Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris --- bludallas <bludallas@...> wrote: > Who are you to judge someone on their appearance? > You don know if one > of those kids were actually disabled or not. I'm > young and I have one. > I also have CMT, and I'm sure people look at me like > I don't need it > but they don't know. This isn't meant to offend > anyone just making the point that you really don't > know who is disabled and if they had the placard > they may have actually been disabled. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. http://tv./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 When my mom got her placard I remember people yelling at her for parking in the blue spots. People never yelled at her when she was with my father or brother - they would yell at her when she was alone,with me, or one of her(female)friends. Now they don't. She thinks that people are less aggressive now that she is older and feels that she 'looks the part'. I don't look the part. My leg braces are underneath pant legs or tall (flat healed) boots. I will not always answer vigilantes when they yell at me for parking in disabled spots. I deserve to live life fully as any other person does and that includes respect for privacy (mine). When I chose to educate someone on my disability it is done with consideration of my time and energy first and foremost. Sorry if this sounds like it hit a nerve/ negative in tone, but seeing someone yell at my mom makes my blood boil. Imagine if everyone just respected everyone else - gave them the benefit of the doubt... Good Health - Well Wishes & Positive Vibes, Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2007 Report Share Posted March 30, 2007 I guess I don't let those things bother me. I look at it this way. I know I need it and not all the time. If someone gets all that worked up about it they are just a miserable person and I find peace in the simple fact that they have issues not me. The other day I parked in a handicap and a guy knocked on the window and said " this is a handicapp spot " I said " yes I know and that's why I have my place card up " He said, " well the lady that parks here is an older lady " I said " is she is a wheelchair? " He said " no but she is old, you are a young guy you can park anywhere. " After a few minutes I realized even though I was entitled to park there it wasn't worth the argument. I moved forward and funny enough someone else parked there and it wasn't the lady in question. That person was elderly and when I walked to the guy who argued with me, and said " is that the lady? " he said no. I asked why isn't he harrasing her to move? He turned to me and said " you are a real A@#@##$. It's harder not having an apparent disability but when I haven't even gotten out of the car and being harrased says a lot about people. I wasn't effected by it too long because it was his issue and as much as I hated being prejudged he had some merit to wanting to make sure the spot was utilized by a handicap person. All you can do is educate and if that doesn't work oh well people are people. Andy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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