Guest guest Posted May 10, 2006 Report Share Posted May 10, 2006 Hi Libby, I also want to add that your psychologist (as part of your Circle of Care package) will have come across this , and you could let her know that this is affecting you. Perhaps even have your hubby go to a session with you and discuss it. You won't have been the first, and that's what she's there for. Also, I wanted to add that my comment on "feeders" was not aimed at you two. It just came to my mind after I'd sent the other email. I'm in no way suggesting that you live like this- I was just thinking about how one's weight can affect relationships. (ashbury) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2006 Report Share Posted May 10, 2006 I WANT TO ADD SOMETHING TOO, PERHAPS I AM BEING HARD ON YOUR OTHER HALF. WHAT IS HIS FEAR?? DO YOU KNOW WHY HE IS AGAINST THIS WHEN YOU HAVE OBVIOUSLY TOLD HIM IT WORKS SO WELL FOR ALL OF US? IS IT A MATTER OF FINANCES? IS HE AFRAID YOU MAY TAKE ILL THROUGH THE OPERATION? IS HE AFRAID YOU WILL NOT LOVE HIM SO MUCH WHEN YOU ARE THIN? DOES HE THINK OTHER MEN WILL WANT YOU? IS HE AFRAID HE WON'T HAVE POWER OVER YOU WHEN YOU ARE THINNER, MORE CONFIDENT ETC.? DOES HE IMAGINE YOU WILL WANT TO GO OUT ON THE RAN-TAN WITH THE GIRLS EVERY WEEKEND WEARING LOW CUT TOPS AND MINIS AND FISH NETS? WHAT IS HIS RATIONAL FEAR OR OBJECTION? I WOULD WANT TO SIT HIM DOWN AND FIND OUT THE BOTTOM LINE FROM HIM IF I WEE YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE ALLIEVIATED ALL THE ABOVE, REASSURED HIM OF YOU LOVE NO MATTER WHAT, THERE CAN BE NO OBJECTIONS. IT WOULD BE CRIMINAL OF HIM NOT TO SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGE YOU. YOU ARE THE MOTHER OF HIS LITTLE CHILD AND HE MUST WANT TO ENSURE THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THERE, HEALTHY AND HAPPY FOR HER. ASK HIM STRAIGHT OUT WHAT IS THE PROBLEM, MAYBE HE IS JUST SCARED FOR YOU. HOWEVER, IF HE STARTS OFF WITH 'MUM SAYS' TELL HIM STARIGHT OUT YOU MARRIED HIM, NOT MUM. SHE IS ENTITLED TO HER OPINION, YOU ARE ENTITLED NOT TO HAVE TO LISTEN TO IT. MAREE (SORRY ABOUT CAPS- I SEEM TO ALWAYS DO IT ACCIDENTALLY). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2006 Report Share Posted May 10, 2006 I WANT TO ADD SOMETHING TOO, PERHAPS I AM BEING HARD ON YOUR OTHER HALF. WHAT IS HIS FEAR?? DO YOU KNOW WHY HE IS AGAINST THIS WHEN YOU HAVE OBVIOUSLY TOLD HIM IT WORKS SO WELL FOR ALL OF US? IS IT A MATTER OF FINANCES? IS HE AFRAID YOU MAY TAKE ILL THROUGH THE OPERATION? IS HE AFRAID YOU WILL NOT LOVE HIM SO MUCH WHEN YOU ARE THIN? DOES HE THINK OTHER MEN WILL WANT YOU? IS HE AFRAID HE WON'T HAVE POWER OVER YOU WHEN YOU ARE THINNER, MORE CONFIDENT ETC.? DOES HE IMAGINE YOU WILL WANT TO GO OUT ON THE RAN-TAN WITH THE GIRLS EVERY WEEKEND WEARING LOW CUT TOPS AND MINIS AND FISH NETS? WHAT IS HIS RATIONAL FEAR OR OBJECTION? I WOULD WANT TO SIT HIM DOWN AND FIND OUT THE BOTTOM LINE FROM HIM IF I WEE YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE ALLIEVIATED ALL THE ABOVE, REASSURED HIM OF YOU LOVE NO MATTER WHAT, THERE CAN BE NO OBJECTIONS. IT WOULD BE CRIMINAL OF HIM NOT TO SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGE YOU. YOU ARE THE MOTHER OF HIS LITTLE CHILD AND HE MUST WANT TO ENSURE THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THERE, HEALTHY AND HAPPY FOR HER. ASK HIM STRAIGHT OUT WHAT IS THE PROBLEM, MAYBE HE IS JUST SCARED FOR YOU. HOWEVER, IF HE STARTS OFF WITH 'MUM SAYS' TELL HIM STARIGHT OUT YOU MARRIED HIM, NOT MUM. SHE IS ENTITLED TO HER OPINION, YOU ARE ENTITLED NOT TO HAVE TO LISTEN TO IT. MAREE (SORRY ABOUT CAPS- I SEEM TO ALWAYS DO IT ACCIDENTALLY). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.