Guest guest Posted April 18, 2006 Report Share Posted April 18, 2006 Hi Sharon Seems like we have had some similar experiences in our lives. It is too bad that your Mom can't see the blessing you have in Donnie. I can certainly feel the love you have for each other in your posts. I admire your strength, you don't let your physical situation get you down. I find it sad that your Mom feels the need to continue doing what she does, yet I get a sense of strength from you in this area too. I am encouraged to keep growing myself. Take care Sharon. , borough, ON cg to MIL DX aged 68, now 69. > > > > Imogene, > > > > Mom had it all set up I got everyting if she died. The problem was > she didn't die. And that is a major problem. > > > > The next problem was If I died before Mom! Then my kids got > nothing. it went to Mom who had given half her stuff to the step > children because of the second marriage. > > > > So see an attorney for your particular situation, even if it is > just to do a consultation and ask if you have done it correctly. It > really makes it a mess with this dementia stuff. > > > > And because you put only 2 kids on the house, and they are to > divide with their siblings, do you know this will be done. I have > heard lots of times things change after parents die. And if it isn't > in writing, the 2 that own the house can say, they helped you (and > maybe they will) or anything up to " they wanted us to have it. " And > unless it is in writing, legally no one can argue about it. > > > > After having such a mess with my Mom, I am going to be very clear > about if I die or if I don't or what ever. And the new catch phrase > everyone is using in their will or whatever is: " and whoever fights > this, gets nothing, " Amazing things happen that you wouldn't believe > after Parents die. > > > > Donna R > > > > Do you want to read more about Lewy Body? You can also read the > Thistle, the LBD Newsletter. Just click on: > > > > http://www.lewybodydementia.org > > > > > > Re: Nursing Home Insurance > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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