Re: employment and self confidence

[Guest guest]

Hi,

Although I am not a male, I have an understanding of what your

husband must feel regarding employment. I have been a single mom for the past

11 years. I obtained a degree while going through the

process of divorce. 3 years after receiving my BA and hoping to

begin a career, I was diagnosed with CMT. I have lost a job due to

it (no way to provev this but I am sure it is why I was asked to to

return from my " sick leave " ) This has knocked my self confidence

down and I am hesitant to apply for jobs.

I am the sole breadwinner in my home, and thankfully there are no more children

living at home (not that they ever stop " needing " us!) and I worry constantly

about finances. I am very fortunate to have a wonderful man in my life, but we

do not have the " traditional " partnership arrangement. He has his own farm and

therefore we are not combined financially at all.

The one thing I always say to people is my BRAIN will not

deteriorate. I always will have the means of my intelligence to work with. I

don't know what more I can say. I empathize with you and your husband.

Honestly, what has meant the most to me is the support from my family and

friends. Being able to keep any indepdence I can, and understanding when I am

having a rough day. Keep looking for the positive people and things in your

life. It can be difficult, but there are supports and " stuff " available, it

just takes a lot of work and digging. Thankfully there is this community that

helps with info and support.

Take care