Staying Sane During The Holidays - Tips To Consider To Minimize Holiday Stress

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Staying Sane During The Holidays - Tips To Consider To Minimize

Holiday Stress

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The hustle and bustle of the holiday season is in full swing. As the

end of the year quickly approaches, people often overexert

themselves to find the perfect last minute gifts, to prepare

complicated holiday meals or to graciously entertain even the most

difficult guests. Bruce Spring, M.D., assistant professor of

clinical psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the Keck School of

Medicine of the University of Southern California, offers these tips

to curtail holiday stress:

Be realistic

People should realize that relationships will not change just

because it is the holidays. Expectations that family, friends or

loved ones will act differently often result in disappointment or

unnecessarily strain a relationship. Look for the good and focus on

enjoying that.

Plan ahead

Assess your financial situation and then decide on how much to spend

on each person. This time of year, meaningful gifts can be more

touching and healthful than expensive gifts. Remember gifts of

service, such as helping with chores or a massage, are free and may

be more appreciated.

Maintain exercise programs and continue to eat healthy

Just because it's the holidays does not mean that exercise or

healthy eating should stop. Coupled together, healthy living

relieves stress and minimizes regret from overindulgence.

Give yourself extra time

Giving to ourselves allow us to better give to other people. Take a

few extra minutes to complete a task or to just relax. Saying no to

some requests can help avoid feeling overwhelmed.

Be aware of your feelings

Don't suppress your feelings for the sake of the holidays. If you

are depressed or angry, talk to someone. It is better to deal with

situations now than to bottle up feelings that can later snowball.

Turn to family, friends, clergy or professionals. The key is to turn

to someone who listens to you and provides helpful advice.

Inappropriate or ineffective listeners can make things worse.

Perfection is the enemy of good

The quest for perfection can often ruin a good thing. Don't lose

focus on the purpose of what you are doing. Realize that others will

appreciate and enjoy your efforts no matter what.

Spring says another way to alleviate stress is to appreciate the

positive aspects of the holidays. Approaching the season with this

attitude can make the holiday experience more enjoyable.