Re: bobby glen

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i feel so blessed to be here with this group life is hard and feeling that you

are alone makes it harder so Thank you all ...

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To: livercirrhosissupport

Sent: Monday, November 3, 2008 10:53:31 PM

Subject: Re: bobby glen

,

You can't beat yourself up. Grieving is different for everyone and there is no

timetable. Just give yourself room and time to heal. Don't ever feel hurried to

do this. But when you feel you need to talk to your feelings and no one is

around to listen, come here. I will listen and just having someone to listen

helps get past some of the feelings we get hung up on.

MaC

sandra <sgonz48yahoo (DOT) com> wrote: you know grief has become a part of

me....these moments of pain are real and that keeps my son real.

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From: MaC <mac0184yahoo (DOT) com>

To: livercirrhosissuppo rtyahoogroups (DOT) com

Sent: Monday, November 3, 2008 10:14:53 PM

Subject: Re: bobby glen

It's hard. Feelings can come out of nowhere it seems. I can be busy at work, and

something will remind me of Insoon, sometimes, I'll remember something funny and

sometimes I remember the last time I saw her eyes open and I almost cry.

The Christmas tree I do for Kaitlyn's sake and I try to make each one memorable

for her and I know my wife would want her to be happy above all else.

But I understand how you feel. I don't feel we ever " get over " a loss, we simply

live through it as we move forward in life. Our feelings don't diminish, we just

become better at dealing with them.

MaC

sandra <sgonz48yahoo (DOT) com> wrote: you know mac i have yet to put my

tree up since 2001...i do other things but the tree ....i cant figure why ....

even thinking about putting the tree up causes me to cry...funny

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From: MaC <mac0184yahoo (DOT) com>

To: livercirrhosissuppo rtyahoogroups (DOT) . com

Sent: Sunday, November 2, 2008 11:28:09 PM

Subject: Re: bobby glen

Pamela,

I hope you don't mind me chiming in. This hit home for me. My wife died right

before Thanksgiving and our daughters 4 year birthday. So the holidays are very

hard for me. Last year I felt I had to do so much, even with family, I ended up

with shingles!

We have chosen, as you did, with a tree ornament during the holidays. In our

home we place an Angel on the tree in remembrance. For us, it lets us not forget

her during the time with family, because I know, if she could, she would be

there with us. I also think it gives opportunity to talk about her life in a way

that gives joy. I think this will be important for Kaitlyn to remember has she

grows up.

MaC

diane chandler <dianechandler@ att.net> wrote: Pamela,

I can so relate to what you're going through at this time. Momma passed on in

April, 2006. The thought of even trying to have the holidays that year was

painful. Please know that I am praying for you and, were I closer, I would be

there to hold your hand and cry with you. We have a memorial ornament that we

hang on the tree for Momma. Wherever we're having Christmas, the ornament goes

to that house and play Christmas music that Momma loved and everyone tells a

story about a memory of Mamaw Mac. We try really hard to keep her alive in the

memories of the little children and fresh in the thoughts of us all during that

time cause Momma loved the holidays so much. I'm thinking of you Pamela and I'm

praying for strenght for you and your family.

Love and hugs......... .

Diane

bobby glen

> > > > > To: livercirrhosissuppo rtyahoogroups (DOT) com

> > > > > Date: Saturday, November 1, 2008, 12:40 PM

> > > > >

> > > > > ok i have composed my self so sad ,just so sad about cheif,still

> > > > cant

> > > > > believe it, i too feel like i lost a family member ,so sad. bobby

> > > > > missed the dr. yesterday due to a wreck on his way home from work,

> > > > > they come in threes they say, a young lady was looking at a yard

> > > > sale

> > > > > and crossed the center line ,hit his bumper and side swiped the

> > > > > lenght of his truck,she flipped her car and was taken in an

> > > > > ambulance,it shook him up really bad ,she was our daughters age,he

> > > > > felt fine until he got out of the shower, so i carried him to the

> > > > er

> > > > > just to be safe and got xrays of his neck back and chest ,the er

> > > > dr.

> > > > > had me so mad i cried, he said, he felt he would be sore for a few

> > > > > days duh!!!! and he could give him pain meds.. for the weekend but

> > > > if

> > > > > he was LOOKING for a script he would have to see someone else, my

> > > > > mouth hit the floor. i said excuse me dr. are you acusing my

> > > > husband

> > > > > of drug seeking, he just looked at me, so i carried on with let me

> > > > > tell you something ...my husband has esld ,he was in a wreck ,we

> > > > are

> > > > > here to get x rays not pain meds. where as he cant even take them

> > > > due

> > > > > to his liver, i was madder than a hornet,and can you believe he

> > > > > perscibed 20 lorcet i ripped the sctipt right in front of him,his

> > > > > chest exray looked good he said, he didnt see any need to run more

> > > > > tests for the shortness of breath. he said he didnt see that it was

> > > > > coming from the esld,so i guess we will rescudule the tests with

> > > > our

> > > > > family dr. i want it checked, cheif dieing has hit me in my head

> > > > like

> > > > > a brick ,this is real, bobbys gonna die ,and that dr. acted so nice

> > > > > after he saw how mad i was ,screw him, and all the car wreck drug

> > > > > seeking people who have made it so much harder on folks who try and

> > > > > do the right thing when involved in a car wreck...arent we supposed

> > > > > to seek med. attention?are we supposed to be treated with compation

> > > > > and respect?! whats wrong with this world its so messed up for

> > > > crying

> > > > > out loud. ok done venting thanks for listening love you all, barby

> > > > >

> > > > >