Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 In a message dated 2/13/04 12:14:35 PM Eastern Standard Time, lierrekeith@... writes: > While adult heterosexual men want your girls, openly, > publically lusting after teen girls (Brittany Spears > et al) and no one says a word. 90% of teen pregnancies > are caused by adult men in their twenties--by > definition rape. Lierre, How on earth could you possibly say that sex between someone in their 20s and someone in their teens is " by definition rape " ? I find that absolutely preposterous. Does a teenager have no capacity for consenting to any act? Is there some magical change in brain physiology that occurs exactly at one's 20th birthday that causes one to go from complete incapacity to reason or consent to complete impeccability in regard to decision-making? Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 In a message dated 2/13/04 2:26:40 PM Eastern Standard Time, lynn@... writes: > >But at least the men haven't formed a club like NAMBLA to encourage > >this > >behavior. > > Sure they have, it's called American Popular Culture. Really? What's their mailing address? Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 In a message dated 2/13/04 3:38:40 PM Eastern Standard Time, jaltak@... writes: > Maybe not at the 20th birthday, but definitely between the 16th and 17th > birthdays. No, quite definitely not. Even if this change were punctuated rather than gradual, it is not even possible to occur within the same year for every individual. > > I work at the Job Corps Center in Grand Rapids, MI for nearly seven years. > The youngest a teenager was allowed in was 16. It was too young. But we had > to take them as that is the age they are allowed to drop out of school. > > The mental difference between a 16 year old and a 17 year old is > unbelievable! In that one year they gain a tremendous amount of maturity. Since it is established and accepted that such a thing as an intelligence quotient exists, it is simply impossible that every 16 year old has equivalent mental capacity. A 16 year old with an IQ of 150 clearly has a higher mental capacity than a 17 year old with an IQ of 100, or a 20 year old with an IQ of 100, for that matter. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 In a message dated 2/13/04 3:39:26 PM Eastern Standard Time, kayte@... writes: > I thought it was legally statutory rape...maybe it depends on the state. The simple fact that you qualify it with the word " statutory " indicate it isn't rape. If it were, it would be called " rape. " It's just a legal construction that has nothing to do with reality, and it varies from state to state, and country to country. If you don't like the laws of reality, just legislate... Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 In a message dated 2/13/04 3:41:04 PM Eastern Standard Time, kayte@... writes: > The problem is heterosexuals aren't trying to make sexual acts with young > children acceptable...NAMBLA would like to change that. The APC does not > condone sexual abuse unless you are in the white house I suppose. NAMBLA > says it is not sexual abuse to have a relationship with a consenting child. > SCARRY. So why do you equate " NAMBLA " with " homosexuals. " Is there a gene for NAMBLA membership too? Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 In a message dated 2/13/04 3:57:13 PM Eastern Standard Time, lynn@... writes: > *shrug* So's PETA. I don't think NAMBLA's made much headway nor do I > think they're likely to. I'm hardly a supporter of the group. My only > beef with some of its detractors is that at the first mention of > homosexuals they drag in NAMBLA, which is ridiculous. It would be like associating vegetarians with the Animal Liberation Front. Not every vegetarian condones the bombing of meat-packing plants, and surely most don't. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 L wrote: > While adult heterosexual men want your girls, openly, > publically lusting after teen girls (Brittany Spears > et al) and no one says a word. 90% of teen pregnancies > are caused by adult men in their twenties--by > definition rape. By the age of 12, 92% of all girls > have received unwanted sexual attention from adult > men, and by the age of 14, 34% have been sexually > abused. You want to provide some references for those numbers? It's not that I don't trust you, but I know for a fact that 73% of all statistics are made up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 > But at least the men haven't formed a club like NAMBLA to encourage > this > behavior. Sure they have, it's called American Popular Culture. Lynn S. of the cranky S's... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 This is one exceptional list! There have been several threads that would guaranteed a blow-up on almost any other list, and all were as quiet as this one. Enjoy! ;-) Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: Kayte Sisler [mailto:kayte@...] [snip] Isn't this a friendly discussion...I've never seen a discussion volatile like this be discussed to quietly on the net. I think we can all agree that children ought not to be used sexually whether they consent or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Maybe not at the 20th birthday, but definitely between the 16th and 17th birthdays. I work at the Job Corps Center in Grand Rapids, MI for nearly seven years. The youngest a teenager was allowed in was 16. It was too young. But we had to take them as that is the age they are allowed to drop out of school. The mental difference between a 16 year old and a 17 year old is unbelievable! In that one year they gain a tremendous amount of maturity. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: ChrisMasterjohn@... [mailto:ChrisMasterjohn@...] In a message dated 2/13/04 12:14:35 PM Eastern Standard Time, lierrekeith@... writes: > While adult heterosexual men want your girls, openly, > publically lusting after teen girls (Brittany Spears > et al) and no one says a word. 90% of teen pregnancies > are caused by adult men in their twenties--by > definition rape. Lierre, How on earth could you possibly say that sex between someone in their 20s and someone in their teens is " by definition rape " ? I find that absolutely preposterous. Does a teenager have no capacity for consenting to any act? Is there some magical change in brain physiology that occurs exactly at one's 20th birthday that causes one to go from complete incapacity to reason or consent to complete impeccability in regard to decision-making? Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Hardly a club. NAMBLA is actually quite active in pushing their agenda. The American Popular Culture is how you live and what you give to society. I happen to know a lot of great families that don't allow their girls to idolize Brittany and didn't watch the half time show for the recent football game. There is quite a conservative movement. The problem is heterosexuals aren't trying to make sexual acts with young children acceptable...NAMBLA would like to change that. The APC does not condone sexual abuse unless you are in the white house I suppose. NAMBLA says it is not sexual abuse to have a relationship with a consenting child. SCARRY. Re: re: Disurbing article > But at least the men haven't formed a club like NAMBLA to encourage > this > behavior. Sure they have, it's called American Popular Culture. Lynn S. of the cranky S's... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 >> Sure they have, it's called American Popular Culture. > > Really? What's their mailing address? 1515 Broadway New York, NY 10036 Lynn S. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 I thought it was legally statutory rape...maybe it depends on the state. Re: re: Disurbing article In a message dated 2/13/04 12:14:35 PM Eastern Standard Time, lierrekeith@... writes: > While adult heterosexual men want your girls, openly, > publically lusting after teen girls (Brittany Spears > et al) and no one says a word. 90% of teen pregnancies > are caused by adult men in their twenties--by > definition rape. Lierre, How on earth could you possibly say that sex between someone in their 20s and someone in their teens is " by definition rape " ? I find that absolutely preposterous. Does a teenager have no capacity for consenting to any act? Is there some magical change in brain physiology that occurs exactly at one's 20th birthday that causes one to go from complete incapacity to reason or consent to complete impeccability in regard to decision-making? Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Oops - That should have been " I worked. . . " Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: Judith Alta [mailto:jaltak@...] Maybe not at the 20th birthday, but definitely between the 16th and 17th birthdays. I work at the Job Corps Center in Grand Rapids, MI for nearly seven years. The youngest a teenager was allowed in was 16. It was too young. But we had to take them as that is the age they are allowed to drop out of school. The mental difference between a 16 year old and a 17 year old is unbelievable! In that one year they gain a tremendous amount of maturity. Judith Alta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 > Hardly a club. NAMBLA is actually quite active in pushing their > agenda. *shrug* So's PETA. I don't think NAMBLA's made much headway nor do I think they're likely to. I'm hardly a supporter of the group. My only beef with some of its detractors is that at the first mention of homosexuals they drag in NAMBLA, which is ridiculous. Since Ted Bundy and Ridgway don't have an official club with an official agenda, how's this: It's like bringing up Aryan Nations or Rev Fred Phelps (the guy who wants to put up a monument congratulating the killers of Shepard) every time someone mentions Christianity. They definitely have clubs and agendas, they're definitely pushing them, and they have about as much to do with Christianity as chalk does with cheese. Lynn S. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Its Massachusetts law. Anyone over 21 having sex with anyone under 17 is statutory rape. 18-21 to 17 down to 14 is considered less. Child under 14 is child rape and will get biggest jail time if over 21, less if 14-21. Reasons for this is it may be consenting with older children but the emotional maturity of the different ages comes into play. The bigger the age difference the bigger the difference between understanding any of it and the responsibility. In other words by 21 the state expects that this should be known and if its done anyway its taking advantage of immaturity and naieveness. Have seen it work both ways with males over 21 and under17 women, usually if they become pregnant its pushed for child support with statutory rape added. Had a neighbor who was seduced by an 18 year old girl who became pregnant when he was 14. She ended up getting support when he was old enough to work but she was charged with statutory rape. > How on earth could you possibly say that sex between someone in their 20s and > someone in their teens is " by definition rape " ? I find that absolutely > preposterous. Wanita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 I know a 15 year old girl that would put many adults to shame, both in maturity and intelligence. But mental capacity does not guarantee maturity. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: ChrisMasterjohn@... [mailto:ChrisMasterjohn@...] In a message dated 2/13/04 3:38:40 PM Eastern Standard Time, jaltak@... writes: > Maybe not at the 20th birthday, but definitely between the 16th and 17th > birthdays. No, quite definitely not. Even if this change were punctuated rather than gradual, it is not even possible to occur within the same year for every individual. > > I work at the Job Corps Center in Grand Rapids, MI for nearly seven years. > The youngest a teenager was allowed in was 16. It was too young. But we had > to take them as that is the age they are allowed to drop out of school. > > The mental difference between a 16 year old and a 17 year old is > unbelievable! In that one year they gain a tremendous amount of maturity. Since it is established and accepted that such a thing as an intelligence quotient exists, it is simply impossible that every 16 year old has equivalent mental capacity. A 16 year old with an IQ of 150 clearly has a higher mental capacity than a 17 year old with an IQ of 100, or a 20 year old with an IQ of 100, for that matter. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Children are impressionable. And a child (yes, a teenager is still a child) is very impressionable. It is much easier to hand a child a " line " than an adult. You can't call it consent if they were conned into it. Even if there was no force. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- > How on earth could you possibly say that sex between someone in their 20s and > someone in their teens is " by definition rape " ? I find that absolutely > preposterous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Judith Alta wrote: > I know a 15 year old girl that would put many adults to shame, both in > maturity and intelligence. But mental capacity does not guarantee > maturity. Neither does age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Wanita Sears wrote: > Have seen it work both ways with males over 21 and under17 women, > usually if they become pregnant its pushed for child support with > statutory rape added. Had a neighbor who was seduced by an 18 year > old girl who became pregnant when he was 14. She ended up getting > support when he was old enough to work but she was charged with > statutory rape. Wow. That's just...that's outrageous. The child support racket is bad enough as it is, but to force it on a minor seduced by a woman four years older than him is madness. Did he appeal (to a higher court--obviously he appealed to her)? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 >> The problem is heterosexuals aren't trying to make sexual acts with young children acceptable... << This is not true. There are organized pedophile organizations for men who want to have sex with girls too. You can find some of them, as I did, by doing a quick google search just now, listed here: http://www.puellula.org/HFP/Links.html There is a reason that NAMBLA gets so much attention, and that is because anti-gay propganda keeps the spotlight on them, so it can continue to demonize gay people. That fact is that NAMBLA is despised and outcast by virtually all gay and lesbian people. The pathetic few sickos who comprise NAMBLA love all the attention they get - it feeds their agenda perfectly to be used in this way. They would have faded away long ago, otherwise. Christie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 , Welfare brought him to court for paternity to get all or some of what they'd paid her back, mostly in hopes of his being able to pay enough to get her off welfare. He was able to charge her with statutory rape but that didn't relieve him of supporting in their eyes. Probably right about now the son is 18 and he won't have to pay soon. When my husband was on Social Security disability from getting hit by a motorcycle and we had full custody of their daughter, his ex wife was not pursued in the same vehement manner he was pursued for support for her. Got none, seemed effort wasn't made, they attached his check immediately, and proving he couldn't pay after the accident was a mess. > Wow. That's just...that's outrageous. The child support racket is bad > enough as it is, but to force it on a minor seduced by a woman four > years older than him is madness. Did he appeal (to a higher > court--obviously he appealed to her)? Wanita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Often have I wondered what excuse the court system in this country uses as an excuse for brains. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: Wanita Sears [mailto:wanitawa@...] , Welfare brought him to court for paternity to get all or some of what they'd paid her back, mostly in hopes of his being able to pay enough to get her off welfare. He was able to charge her with statutory rape but that didn't relieve him of supporting in their eyes. Probably right about now the son is 18 and he won't have to pay soon. When my husband was on Social Security disability from getting hit by a motorcycle and we had full custody of their daughter, his ex wife was not pursued in the same vehement manner he was pursued for support for her. Got none, seemed effort wasn't made, they attached his check immediately, and proving he couldn't pay after the accident was a mess. > Wow. That's just...that's outrageous. The child support racket is bad > enough as it is, but to force it on a minor seduced by a woman four > years older than him is madness. Did he appeal (to a higher > court--obviously he appealed to her)? Wanita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 True. I newer grew up until I was past 40. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: Berg [mailto:bberg@...] Judith Alta wrote: > I know a 15 year old girl that would put many adults to shame, both in > maturity and intelligence. But mental capacity does not guarantee > maturity. Neither does age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 In a message dated 2/13/04 4:07:38 PM Eastern Standard Time, wanitawa@... writes: > Have seen it work both ways with males over 21 and under17 women, usually > if > they become pregnant its pushed for child support with statutory rape added. > Had a neighbor who was seduced by an 18 year old girl who became pregnant > when he was 14. She ended up getting support when he was old enough to work > but she was charged with statutory rape. Wanita, Lierre said that someone in their 20s having sex with someone in their teens is " by definition rape. " So whether or not it is *sometimes* very inappropriate and whether or not *sometimes* the judgment capacity differential is so extreme it could constitute a de facto form of rape, it is certainly not rape " by definition. " Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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