Guest guest Posted November 6, 2002 Report Share Posted November 6, 2002 I am sorry for posting this rant. I do really hate to complain to anyone but I really need to get a few things off my chest that are driving me up the wall. I feel like hell. I was bawling while trying to make my daughters toaster waffles this morning. I could not get the lid off of her sippy cup, could barely spread the margarine on her waffles and to make matters all the worse, my husband was sitting at the table, said " that bad huh? " and went upstairs. My house is a disaster, I have not vacumed all week, the dishes are piliing up and I had a fight with my hubby about laundry. He wants to know where all the clean towells are....well if he put some in the washer there would be some! I just spent the last hour tidying up the living room so you can actually walk (2 year olds make huge messes with their toys) and I asked him to get Livia dressed and he said " I guess so, even though I have to go to work. " hmmmmm. The only reason I was killing myself trying to clean up the mess is because I have to work today too and if I don't do it, I know he won't. So now I feel like my arms are being ripped out of their sockets. My Vioxx has not quite kicked in for the day and I know that all the stuff I just did, as well as having to work a very physical job for 6 hours tonight are going to render me utterly useless and in agony tommorow. I am still trying to get my groove going where I can do these things and not feel like heck the next day but I just can't seem to get caught up on the housework. I have zero help from my hubby when it comes to this sort of thing becuse he is and always will be a momma's boy who is used to having it all done for him. In the past it was not that big of a deal because I only work 3 days a week and he workes 4- 5 days. I chose to stay home with my daughter and only work part time. But now, I know I need the help and he just won't get it through his thick skull that I can't do everything at the moment. I keep telling him it is not going to get any better if he does not care of does not help me so that I can rest. Sorry this is so darned long. I am just frustrated and angry at myself for not being able to cope with this and not being able to not do everything. Anne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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