Re: hate

[Guest guest]

hate is a passionate reaction to pain, understandable, but truly only leads

to more pain.

only two weeks ago i was reading one of Welles's novels. n it

contained the following thought. a woman says something to this effect:

well, he gave me the pain. Now it is MY pain and i can choose to with it

whatever i will!

Somehow this really struck me amidships - read it again.

it completely severs the impression of being a victim n lays the

responsibility on oneselff. this would make hating a conscious choice but

give one the option of not prolonging the suffering by so doing..

love that turns to hate was never love in the first place. it was a bargain.

i love u, u'd better love me.

real love even if unrequited will go on loving, even if detached. the sun

never takes back its rays and no love is ever wasted, truly i know whereof i

speak!

markides quotes the Magus of Strovolous as saying that such love hangs around

the recipient in a balloon of light n when the person is ready to receive it,

it spills on the recipient as a blessing. even years later.i think that's

neat!:}

the psychic dynamics of hate however, i suspect, hang around the hater n is

quite visible to those who see auras. the french say " on se fait du mauvais

sang " - u make yourself bad blood.

hell hath no fury like a woman scorned n where would tragedy n grand opera be

without it! my exp is that women w/mars in Scorpio or w/lots o' fire have the

biggest challenge

as mike wld say, i maundering - my heart goes out to anyone suffering this oh

so human n archetypal situation. remember Sophia the Comforter! n wash that

man right out of yr aura! ha!

been there but learned to make that other choice, ended up friends [not

lovers]

the old lady