Re: Throwing in the Towel.

[Guest guest]

Wow, that does suck. I'm sorry to hear that; hopefully she will be

happy in her future ventures and you will have more relief when she's

not always there. Again, sorry that you both have to go through this,

and best wishes.

> Wife and I are calling it quits. Really Sux, but we're both

> miserable. The recent holidays, traveling, and visiting family were

> horrible. I can't watch her eat nor hear her speak. I have the

> expensive ear devices that produce white noise. I usually just leave

> them full blast, but they don't seem to help much.

>

> Search my other posts to read more into my issues. My wife even posted

> her side of the story under my account.

>

> Luckily we don't have kids so she'll be able to remarry and have a

> happier life and a family. Having a family is not an option for me

> since I've discovered soulmates aren't either.

>

[Guest guest]

i am sorry to hear that. I also can't stand to hear my partner talk.

Still working on a solution... it's hard, it's crazy.

>

> Wife and I are calling it quits. Really Sux, but we're both

> miserable. The recent holidays, traveling, and visiting family were

> horrible. I can't watch her eat nor hear her speak. I have the

> expensive ear devices that produce white noise. I usually just leave

> them full blast, but they don't seem to help much.

>

> Search my other posts to read more into my issues. My wife even

posted

> her side of the story under my account.

>

> Luckily we don't have kids so she'll be able to remarry and have a

> happier life and a family. Having a family is not an option for me

> since I've discovered soulmates aren't either.

>

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry to hear of your misery and wish you both the best of luck

in the future. In a world where I feel many people get divorced too

easily, I do not think that applies to the two of you.

> Wife and I are calling it quits. Really Sux, but we're both

> miserable.

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry. It's incredible that this " unrecognized " condition

affects us so deeply. I'm thankful that at least for now I can be

around my family without too much discomfort.

>

> Wife and I are calling it quits. Really Sux, but we're both

> miserable. The recent holidays, traveling, and visiting family were

> horrible. I can't watch her eat nor hear her speak. I have the

> expensive ear devices that produce white noise. I usually just leave

> them full blast, but they don't seem to help much.

>

> Search my other posts to read more into my issues. My wife even

posted

> her side of the story under my account.

>

> Luckily we don't have kids so she'll be able to remarry and have a

> happier life and a family. Having a family is not an option for me

> since I've discovered soulmates aren't either.

>

[Guest guest]

I am so sorry to hear this. I would like to say that this haapens to

other couples, too. I have had several patients who ended up leaving

partners or deciding not to marry or co habitate just due to this

problem.

One solution is to have separate homes and meet for fun, outdoor

adventures, things that do not involve eating or quiet places. This

has been a solution for some couples, who dearly love each other but

cannot stand certain situations.

Drug therapy might be an alternative but the side effects must be

taken into account.

Dr.

> >

> > Wife and I are calling it quits. Really Sux, but we're both

> > miserable. The recent holidays, traveling, and visiting family

were

> > horrible. I can't watch her eat nor hear her speak. I have the

> > expensive ear devices that produce white noise. I usually just

leave

> > them full blast, but they don't seem to help much.

> >

> > Search my other posts to read more into my issues. My wife even

> posted

> > her side of the story under my account.

> >

> > Luckily we don't have kids so she'll be able to remarry and have

a

> > happier life and a family. Having a family is not an option for

me

> > since I've discovered soulmates aren't either.

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Oh no, that is awful, I wish you both well, it is so hard to live with people. I have lived alone all my adult life and am just trying to cohabit, against all my impulses to the contrary, with a new, very understanding partner. we have spoken about the possibility of only being able to live in separate houses because i think I wont manage. But your decision must have been so difficult to make and you must feel misery and relief at the same time. Take care. Dianne.k2_fan_forever wrote: Wow, that does suck. I'm sorry to hear that; hopefully she will behappy in her future ventures and you will have more relief when she'snot always there. Again, sorry that you both have to go through this,and best wishes.> Wife and I are calling it quits. Really Sux, but we're both > miserable. The recent holidays, traveling, and visiting family were > horrible. I can't watch her eat nor hear her speak. I have the > expensive ear devices that produce white noise. I usually just leave > them full blast, but they don't seem to help much.> > Search my other posts to read more into my issues. My wife even posted > her side of the story under my account.> > Luckily we don't have kids so she'll be able to remarry and have a

> happier life and a family. Having a family is not an option for me > since I've discovered soulmates aren't either.>

[Guest guest]

This is proving to be very difficult to say the least. My wife and I

have been holding and crying ourselves to sleep almost every night now.

We drove around searching for new a new house for me today. She's

going to keep our current one. We seemed to get caught up in the

excitement of looking for a new house then come full circle to the

realization of why we are actually looking.

After 3 hours of driving around together I was exhausted by the end

from dealing with my problem. I had my ear pieces up full blast and

my anxiety level was through the roof. It's to the point anymore that

I just can't handle hearing her voice in general.

That's how it progressed with my mom when I lived at home 15 years ago.

I seriously think if I had a gun in the house I wouldn't be here to

write this.

> > >

> > > Wife and I are calling it quits. Really Sux, but we're both

> > > miserable. The recent holidays, traveling, and visiting family

> were

> > > horrible. I can't watch her eat nor hear her speak. I have the

> > > expensive ear devices that produce white noise. I usually just

> leave

> > > them full blast, but they don't seem to help much.

> > >

> > > Search my other posts to read more into my issues. My wife even

> > posted

> > > her side of the story under my account.

> > >

> > > Luckily we don't have kids so she'll be able to remarry and have

> a

> > > happier life and a family. Having a family is not an option for

> me

> > > since I've discovered soulmates aren't either.

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

My God, but I do understand you completely.

Keep on writing to us!!!

pia

To: Soundsensitivity From: xl_cheese24@...Date: Sun, 6 Jan 2008 01:29:08 +0000Subject: Re: Throwing in the Towel.

This is proving to be very difficult to say the least. My wife and Ihave been holding and crying ourselves to sleep almost every night now.We drove around searching for new a new house for me today. She'sgoing to keep our current one. We seemed to get caught up in theexcitement of looking for a new house then come full circle to therealization of why we are actually looking.After 3 hours of driving around together I was exhausted by the endfrom dealing with my problem. I had my ear pieces up full blast andmy anxiety level was through the roof. It's to the point anymore thatI just can't handle hearing her voice in general.That's how it progressed with my mom when I lived at home 15 years ago. I seriously think if I had a gun in the house I wouldn't be here towrite this.> > >> > > Wife and I are calling it quits. Really Sux, but we're both > > > miserable. The recent holidays, traveling, and visiting family > were > > > horrible. I can't watch her eat nor hear her speak. I have the > > > expensive ear devices that produce white noise. I usually just > leave > > > them full blast, but they don't seem to help much.> > > > > > Search my other posts to read more into my issues. My wife even > > posted > > > her side of the story under my account.> > > > > > Luckily we don't have kids so she'll be able to remarry and have > a > > > happier life and a family. Having a family is not an option for > me > > > since I've discovered soulmates aren't either.> > >> >> Put your friends on the big screen with Windows Vista® + Windows Live™. Start now!