. (I think they

should appoint you as official PRO of the Saudi Kingdom.)

Shyam, tumne kya Renuka ko Kishore Shah samjha kya, that she should write

about 'coupling times'?

Kishore Shah 1974

Re: Couple time!

>I am going to join..this discussion.. ..inspite. .of Renuka...taking up...the

>topic a bit late..now that..Divya. .is already due back, homebound..I guess.

> Well,I beg..to differ..on this aspect..of sharing " Couple Time " ,Renuka. .

> Thanx..to..a nice Gulf work culture..and. .persistence. .by my dear

> biwi..to..break away..from TV,often..we do share..quality time..pretty

> much more than our Indian counterparts. ..and .u,Renuka..as described..in

> ur mail.

> After..our daily family dinner.,.we have kept 15mins aside..each

> day..,..to table..our.. important topics,

> Be it..concerning. ..Sohana' s school,dance. .or..our. .financial

> related..activities etc etc,..where. .we try..and..address the issue..and

> solve it..and move on..

>

> Mornings,each day..after.. Sohana..goes to

> school,..we. .try..and. ..spend.. our..time, ..planning. .for..the

> day..discussing about the emails..that have..come thru....etc. .

> and..afternoons. .I join Seema..in

> helping..with. .cooking. .and..clearing. .up..the kitchen..each single day!!

> (U can ask..her..during the reunion...if. .I do help or not)

>

> So,as many couple...... coming out from India..often. .happily remark..

> " Gulf mein..aa ke..hi..humne. .apne..pati/ patni...ko. ..teekh

> se..jaana. " . (Thanx..all due..to..quality time..we all get...with our

> partners..and family)..

>

> On an ending note..it is simple.Equation of Life.....Renuka. .

> One has.to balance..between more..Family Life..or a Great Flourishing

> Career.

> The fine..DIVIDE. .exists,. .but..often. .we..tend. .to overshoot

> it...resulting in..getting more of one..and less of the other..

> Yehi hain..Zindagi. ..

> (No..I permit Sohana..for sleepover parties..if her gang of friends..r

> good,..and.. the parents.of the hosting..girl. .r..equally, as caring..like

> us..)

> (For a moment..I thought..the tile read.. " Coupling Time " ...,which came as

> bit of shocker..)

>

> Bye

> Shyam(84)