Yesterday was the anniversary of my Dad's death (cirrhosis)

November 16, 2008

I spent the entire day drowning in retail therapy. I can't believe how

much money I spent in order to forget what a horrible day that was.

When it was all over, I had a moment to sit and remember the man my Dad

used to be. When I look at pics of my childhood, he was a Daddy that

played games, threw the ball to us in the yard, and went to the corner

ice cream store with us for a treat.

This is how I now choose to remember him. For the last 14 years, I had

only known my Dad to be confused, withdrawn, and a bit off.

No longer will I think of him this way. It wasn't his fault that he

had the disease of alcohol addiction, nor was it mine. I will remember

and honor him for the man he truly was.

Praying for all families who deal with the fear, and worries that

cirrhosis can bring to our lives.

November 16, 2008

I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad, but it truly gives me joy to know you

have chosen to remember him for the Daddy he really was before the disease of

addiction changed him. What a precious gift you have given both yourself and

your Daddy. You are in my prayers as you face the days without him.

Hugs..........

Diane

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Sent: Sunday, November 16, 2008 11:55:23 AM

Subject: Yesterday was the anniversary of my Dad's

death (cirrhosis)