Abijann this is a resend ...have been having problems with the site

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Amen to your post Abijann. you put your heart in it and i really hear you.

to share a moment don't know if it really pertains to what you were talking

about...but....I was walking in the store with my husband yesterday and we ran

into the son of a couple we knew. the husband past rather sudden 2 yrs ago. well

to make this short the widow is having a hard time she is making wrong choices

looking for something...i turned to my husband and said this is why you can not

leave me cause the world will eat me up if you were not here to protect me...he

said he is not going to leave me but i do have to wiser and stronger...i felt

relief to be able to exchange this touchy dialog with him

you can not change another persons behavior you can only change your reaction to

it. AND then possibly your change will provoke a change in them:)

love in christ sandra