Guest guest Posted December 2, 2002 Report Share Posted December 2, 2002 > Wish I had a sweetie who would hold me and tell me he'd love me no > matter what. I did, once upon a time. > > Tess Your sweetie still loves you, even if he can't put his arms around you. And we all love you too, but I'm afraid my arms are a wee bit too short to reach the left coast! And my elbows hurt now but I am sending you a big hug anyway, and I think you're beautiful, rusty parts and all! ((((((((((((Tess)))))))))))))) Love, Judi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2002 Report Share Posted December 2, 2002 Hello Tess, Your message sounded almost as if it could have been mine a few years ago, so I hope you don't mind me responding. I only recently joined the RA support group, but have only been reading, trying to learn all I can. The holidays are tough to be alone, and I recall dealing with my female medical problems alone, too. It really stunk. Hang in there. After 15 long years of being alone, I met the perfect man for me online! When my children met him, you could almost hear the " click " in the air! We are now married, and my children and I moved to PA from MO. He flew out, we got married, then my kids each drove a car (they were already 16 & 20), Pete and I towed one car, and he drove us in the moving truck. Don't mind me, but I likened it to the old film I saw of Princess Grace crossing the ocean in a liner to be with her prince! Female problems are so draining, both physically and mentally. I had endometriosis, and they finally did a hystorectomy in 1994. I had lived with the pain so long, then when I completed college (returned at 35) and had insurance, my dr. took the first chance to operate. My daughter tells people, " Her life began the day they did that surgery! " She is right, too! So, hang in there on that, too. I was the Queen of being mad at God. Thank Him for being so understanding and allowing me my moods. As you already know, though we don't always feel Him, He is there for us. Perhaps he is carrying you now. A friend once told me He will provide what we need. I'm sure you understand that I often wondered. Know that a new friend, if you want one, is thinking of you in this tough time. It does get better. I'll help, if you'd like the support. In the meantime, take good care of you! Tena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2002 Report Share Posted December 2, 2002 <PRE>(((((((Tess))))))) everything will be ok. i'm supposed to go back this month for another pap. wish i could get these yeast infections under control. they plague me almost 2 weeks out of every month. they seem to get worse. each month. but today i am trying to find another atty. the one i talked to yesterday. ( i spoke with him over the summer. he said then he couldn't help me, but if i couldn't find anyone to let him know) he told me again he did not have time now, and didn't know if he ever would. it gets old hearing that i would not make them enough $ for their pockets. i need to find one who wants to help people. the ones i will call today i got names from legal aid. so i hope to have beter luck. kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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