Guest guest Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 , This is a tough one but I would try to treat it behaviorally. Is he standing or sitting on the toilet? Did you move or did he switch schools (new toilet that is different). I would go back to having him sit on the toilet for urine and BM...especially since he has had BM accidents too) and actually go back to a schedule with lots of positive reinforcement for urinating/defecating in the toilet. I would also use more prompting and make sure someone is with him in the bathroom for a few days/weeks as much as possible....then I would slowly withdraw the prompting and decrease the positive reinforcement. I would also hold off on the punishment .....at least for now ...consider adding that back if things don't clear up going back to a schedule with positive reinforcement.....but it doesn't sound like over-correction is effective for him at this point. I would take data and fade the schedule by 30 or 60 minutes if he has a day or two with no accidents.....I would also continue to look medically or biomedically. We had a similar (although more mild) problem with Lucas last year. All of a sudden, he was getting his pants wet when he urinated (sitting down, not pulling his pants down enough and not pushing his penis down).....even after years where this was not an issue......I went back to going in with him and gesturally prompting to get his pants down and penis down....I also encouraged him to stand for peeing. With several weeks of increased prompting, his pants remained dry and we were able to fade out the person and prompts. Toileting is covered in Chapter 11 of my book (The Verbal Behavior Approach: How to Teach Children with Autism and Related Disorders). There is also a FAQ re: potty training document on my web site (_www.vbapproach.com_ (http://www.vbapproach.com) ) that you can download in both English and Spanish. Best, ______________________ Lynch Barbera, RN, MSN, BCBA _www.vbapproach.com_ (http://www.vbapproach.com/) In a message dated 6/17/2008 3:09:09 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, persistentC@... writes: Hi Gang, I'm curious to hear your feedback about this... My son, Kenny, is 15 years old. He has been potty trained since he was 3. A couple of months ago, instead of urinating into the toilet, he began urinating next to it. At first, I ignored the behavior, and just cleaned it up, thinking it was just an accident. But as the incidents increased, I began to suspect there was something more going on. My first thought was that perhaps he had a UTI. I took a urine sample in to be tested (twice) and the results came back clear. After getting the test results, I decided to approach this behaviorally. I started by just having him clean up his mess, but not making a big deal about it. As this made no difference, I began making the cleaning up process a little more aversive to him by increasing the amount I expected him to do. This, too, made no difference. So then I began using over correction. At this point he was clearly unhappy about the whole process. However, it made no difference, and in fact, he began urinating on the carpet of his room in the middle of the night. I began making him shampoo the carpet, empty the water tank etc. Still, the behavior continued. After a week or so of this, he began defecating on the carpet as well. Since the stool was very loose and liquidy (a REAL mess to clean up) I thought I should check to see if he was actually having a GI issue. (He has chronic GI problems, including Crohn's Disease and Barrett's Esophagus.) I took stool samples in to be tested, but these results, too, came back with no problems detected. I also took him into the pediatrician'problems detect exam twice. Two different doctors saw him, a couple of weeks apart, and neither had any idea about what to do. A week or so ago, I even caught him going into his room during the day, pulling his pants down, and eliminating on the floor. We started looking at foods that he was eating. In an attempt to expand his diet, we had recently introduced some new items. I removed those foods, but it made no difference. So, for those who want to " bite " , what would your next step be? Do you think it's behavioral or medical? s _persistentC@persisten_ (mailto:persistentC@...) [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] **************Gas prices getting you down? Search AOL Autos for fuel-efficient used cars. (http://autos.aol.com/used?ncid=aolaut00050000000007) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 I can't help you much here but I have a similar problem and I too have no idea if it is physiological or behavioral.? My son is 14 and again has been potty trained since he was a pre-schooler.? For years, we had no trouble with his using the tiolet or issues withhim ?wiping himself after a bowel movement.? A couple of months ago, it seemed as if he began defecating in his underwear.? He denied it and we looked to the issue of whether it was a problem with wiping himself.? We worked on both reminders to use the tiolet when needed and improving his self wiping skills.? One problem I did note is that since puberty, his feces seems much " stickier " than in the past and thus harder to wipe clean. I have focused more on positive reinforcement for " clean " underwear and he is excited about the reinforcers.? Nevertheless, we still have a problem 2-3 times a week. Any thoughts would be welcome. Pat Reagan [ ] Quiz -- Is it behavioral or medical? Hi Gang, I'm curious to hear your feedback about this... My son, Kenny, is 15 years old. He has been potty trained since he was 3. A couple of months ago, instead of urinating into the toilet, he began urinating next to it. At first, I ignored the behavior, and just cleaned it up, thinking it was just an accident. But as the incidents increased, I began to suspect there was something more going on. My first thought was that perhaps he had a UTI. I took a urine sample in to be tested (twice) and the results came back clear. After getting the test results, I decided to approach this behaviorally. I started by just having him clean up his mess, but not making a big deal about it. As this made no difference, I began making the cleaning up process a little more aversive to him by increasing the amount I expected him to do. This, too, made no difference. So then I began using over correction. At this point he was clearly unhappy about the whole process. However, it made no difference, and in fact, he began urinating on the carpet of his room in the middle of the night. I began making him shampoo the carpet, empty the water tank etc. Still, the behavior continued. After a week or so of this, he began defecating on the carpet as well. Since the stool was very loose and liquidy (a REAL mess to clean up) I thought I should check to see if he was actually having a GI issue. (He has chronic GI problems, including Crohn's Disease and Barrett's Esophagus.) I took stool samples in to be tested, but these results, too, came back with no problems detected. I also took him into the pediatrician's office for an exam twice. Two different doctors saw him, a couple of weeks apart, and neither had any idea about what to do. A week or so ago, I even caught him going into his room during the day, pulling his pants down, and eliminating on the floor. We started looking at foods that he was eating. In an attempt to expand his diet, we had recently introduced some new items. I removed those foods, but it made no difference. So, for those who want to " bite " , what would your next step be? Do you think it's behavioral or medical? s persistentC@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2008 Report Share Posted June 18, 2008 Hi, Denying he has a problem would suggest he is confused if not overwhelmed by things in his environment, thereof? as a possibility? Nothing is as clear as being strictly behavioral or medical to me. What he is doing is communicating something, (if you can read it?) and he is right in feeling what he does.. . Hello, to that?!. Everything is communicating and I would suggest honestly communicating (more so, all you can) with your child, thereof, for what he wants and needs, of his feeling/s, thereof.. . He should be in the drivers seat in that respect or he would not be, in the end? .. . Have him see other people, Individuals and experts, by all means, to facilitate Communication, thereof? In all the ways you can? .. . I suspect he would like that, if not respond to that appropriately.. . This is only part of the solution, of that.. . Mike, I ABA ABA for Understanding More The not so hidden other message in this is not promoting " our " language for the content I provide? (beyond that) of my feeling/s thereof, but for Communication itself, thereof! Most of us are selling a hidden (if not dirty/shitty?) message which (I Feel) is usually the problem, of what " I " do and where I go, otherwise. I fancy myself a good (meaningful) " narrator " in that respect, for the results I get The media is totally guilty of that, (subliminal messaging?) as are most of the rest of us, I Feel as understand.. . Very much so, towards what I am truly capable of, for my self, thereof. That should open your mind, to what really matters of The facts, is my sense of It.. . Try things (More things, of Communication) for the results you get, of ABA, thereof? .. . Of ABA, thereof, or " I " wouldn't have any part of you.. . You understand. A (my?) narrated product? It should prove to be the next way/wave, and integrates " nicely " with errorless learning (along with everything else, " meaningful, " that is.. .)+ I get what I need in that respect (I Feel as understand. m.g. Don't forget to see a medical doctor too, on the matter, in that respect? .. . Be the leader, thereof. > > I can't help you much here but I have a similar problem and I too have no idea if it is physiological or behavioral.? My son is 14 and again has been potty trained since he was a pre-schooler.? For years, we had no trouble with his using the tiolet or issues withhim ?wiping himself after a bowel movement.? > > A couple of months ago, it seemed as if he began defecating in his underwear.? He denied it and we looked to the issue of whether it was a problem with wiping himself.? We worked on both reminders to use the tiolet when needed and improving his self wiping skills.? One problem I did note is that since puberty, his feces seems much " stickier " than in the past and thus harder to wipe clean. > > I have focused more on positive reinforcement for " clean " underwear and he is excited about the reinforcers.? Nevertheless, we still have a problem 2-3 times a week. > > Any thoughts would be welcome. > > Pat Reagan > > [ ] Quiz -- Is it behavioral or medical? > > > > > > > Hi Gang, > > I'm curious to hear your feedback about this... > > My son, Kenny, is 15 years old. He has been potty trained since he was 3. > > A couple of months ago, instead of urinating into the toilet, he began > urinating next to it. At first, I ignored the behavior, and just cleaned it > up, thinking it was just an accident. But as the incidents increased, I > began to suspect there was something more going on. My first thought was > that perhaps he had a UTI. I took a urine sample in to be tested (twice) > and the results came back clear. > > After getting the test results, I decided to approach this behaviorally. I > started by just having him clean up his mess, but not making a big deal > about it. As this made no difference, I began making the cleaning up > process a little more aversive to him by increasing the amount I expected > him to do. This, too, made no difference. So then I began using over > correction. At this point he was clearly unhappy about the whole process. > > However, it made no difference, and in fact, he began urinating on the > carpet of his room in the middle of the night. I began making him shampoo > the carpet, empty the water tank etc. Still, the behavior continued. After > a week or so of this, he began defecating on the carpet as well. Since the > stool was very loose and liquidy (a REAL mess to clean up) I thought I > should check to see if he was actually having a GI issue. (He has chronic > GI problems, including Crohn's Disease and Barrett's Esophagus.) I took > stool samples in to be tested, but these results, too, came back with no > problems detected. I also took him into the pediatrician's office for an > exam twice. Two different doctors saw him, a couple of weeks apart, and > neither had any idea about what to do. > > A week or so ago, I even caught him going into his room during the day, > pulling his pants down, and eliminating on the floor. > > We started looking at foods that he was eating. In an attempt to expand his > diet, we had recently introduced some new items. I removed those foods, but > it made no difference. > > So, for those who want to " bite " , what would your next step be? Do you > think it's behavioral or medical? > > > s > persistentC@... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2008 Report Share Posted June 18, 2008 Some thoughts on this. 1) Is he enjoying the clean-up task? If so it may be reinforcing the negative behaviour. Just because we find cleaning feces and urine objectionable doesn't mean he will. It could be he enjoys the heavy work of scrubbing and the vibrations from the rug shampoo machine. If so he has learned that he can only get this input by messing the floor. 2) Is he confusing masturbation and elimination. It could be he has had a pleasant experience with the one and is trying to recreate it with the other. TMI maybe but a valid question I think. He is still choosing to eliminate (i.e.) pulling down the pants etc) so it is his choice of where that you are dealing with. Puberty is a rough time for our typical children. I can only imagine what our ASD kids are dealing with from a sensory and hormonal perspective. According to my DD the " typical " 13/14 YO boys in her class are obsessed with bodily fluids. Go back to floating bits of paper in the toilet and get him to hit the target standing up. Then reward heavily. Also give him lots of sensory water play during non toileting time. Washing the car or outside toys. Watering flowers. If the testosterone is raging give hime big muscle work like scrubing the patio stones or kitchen floor with a scrub brush and water mixed with kitchen soap if he finds this rewarding. Good Luck. > > Hi Gang, > > I'm curious to hear your feedback about this... > > My son, Kenny, is 15 years old. He has been potty trained since he was 3. > > A couple of months ago, instead of urinating into the toilet, he began > urinating next to it. At first, I ignored the behavior, and just cleaned it > up, thinking it was just an accident. But as the incidents increased, I > began to suspect there was something more going on. My first thought was > that perhaps he had a UTI. I took a urine sample in to be tested (twice) > and the results came back clear. > > After getting the test results, I decided to approach this behaviorally. I > started by just having him clean up his mess, but not making a big deal > about it. As this made no difference, I began making the cleaning up > process a little more aversive to him by increasing the amount I expected > him to do. This, too, made no difference. So then I began using over > correction. At this point he was clearly unhappy about the whole process. > > However, it made no difference, and in fact, he began urinating on the > carpet of his room in the middle of the night. I began making him shampoo > the carpet, empty the water tank etc. Still, the behavior continued. After > a week or so of this, he began defecating on the carpet as well. Since the > stool was very loose and liquidy (a REAL mess to clean up) I thought I > should check to see if he was actually having a GI issue. (He has chronic > GI problems, including Crohn's Disease and Barrett's Esophagus.) I took > stool samples in to be tested, but these results, too, came back with no > problems detected. I also took him into the pediatrician's office for an > exam twice. Two different doctors saw him, a couple of weeks apart, and > neither had any idea about what to do. > > A week or so ago, I even caught him going into his room during the day, > pulling his pants down, and eliminating on the floor. > > We started looking at foods that he was eating. In an attempt to expand his > diet, we had recently introduced some new items. I removed those foods, but > it made no difference. > > So, for those who want to " bite " , what would your next step be? Do you > think it's behavioral or medical? > > > s > persistentC@... > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2008 Report Share Posted June 18, 2008 Puberty does present challenges in that respect. Good point. Things seem to have gotten chaotic if not outright regressive in our situation with our son at about that time. There may be things you could do with respect to that, hormonial issues, medically? .. . The problem passed relatively quickly in our situation. Maybe within 6 months, doing all that we could do with ABA, and keeping the demands (and expectations) down somewhat, and being " reassuring " .. . (It wasn't a big problem. Peeing in his bed during sleep mostly, a few times. " Everyone " is different of course.) More options seem to be available these days, not without their problems.. . Mike Love is in Communication Punctuate it as you wish. > > > > Hi Gang, > > > > I'm curious to hear your feedback about this... > > > > My son, Kenny, is 15 years old. He has been potty trained since he > was 3. > > > > A couple of months ago, instead of urinating into the toilet, he began > > urinating next to it. At first, I ignored the behavior, and just > cleaned it > > up, thinking it was just an accident. But as the incidents increased, I > > began to suspect there was something more going on. My first > thought was > > that perhaps he had a UTI. I took a urine sample in to be tested > (twice) > > and the results came back clear. > > > > After getting the test results, I decided to approach this > behaviorally. I > > started by just having him clean up his mess, but not making a big deal > > about it. As this made no difference, I began making the cleaning up > > process a little more aversive to him by increasing the amount I > expected > > him to do. This, too, made no difference. So then I began using over > > correction. At this point he was clearly unhappy about the whole > process. > > > > However, it made no difference, and in fact, he began urinating on the > > carpet of his room in the middle of the night. I began making him > shampoo > > the carpet, empty the water tank etc. Still, the behavior > continued. After > > a week or so of this, he began defecating on the carpet as well. > Since the > > stool was very loose and liquidy (a REAL mess to clean up) I thought I > > should check to see if he was actually having a GI issue. (He has > chronic > > GI problems, including Crohn's Disease and Barrett's Esophagus.) I took > > stool samples in to be tested, but these results, too, came back with no > > problems detected. I also took him into the pediatrician's office > for an > > exam twice. Two different doctors saw him, a couple of weeks apart, and > > neither had any idea about what to do. > > > > A week or so ago, I even caught him going into his room during the day, > > pulling his pants down, and eliminating on the floor. > > > > We started looking at foods that he was eating. In an attempt to > expand his > > diet, we had recently introduced some new items. I removed those > foods, but > > it made no difference. > > > > So, for those who want to " bite " , what would your next step be? Do you > > think it's behavioral or medical? > > > > > > s > > persistentC@ > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Hi , Have seizures been ruled out? Since some kids with ASD develop seizures in adolescence, this may be what is causing the accidents. See http://www.emedicine.com/neuro/TOPIC658.HTM for a description of the relationship between seizures and the effects on the autonomic nervous system (which controls bowel/bladder function). Some kids have absence seizures for years before they are eventually diagnosed. Good luck, I hope you figure it out soon. April Choulat > > Hi Gang, > > I'm curious to hear your feedback about this... > > My son, Kenny, is 15 years old. He has been potty trained since he was 3. > > A couple of months ago, instead of urinating into the toilet, he began > urinating next to it. At first, I ignored the behavior, and just cleaned it > up, thinking it was just an accident. But as the incidents increased, I > began to suspect there was something more going on. My first thought was > that perhaps he had a UTI. I took a urine sample in to be tested (twice) > and the results came back clear. > > After getting the test results, I decided to approach this behaviorally. I > started by just having him clean up his mess, but not making a big deal > about it. As this made no difference, I began making the cleaning up > process a little more aversive to him by increasing the amount I expected > him to do. This, too, made no difference. So then I began using over > correction. At this point he was clearly unhappy about the whole process. > > However, it made no difference, and in fact, he began urinating on the > carpet of his room in the middle of the night. I began making him shampoo > the carpet, empty the water tank etc. Still, the behavior continued. After > a week or so of this, he began defecating on the carpet as well. Since the > stool was very loose and liquidy (a REAL mess to clean up) I thought I > should check to see if he was actually having a GI issue. (He has chronic > GI problems, including Crohn's Disease and Barrett's Esophagus.) I took > stool samples in to be tested, but these results, too, came back with no > problems detected. I also took him into the pediatrician's office for an > exam twice. Two different doctors saw him, a couple of weeks apart, and > neither had any idea about what to do. > > A week or so ago, I even caught him going into his room during the day, > pulling his pants down, and eliminating on the floor. > > We started looking at foods that he was eating. In an attempt to expand his > diet, we had recently introduced some new items. I removed those foods, but > it made no difference. > > So, for those who want to " bite " , what would your next step be? Do you > think it's behavioral or medical? > > > s > persistentC@... > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Pat, It may be that your son is experiencing encopresis, which is involuntary. I learned about this condition from a parent of a teenage boy (not on the spectrum). Wikipedia has an overview of it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Encopresis If this is the case, that is probably why he is still having a problem 2-3 times a week despite positive reinforcement. Hope this helps, April > > I can't help you much here but I have a similar problem and I too have no idea if it is physiological or behavioral.? My son is 14 and again has been potty trained since he was a pre-schooler.? For years, we had no trouble with his using the tiolet or issues withhim ?wiping himself after a bowel movement.? > > A couple of months ago, it seemed as if he began defecating in his underwear.? He denied it and we looked to the issue of whether it was a problem with wiping himself.? We worked on both reminders to use the tiolet when needed and improving his self wiping skills.? One problem I did note is that since puberty, his feces seems much " stickier " than in the past and thus harder to wipe clean. > > I have focused more on positive reinforcement for " clean " underwear and he is excited about the reinforcers.? Nevertheless, we still have a problem 2-3 times a week. > > Any thoughts would be welcome. > > Pat Reagan > > [ ] Quiz -- Is it behavioral or medical? > > > > > > > Hi Gang, > > I'm curious to hear your feedback about this... > > My son, Kenny, is 15 years old. He has been potty trained since he was 3. > > A couple of months ago, instead of urinating into the toilet, he began > urinating next to it. At first, I ignored the behavior, and just cleaned it > up, thinking it was just an accident. But as the incidents increased, I > began to suspect there was something more going on. My first thought was > that perhaps he had a UTI. I took a urine sample in to be tested (twice) > and the results came back clear. > > After getting the test results, I decided to approach this behaviorally. I > started by just having him clean up his mess, but not making a big deal > about it. As this made no difference, I began making the cleaning up > process a little more aversive to him by increasing the amount I expected > him to do. This, too, made no difference. So then I began using over > correction. At this point he was clearly unhappy about the whole process. > > However, it made no difference, and in fact, he began urinating on the > carpet of his room in the middle of the night. I began making him shampoo > the carpet, empty the water tank etc. Still, the behavior continued. After > a week or so of this, he began defecating on the carpet as well. Since the > stool was very loose and liquidy (a REAL mess to clean up) I thought I > should check to see if he was actually having a GI issue. (He has chronic > GI problems, including Crohn's Disease and Barrett's Esophagus.) I took > stool samples in to be tested, but these results, too, came back with no > problems detected. I also took him into the pediatrician's office for an > exam twice. Two different doctors saw him, a couple of weeks apart, and > neither had any idea about what to do. > > A week or so ago, I even caught him going into his room during the day, > pulling his pants down, and eliminating on the floor. > > We started looking at foods that he was eating. In an attempt to expand his > diet, we had recently introduced some new items. I removed those foods, but > it made no difference. > > So, for those who want to " bite " , what would your next step be? Do you > think it's behavioral or medical? > > > s > persistentC@... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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