Advice needed

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Hi All

This is my first time posting although I have been a member for

sometime. I do read messages though.

Problem is B is experiencing difficulties. I should start by giving

you some history.

I am Tracey I am mum to J (6) who is neurotypical and B (8) who has

high functioning autism and dyspraxia. I am married to J who is a

great dad to both boys and husband of course :0)

Today we get a phonecall from the head teacher of his school please

could we attend a meeting TODAY so a meeting was set up for an hour

later but it was the end of the day. I knew it was bad by the sound

of her voice.

And the story goes that B has been pinching girls bottoms and saying

things like sex to them. Now I am not sure how bad he has been the

school has a habit of making things seem worse than they are. But

the head called B down and we all had a talk in the hall and B got

upset and started crying. Anyway the meeting ended and he was sent

into the waiting area to sort himself out and his dad went with him

too. When his dad came back into the room he said he had been crying

not because he was in trouble but because he thought he was being

sent home and he would not be able to finish his job for his

teacher. So now I am not sure what he understands from what he has

been told not to do...

I have a feeling that the appropiate affection he shows at home and

the affection he shows at school there is some blurring in the

boundaries as in what is ok at home and what is ok at school.

So what I am asking is advice in how to deal with this as it is a

big thing and it needs to be sorted now and not left for a few years

until he is bigger older and able to be arrested or worse.

Please help.

Tracey