Guest guest Posted March 18, 2007 Report Share Posted March 18, 2007 < I do know that some antidepressants can cause that problem.> They sure do! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2007 Report Share Posted March 18, 2007 Hi Teri- I'm glad this question came up. Not for me but for my almost 33 yr. old daughter. She has talked with her drs. also and they don't know why either. My guess is it is partly due to CMT plus combined family genes on her paternal side. Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 Hi Teri, No, not me, just have always been the opposite, and still am, lol, but true. However, stress can play a BIG part here. So can the basics: enough sleep/rest, good nutrition, exercise to the extent you are able. Also if you are in pain, that is going to be a big focus. Pain medications can kill desire too. Another thought is as women age, hormone levels change, so you might want to talk to your doc too. ~ Gretchen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 I don't have that problem at all. (; However, I do know that some antidepressants can cause that problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 Yes! and I haven't gotten any help from the doctors either...I think if you are disabled you are not supposed to enjoy sex...LOL Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 Hi, I know how you feel because I get the same way. I believe it is from CMT. Roxanne from Canada Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 Don't be embarrased! That is as real as it gets. *hahaha* I don't have that problem, but having sex is sometimes painful for me. My body does not produce hormones...that's right...never had a cycle. but because of that, sex can be painful. I've used prescriptions in the past which have helped. Denedria Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 Wow, aren't we opening a can or worms (LOL). My 1st husband mentioned to our marriage counselor that he believed CMT was the reason for my " lack of desire " It never occurred to him that maybe it was because he was controlling every aspect of my being and putting me down in the process. It really played a number on me because I had to wonder could this be true? It took me years to get over it. I may not want it as often as my husband (who can 24/7) but I don't think it has to do with CMT. More about the stresses of everyday and women having a harder time shutting off their mind. , I do agree with what you are saying, but I wonder is it CMT or our partner???? (LOL) Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 Hi Teri, YES, I asked Gretchen privately because I was also embarrassed. But get this, now it's better than it was. I'm going to put this the most dainty way I can. I never had a problem with orgasms, but the last few years maybe it was because I wasn't taking the time to even care. Too much other stuff on my mind. But now, once I do have one, I can go on and on and I think it's because our nerve endings are so sensitive to stimulation, it can also work FOR us instead of against us. WHEW!! Glad I got that off my mind...lol....Just as long as I don't black out (now that's good) I even thought since I lost energy to my lower legs it all went to my crotch!! Now that's funny!! in the Keys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2007 Report Share Posted March 20, 2007 Hi , Thanks for the much needed laugh! You are too funny!! I am so jealous!! LOL!! Glad things have gotten better for you. Who knows, maybe some day it will work out for me to and maybe I will actually black out! It would be worth it!! Thanks!! Teri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2007 Report Share Posted March 20, 2007 Gretchen: Didn't this subject come up with the men at one time? I thought that I remembered that there actually was some study or such that linked sexual desire (or lack of) with CMT? I have been low in the desire department for several years and although I guess it might not be directly linked to CMT, I do believe that other problems can occur as a result of CMT. I take Cymbalta, which has been prescribed by my neuro, for pain associated with the CMT. As a result, my sex drive has virtually disappeared. And even when I am relaxed and really trying to " get there " , I literally have no feeling in the genital area. I have a gyn appt next month and am really hoping she can help. My husband is a great guy and accepting of so many things with me, but this is getting a little tiresome for both of us. So anyway, if anyone's counting, add me to the " no win " list. in AR (so many 's on here, thought I'd tag my state) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2007 Report Share Posted March 20, 2007 Hi Jackie, Yes, I think you're right about the partner thing also. He hasn't been as frisky as he used to and literally told me he " Wasn't frisky " the other night and I'm wondering if he looks at my ugly feet so I keep my socks on. I never had problems trying to get him in the mood and I'm driving him nuts wondering if he's fooling around at work, which my sister even said, I'm loosing it. It's kind of true because I sit here all day and wait for him to get home then talk up a storm. I've learned to shut up and give him his down time, but my self esteem is in the dumps. I'm going to take a different approach and back off and shut up and see what happens. Man, I'm a pain in the butt!! lol in the Keys) by the way everyone...I've just started posting on this page, I used to just get the e-mails on my regular inbox, so hang in there with me if I make mistakes until I get used to it. It does seem alot easier than what I was doing and I had 1,389 e-mails!!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2007 Report Share Posted March 20, 2007 I blame hormones - not CMT. My sex drive has fluctuated with various birth control pills and anti-depressants. Having help around the house - support and humour - and date nights help. My mother said that it is important to keep dating each other after marriage - I agree. Good health, Love, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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