Fwd: Re: Re: so depressed//ELVA!!! HELLLLLOOOOO!

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> Hi Elva...

> I don't have any children, and I imagine raising them is like

> ridin' a roller coaster.....

>

> It sounds like your working,living, and being sick in a Fireworks

> Vendors place of business.

>

> Nothing wrong with that..Any work, that doesn't harm others, to

> me,

> is honest and contributing to the " cause. " However it seems you

> have a have a person, your daughter... that seems to get some

> form of pleasure from tossing around lit matches and not fully

understanding what it is to be severely burned in a fire... and

disrespecting others..not only any 'non' Caucasian

> folks..but at the moment. more important is you and your family.

>

> I take it that she is of legal age..and has the same rights you

> do.

>

> I'm sure it was a shocker to see your baby girl, posing on the

> Internet.

> I'm sure it was a shocker to MY mother...to find out she raised a

> drunk and serious drug abuser...now with two fatal diseases, of

which there is no cure.(for me)...

> Like I said..I will not profess to know how deep the love runs,

but she is grown and has the inalienable right to do as she sees

fit in her life.

>

> Is it really skin color, or that possibly she needs to hate

> others to love herself and feel her worth?

>

> Or... is it more geographical..., and anyone from a place that

> has people of many skin shades is doomed by her young and imature

way of thinking?

>

> Is it OK to her, to date a Hawaiian? If one is from Puerto

> Rico..will we need to worry about her husband burning a cross in

> the front yard?

>

> I have found in my short stay here on Earth, that generally it is

> young people that have no direction and cling to anything that's

> makes a bit of sense in their inexperienced young minds. That is

NOT a reflection of you...but how she mentally digested input

available.

>

> I really do wonder, Elva..is it people that are non-white? All

> Blacks are less than she is?? and God help anyone in between that

> range! Are say,,, Scandinavians better than her, because

> they are generally very white,,due to the lack of sun.

> I guess if this is the case..Edgar Winter and his brother (both

> Albinos, and were popular in the 70's with their music) would

> rule

> her world OK..then.. if it's not skin-tone, then it must be

> where

> one was born and raised..which that as well, makes no sense.

>

> If she could get hold of a picture book, with captions under the

> foto's, and sees the horrible shots of stacked up bodies, she may

> act as if she thinks that's great, but trust me, the images of

> skinny undernourished people, digging their own holes to be

> buried in, and adding lime so they don't cause disease when their

body decays.. well...I just think it would at least get her

started, to later possibly see how horribly wrong she is. Does she

know she is a decedent from Black People?? Tell her to stay out in

the sun, should she burn, is she then a red-man? or God forbid she

would get Hep...would she be hated by her " friends " because she is

yellow?

>

> The nude stuff is fairly minor compared to the hate she breeds.

> Still a shock, to see your daughter on the Internet..but it

> sounds like you've come around a bit, realize what was happening

to your psyche. All those people..male/ female/or somewhere in

between, have/had Mothers, just like you.I think you are almost

over that hurdle..or at least recognizing that it is not you..it is

she, that decided to make some extra $$ or whatever, by being naked

and

> advertising.

>

> I am not making 'light' of the situation..please understand, but

> having a picture of yourself on the INET is not so horribly bad.

> There are a lot of people world wide, that aren't quite as

> .... " prudish " as Americans seem to be. Selling sex has been

> around

> forever..but I would not want my Mother on the INET..naked...and

> selling her body to people. I imagine that's as close as I can

> get to " the bond " between Mother and child.

>

> I hope I have not offended you, because of what may seem like my

> " detached " way of thinking, rather I hope I have helped a

> bit..in

> getting you out of your 'mental' world...and try to see how

others that aren't so close to the situation, may react.

>

> I wonder if she and her husband, who very well may have

> encouraged the INET idea..so he didn't have to work, have a color

> chart..like at the Paint Store?? That way they could see if

someone fits into their little, ignorant and prejudiced world.

> Would she refuse help from a non=white if she were drowning?? or

> worse..if her child were drowning?? I just don't think so..

>

> God Bless you Elva, and I'm glad that you " opened up " to ..

> it really helps to talk to someone about what sometimes is not so

> good in our lives.

>

> I will pray for you to find peace, and also that your daughter,

> will be able to see just how mean and hateful what she's

> participating in is, and what it can turn into.

>

> Peace and Love,

>

> Deliman

> --- Elva Gross wrote:

>

> > thanks ya all i will call my dr about it today is a better day

> i

> > am dealing with it i was so depressed i didnt want to talk to

> my

> > friends or family about what was bothering me i talked to

> amanda

> > d she helped me alot with the reason i was so depressed it is

> bad

> > enough that i get so sick from the tx but when i saw nude and

> > almost nude pics of my daughter in a web site it actually made

> me

> > vomit that is why i was so depressed i didnt raise her that way

> > and it really bothered me to see my daughter showing her body

> > that way and i was and i am so ashamed a her due to the fact

> that

> > she was married to a kkk and i have bi racial children she gave

> > me the ultimative to either get rid a my bi racial sons or she

> > would no longer talk to me well i refused to not have my bi

> > racial sons in my life she made the choice not me to be

> prejiduce

> > thats on her the way i feel i found her thru her daughters web

> > site it made me so sick i love all a my kids all are grown with

> > families i feel that she

> > dont deserve her kids though if she is going to show her body

> > and advertise for sex i am thankful to ya all and it will get

> > better thanks i wanted to let ya all know why i was so

> depressed

> > mo parent should see their child that way it was so heart

> > breaking to me thanks love ya all God bless

> >

> >

>

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