Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 The minority you mention is not asking for a " privilege. " They just want the freedom to choose their partner with the same protections and benefits that people the Christian church defines as " normal " have. Your comment points out very well what I said about Christians being the most judgmental and least tolerant of all people. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: [mailto:mhysmith@...] [snip] It is really about a minority who wants a " priveledge " granted to them and uses all kinds of pathethic smoke screens to manipulate and get what they " simply want " . This is not the first time. I use to be sympathetic with your cause, I am not any more. You want " rights " and you want respect for your way of life? Then give the same back to others who are different from you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 At 11:13 PM 2/14/2004, you wrote: >I certainly haven't seen a poll of scientists, but in the mags I >read (Discover, New Scientist, Science News) most of the published >articles are of the same view ... that *something* biological is >happening with gay men (not too much about lesbian women). well of course they don't have anything to say about lesbian women. men aren't threatened by lesbian women (on the contrary). they only need to find an answer for gay men because they feel threatened. grr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 It's not only the Christian church, how about Muslims and Jews? But then, all Christians and Muslims and Jews are individuals and have an opinion of their own! Anja --- In , " Judith Alta " <jaltak@v...> wrote: > The minority you mention is not asking for a " privilege. " They just want the freedom to choose their partner with the same protections and benefits that people the Christian church defines as " normal " have. > Your comment points out very well what I said about Christians being the most judgmental and least tolerant of all people. > Judith Alta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 And what about ADHS/ADS kids? You think that's not being caused by nutrition? I do think that what mankind does to what they eat, before they eat it, can change lots! I wouldn't be surprised if that was true, as I'm sure that what you ingest can change your behaviour. Feed oats to your horse and feel the difference Lots of people say they are a lot calmer and feeling so much better and are more stable when eating the NT-way. The point is not whether you love men or women, the point is are you happy with the one you are in love with (and how about them?) and with your life! Anja > I just got my Wise Traditions Winter 2003 and I'm disturbed by the > review of the book " The Truth About Children's Health. " The reviewer > writes: > In his chapter on The Ancestry Factor he even talks about sexual > preference and the biological and physiological reasons for the > propensity towards homosexuality--as appeared in the Pottenger cat > studies. > > So...being gay or lesbian is a defect caused by improper nutrition? > Haven't we already tried, and one would hope, abandoned, eugenics? > This idea would just be stupid if it wasn't dangerous. Anyone with a > search engine can, in ten minutes, survey the vast diversity of human > societies and their different approaches to human sexuality, from > socities where same-sex behavior is expected and therefore universal, > to societies like ours where same-sex behvior is taboo and supressed. > Do I really have to say that it has nothing to do with their food? > This country has seen an exposion in degenerative diseases due to > industrialized food, but there aren't any more gay and lesbian people > than there were 50 years ago. > > Or forget Pottenger's cats. Let's look at Lierre's backyard. The male > goose has a marked preference for the female duck. The female duck, > for her part, has a serious crush on one of the female geese and it > must be reciprocated as they go at it every night before bedtime. > It's not just same-sex, it's cross-species out there. I've got hens > mounting other hens, and also a pair of lesbian pigeons. Ultimately I > think it's silly to have to even argue about what's " natural " and > what's not--we're human, and have way more complex psychology and > behavior than other animals. > > I'm writing to Sally Fallon with my concerns. Is this book > representative of the WAP Foundation's ideas about gays and lesbians? > I'm going to be really depressed if I'm the only one who finds this > disturbing. > Lierre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 I do not disagree with you. It's just that I have more familiarity with the Christian church. There is more death and misery committed " in the name of GOD " (any god, Christian or otherwise) than for any other reason. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: Anja [mailto:schnittie01734@...] It's not only the Christian church, how about Muslims and Jews? But then, all Christians and Muslims and Jews are individuals and have an opinion of their own! Anja --- In , " Judith Alta " <jaltak@v...> wrote: > The minority you mention is not asking for a " privilege. " They just want the freedom to choose their partner with the same protections and benefits that people the Christian church defines as " normal " have. > Your comment points out very well what I said about Christians being the most judgmental and least tolerant of all people. > Judith Alta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 Judith, This whole thread did not start with an article written by a Christian - I do believe it was written by a scientist. This subject minority has the freedom to choose their partners. They have the freedom to stay with each other for life or not. Power of attorneys, prenuptial agreements, property agreements, and wills can grant many of the protections and benefits that are being sought - these are quite available today and have been. To be frank, I think they are a wiser avenue for anyone rather than simply accepting what the states have defined in these areas. These vary greatly by state. People typically don't realize what all state laws mean until the relationship goes sour and or they deal with divorce. And all they mean is not necessarily so great anyway (goes with that be careful what you pray for). What remains are privileges - they are not freedoms, they are not rights. These include claims to social security survivor benefits and insurance coverage as dependents. These things are privileges granted to heterosexual marriages - and they are still privileges when sought by homosexuals. That has nothing to do with intolerance nor judgment. It's not saying they should be given to homosexual relationships or not. Another thing sought is social perception of this particular lifestyle as " normal " which was the number one underlying goal of the gay agenda started many decades ago. What that is about is not rights, protections, freedoms, nor privileges for them. That is about changing society beliefs and values of non homosexual people into believing that homosexual lifestyle is normal. And that goal is not simply acceptance or tolerance of the lifestyle. It is affirmation of " normal " . This is why Christie took objection in the very beginning of this thread - the article was implying that homosexual inclinations were biologically based and not normal. This guy was coming from the perspective of a biologist - his views have nothing to do with morals or values or tolerance or judgment - it is science to him which addresses sexual reproduction of ALL organisms. You cannot really as a scientist substantiate that homosexuality is normal - you got to define the word but it just can't be done rationally in science. But that is not the objective of this movement and they have and they do seek to suppress intellect thought, discourse, and opinion on the subject if it in anyway disagrees with their desire to be considered " normal " . If you really want to address issues of " freedom " - then freedom of expression and freedom of belief that homosexuals seek to suppress in others who disagree with them is really much more relevant. It is their intolerance and judgmental tactics of people who disagree with them that I am intolerant of - not their sexual orientation which I really don't care about. RE: re: Disturbing article The minority you mention is not asking for a " privilege. " They just want the freedom to choose their partner with the same protections and benefits that people the Christian church defines as " normal " have. Your comment points out very well what I said about Christians being the most judgmental and least tolerant of all people. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: [mailto:mhysmith@...] [snip] It is really about a minority who wants a " priveledge " granted to them and uses all kinds of pathethic smoke screens to manipulate and get what they " simply want " . This is not the first time. I use to be sympathetic with your cause, I am not any more. You want " rights " and you want respect for your way of life? Then give the same back to others who are different from you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 Scientists are not Christian? So you would abolish all marriage, as it is known today, in favor of powers of attorney, prenuptial agreements, property agreements, and wills. If same sex partners are not allowed to marry why would they need a prenuptial agreement? A same sex partner should have the same insurance and pension benefits from an employer that any opposite sex partner has. To deny them that privilege is, indeed, discrimination. Christianity has, from the beginning sought to suppress intellect, thought, discourse, and opinion on the subject if it in anyway disagrees with their(s.) Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: [mailto:mhysmith@...] Judith, This whole thread did not start with an article written by a Christian - I do believe it was written by a scientist. This subject minority has the freedom to choose their partners. They have the freedom to stay with each other for life or not. Power of attorneys, prenuptial agreements, property agreements, and wills can grant many of the protections and benefits that are being sought - these are quite available today and have been. To be frank, I think they are a wiser avenue for anyone rather than simply accepting what the states have defined in these areas. These vary greatly by state. People typically don't realize what all state laws mean until the relationship goes sour and or they deal with divorce. And all they mean is not necessarily so great anyway (goes with that be careful what you pray for). What remains are privileges - they are not freedoms, they are not rights. These include claims to social security survivor benefits and insurance coverage as dependents. These things are privileges granted to heterosexual marriages - and they are still privileges when sought by homosexuals. That has nothing to do with intolerance nor judgment. It's not saying they should be given to homosexual relationships or not. Another thing sought is social perception of this particular lifestyle as " normal " which was the number one underlying goal of the gay agenda started many decades ago. What that is about is not rights, protections, freedoms, nor privileges for them. That is about changing society beliefs and values of non homosexual people into believing that homosexual lifestyle is normal. And that goal is not simply acceptance or tolerance of the lifestyle. It is affirmation of " normal " . This is why Christie took objection in the very beginning of this thread - the article was implying that homosexual inclinations were biologically based and not normal. This guy was coming from the perspective of a biologist - his views have nothing to do with morals or values or tolerance or judgment - it is science to him which addresses sexual reproduction of ALL organisms. You cannot really as a scientist substantiate that homosexuality is normal - you got to define the word but it just can't be done rationally in science. But that is not the objective of this movement and they have and they do seek to suppress intellect thought, discourse, and opinion on the subject if it in anyway disagrees with their desire to be considered " normal " . If you really want to address issues of " freedom " - then freedom of expression and freedom of belief that homosexuals seek to suppress in others who disagree with them is really much more relevant. It is their intolerance and judgmental tactics of people who disagree with them that I am intolerant of - not their sexual orientation which I really don't care about. RE: re: Disturbing article The minority you mention is not asking for a " privilege. " They just want the freedom to choose their partner with the same protections and benefits that people the Christian church defines as " normal " have. Your comment points out very well what I said about Christians being the most judgmental and least tolerant of all people. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: [mailto:mhysmith@...] [snip] It is really about a minority who wants a " priveledge " granted to them and uses all kinds of pathethic smoke screens to manipulate and get what they " simply want " . This is not the first time. I use to be sympathetic with your cause, I am not any more. You want " rights " and you want respect for your way of life? Then give the same back to others who are different from you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 At 10:20 AM 2/15/2004, you wrote: >If you really want to address issues of " freedom " - then freedom of >expression and freedom of belief that homosexuals seek to suppress in >others who disagree with them is really much more relevant. see mary, again with this bitter confusion. you seem really intent that somehow if gays marry, you will lose your freedom of expression. i don't understand how that can be. you could witness a gay wedding and go to church and complain about it all day to the other ladies over coffee and donuts, and no one is stopping you. heck, you could write letters to the editor about how disgusted you are with the depravity of these sinners blah blah fishcakes, and while you probably wouldn't make any friends in town (except the ones you already have cheering you on), you'd be completely free to do that. you can continue to believe in hell and believe that all gay people will burn in it, and you can continue to believe in your god and believe that if you pray fervently, all those filthy gay people will be saved and come to christ - and if they don't, then you can believe that your god has turned his back on them and damned them to the aforementioned hell you are still free to believe in. you are even still free to believe that gayness is a genetic defect and if you're rich enough, you're free to fund all the scientific studies in the world to try to prove that. you're free to find a private school with no gay students to send your child to if you choose, where they won't teach anything in health class about gay sex and where they won't teach anything in science other than creation and gayness being a genetic defect (which the scientific study you funded " proved " ), and where the children will not be permitted to question anything their teacher says. you're free to play bridge with other heterosexual christian homophobes, and if a gay girl wants to join your daughter's soccer team, you're free to make your daughter play on a different team so that she won't be contaminated with the gay cooties you're free to believe in. you're free to choose to shop in stores that are not owned by gay people and to vote for heterosexual politicians. gay people getting married doesn't change *any* of this. in fact, gay people getting married won't change one single thing in your life! so, how are your freedoms being suppressed? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 Yeah, you go and find out whether those scientists that wrote the article were Christians or not and whether they go to church regularly... Anja --- In , " Judith Alta " <jaltak@v...> wrote: > Scientists are not Christian? > Judith Alta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 >well of course they don't have anything to say about lesbian women. men >aren't threatened by lesbian women (on the contrary). they only need to >find an answer for gay men because they feel threatened. > >grr. I wouldn't get too angry about it -- there HAS been research done, but what I have heard isn't very flashy, which I think is part of the problem. For instance, lesbians have a low rate of STDs, tend to treat each other with more empathy than hetero couples. (That was verbal, I won't vouch for it, but it was from a university person). But I HAVE noticed the total LACK of " ick factor " when it comes to men and lesbians. I think it has to do with male dominance ... most males want to be the ONLY male and any other male is a threat. Now, having a harem is not a threat, it's the norm in the animal world, and having a harem that entertains you with it's antics ... hey, it's a guy's dream. Alpha male! Actually I suspect that in the past, the men killed each other off so much or got killed hunting that there was probably a high female to male ratio, so polygamy was maybe the norm. Since women tend to work together so well (in my experience) I could easily envision a household with 5 gals and a guy ... as long as the guy wasn't the " lord and master " as is the case in Mormon households. In our company we have more women than men, and the women tend to get together and come to decisions and do the planning ... we can do it faster because there isn't the ego-issue and need to be " right " , so there aren't many arguments, just a coming to consensus. -- Heidi Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 >You cannot really as a scientist substantiate that homosexuality is normal - you got to define the word but it just can't be done rationally in science. Actually I'd have to disagree here ... the term " normal " *is* defined rationally in science. " Socially acceptable " is not so defined (and " socially acceptable " changes -- women wearing pants was VERY non-acceptable 100 years ago). But the " norm " has to do with " what usually happens " and can be defined in percentages and bell curves etc. And, as has been pointed out, what *normally* happens, in both animal and people populations, is that a smaller percentage of people (and animals) do not have the same sexual orientation as the rest of the population. The *rational* question is, given that reality, what do you do about it? Our answer in the US, up to recent history is: we hide the fact and ignore it and pretend it doesn't exist, same as we do with a host of other realities. Is such denial really healthy? We are just now beginning to tackle some of the OTHER issues we've swept under the rug ... incest, pedophilia, wife beating. Those have well-understood (by the psychological community, anyway) bad effects on at least one of the participants, hence, we enact laws against them. The psychological community at one point felt homosexuality also had bad effects, but the viewpoint is changing as the science progresses. -- Heidi Jean > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 Judith, Don't be rediculos. Why would I abolish marraige? Marriage is a good situation if children are involved. But personally I would not take that avenue since children are not an issue for me - you do not get something for nothing in life and there are legal strings as well - like having to split property that you otherwise wouldn't. There are credit issues and income tax issues - augh, mutual responsibilities they are called. I knew a girl who married a guy that was a drug dealer, middle man on a very high level. She knew nothing about it until he was arrested, sent to the penn and the IRS estimated all his unclaimed earnings and gave her the bill, of course they seized everything. You can't prenup those taxes. The reason for prenuptials is the division of property mutually obtained during the duration of the relationship. Like I said, laws vary by state. Some have alimony laws - no freedom forever! I think you are much better off setting all your agreements in the beginning yourselves. Everything always looks great going in, reality can become something else in time, and the going out is another story of no song and dance. The grass is always greener on the other side - that is until you get there. I disagree with you about Christianity being suppressive of intellectual pursuit. There are certainly aspects of this occurring in history, but I think it is human inclination to do evil and not good - that actually is an important point of their beliefs. Just because someone claims to be something or to do something in name of, does not mean they are acting in line with those teachings and representative of it. If for example you look back at the Catholic Church - there was such mixing of government and church leaders who were appointed based on family royalty, not devotion to Christian belief, you cannot equate their actions with the teachings of the Bible. They simply used the name. Many issues and conflicts are not that simply defined such as wars. We are very limited in our perspectives. We can certainly look at Hitler in hindsight and say yes, we were right to stop such an evil because we have all these undeniable pictures of his chambers and victims, but other assessments are not so easy to judge. You know he gassed something like 1100 Catholic priests who stood up to him. Dietrich Bonnhoffer perished to his hands. I am unaware of any religion that has greater respect for intellectual pursuit than Judism - they support their Rabbis to study and study, next would be Catholicism - many brilliant theologians and schalors in many fields. You know the Pope speaks 11 languages? Have you ever read him? People grab statements from him without reading the whole arguments he presents - when you do, it's a whole other ballgame. Incredibly brilliant man. Who do you think set up the first schools in this country and still have those schools, and then Islam too has high regard for education. I am unaware of no greater suppression of such than by the aethistic governments in Russia and China who burned books and murdered intellectuals in massive numbers, way beyond what Hitler did. They were doing as you and blaming Christians for the evil of the world - yea right. The Romans use to feed Christians to the lions - now that is real suppression. Stalin would kill them just for reading their bibles. Lets get real Judith. I don't think there is currently any group or idealogies who experience more suppression these days in the US than Catholics and Christians. And all this blasting on the board the last couple of days represents it. RE: re: Disturbing article The minority you mention is not asking for a " privilege. " They just want the freedom to choose their partner with the same protections and benefits that people the Christian church defines as " normal " have. Your comment points out very well what I said about Christians being the most judgmental and least tolerant of all people. Judith Alta -----Original Message----- From: [mailto:mhysmith@...] [snip] It is really about a minority who wants a " priveledge " granted to them and uses all kinds of pathethic smoke screens to manipulate and get what they " simply want " . This is not the first time. I use to be sympathetic with your cause, I am not any more. You want " rights " and you want respect for your way of life? Then give the same back to others who are different from you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 Katja, Let's get one thing straight right now. I don't care if you marry or not. Homosexuals have been in committed relationships since before I was born. I have never done anything to stop that, I have never seen anyone else do anything to stop that. I don't care if you are homosexual or not Katja. It is your problem. It is not mine. But when you put your sexual activities in my face which has been going on this board for the last few days, you are making your problem mine. When someone disagrees with you guys, you do slanderous attacks back. You guys set the level of discussion but you don't like your own tactics being used back at you. Sorry - I have my own life too and it isn't freakin perfect either but I don't dump it on everyone else and expect them to make life " fairer " to me or the way I want it. I do not expect anyone to change their beliefs or their opinions to be in line with mine or support activities I want to engage in. I am enough of my own person that I am comfortable making my own decisions and living my own life as suits me within whatever confines of society or laws that exist. Nobody has to affirm me or agree with me. I am still okay with who I am. I grew up a long ago. When this movement started 30 years ago, yalls idea was that all your unhappiness, the high drug rates within your kind, the high suicide rates within your kind, were being caused by the rest of societies unacceptance of your life style. Responsibility for your state and changing your misery was put on the rest of us. Not that things were that bad 30 years ago but your lifestyle has certainly seen dramatic acceptance. You are still miserable and you are still making us responsible for it. I have listened to it for over 30 freakin years. Half of my friends back then came out of the closet - and nobody ever freakin stopped them. None of them wallow now in such BS as you guys on this board do. They live their lives the way they want just like I do within the confines of society. And they have no problem letting others live their lives. No big freakin deal really. You are as intolerant as you are trying to make everyone else out to be. Now if you find your lifestyle that miserable, YOU change it - stop expecting me and everyone else to change for you. The financial wealth within your community is such that it is completely ridiculous to try and play on sympathy and discrimination issues. This issue now is only about wanting more when collectively as a group, you have way beyond average. You have an extremely strong political alliance, you get privilege anyway that others do not get. Nothing but politics got your condition removed from the DSM-IV. Why should AIDS get funded on different criteria and basis than any other illness that inflicts people? Because you are a poor suppressed group of people? BS - you are very strong politically and very wealthy but you still cry for pity pot me as if you were not. Why should gay sex be addressed in school in a health class when it is an issue for such a minority of people? It is privilege you get Katja all the time. What group of people could go to Disneyland and run around necked performing sex in public and not be arrested? No one but you guys because you got privilege. Do I really care? No I don't except when you keep shoving it in my face, crying like babies for more, acting like you are so persecuted. Is your problem genetic? Heck if I knew and to be honest Katja, heck if I care. It's your problem not mine. Why would I fund research for your problem if I was rich? You guys got your political lobby getting NIH to fund what you want, you work to keep any scientist from expressing his opinion on your orientation. That is intellectual suppression and that is done by you guys to the rest of us - it is not the reverse. That is the freakin truth of the situation. As far as soccer, my daughter's teams and the people on them are about soccer - nobody cares about who may or may not be gay, nobody cares what you do in your bedroom. This is what I am talking about being self centered and self focused. I don't know whether you are going to hell or not, I don't know if I am either. If it exists and I don't know that for sure either, the decision is not going to be mine whether I do or you do or whoever does. Rediculous statements. But if the church is so durn offensive to you guys, then why did your group have to take over the Episcopalian Church and start redefining it to suit you? Re: re: Disturbing article At 10:20 AM 2/15/2004, you wrote: >If you really want to address issues of " freedom " - then freedom of >expression and freedom of belief that homosexuals seek to suppress in >others who disagree with them is really much more relevant. see mary, again with this bitter confusion. you seem really intent that somehow if gays marry, you will lose your freedom of expression. i don't understand how that can be. you could witness a gay wedding and go to church and complain about it all day to the other ladies over coffee and donuts, and no one is stopping you. heck, you could write letters to the editor about how disgusted you are with the depravity of these sinners blah blah fishcakes, and while you probably wouldn't make any friends in town (except the ones you already have cheering you on), you'd be completely free to do that. you can continue to believe in hell and believe that all gay people will burn in it, and you can continue to believe in your god and believe that if you pray fervently, all those filthy gay people will be saved and come to christ - and if they don't, then you can believe that your god has turned his back on them and damned them to the aforementioned hell you are still free to believe in. you are even still free to believe that gayness is a genetic defect and if you're rich enough, you're free to fund all the scientific studies in the world to try to prove that. you're free to find a private school with no gay students to send your child to if you choose, where they won't teach anything in health class about gay sex and where they won't teach anything in science other than creation and gayness being a genetic defect (which the scientific study you funded " proved " ), and where the children will not be permitted to question anything their teacher says. you're free to play bridge with other heterosexual christian homophobes, and if a gay girl wants to join your daughter's soccer team, you're free to make your daughter play on a different team so that she won't be contaminated with the gay cooties you're free to believe in. you're free to choose to shop in stores that are not owned by gay people and to vote for heterosexual politicians. gay people getting married doesn't change *any* of this. in fact, gay people getting married won't change one single thing in your life! so, how are your freedoms being suppressed? 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Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 At 01:31 PM 2/15/04 EST, you wrote: >In a message dated 2/15/04 11:05:38 AM Eastern Standard Time, >heidis@... writes: > >> But I HAVE noticed the total LACK of " ick factor " when it comes to >> men and lesbians. > >Oh, it goes well beyond " lack. " > >Chris LOL. Yeah. I believe the phrase " Bring it on! " is fairly standard - enough to become boring. MFJ Any moment in which you feel like dancing is a perfect moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 i think paul would say that you should have replied privately to this, instead of continuing on the list. i'm not gonna bother, cause i think by this point everyone knows the score. now if anybody needs me, i'll be at disneyland running around naked performing sex in public! At 01:20 PM 2/15/2004, you wrote: >Katja, > >Let's get one thing straight right now. I don't care if you marry or not. >Homosexuals have been in committed relationships since before I was >born. I have never done anything to stop that, I have never seen anyone >else do anything to stop that. I don't care if you are homosexual or not >Katja. It is your problem. It is not mine. But when you put your sexual >activities in my face which has been going on this board for the last few >days, you are making your problem mine. When someone disagrees with you >guys, you do slanderous attacks back. You guys set the level of >discussion but you don't like your own tactics being used back at >you. Sorry - I have my own life too and it isn't freakin perfect either >but I don't dump it on everyone else and expect them to make life " fairer " >to me or the way I want it. I do not expect anyone to change their >beliefs or their opinions to be in line with mine or support activities I >want to engage in. I am enough of my own person that I am comfortable >making my own decisions and living my own life as suits me within whatever >confines of society or laws that exist. Nobody has to affirm me or agree >with me. I am still okay with who I am. I grew up a long ago. > >When this movement started 30 years ago, yalls idea was that all your >unhappiness, the high drug rates within your kind, the high suicide rates >within your kind, were being caused by the rest of societies unacceptance >of your life style. Responsibility for your state and changing your >misery was put on the rest of us. Not that things were that bad 30 years >ago but your lifestyle has certainly seen dramatic acceptance. You are >still miserable and you are still making us responsible for it. I have >listened to it for over 30 freakin years. Half of my friends back then >came out of the closet - and nobody ever freakin stopped them. None of >them wallow now in such BS as you guys on this board do. They live their >lives the way they want just like I do within the confines of >society. And they have no problem letting others live their lives. No big >freakin deal really. You are as intolerant as you are trying to make >everyone else out to be. Now if you find your lifestyle that miserable, >YOU change it - stop expecting me and everyone else to change for you. > >The financial wealth within your community is such that it is completely >ridiculous to try and play on sympathy and discrimination issues. This >issue now is only about wanting more when collectively as a group, you >have way beyond average. You have an extremely strong political alliance, >you get privilege anyway that others do not get. Nothing but politics got >your condition removed from the DSM-IV. Why should AIDS get funded on >different criteria and basis than any other illness that inflicts >people? Because you are a poor suppressed group of people? BS - you are >very strong politically and very wealthy but you still cry for pity pot me >as if you were not. Why should gay sex be addressed in school in a health >class when it is an issue for such a minority of people? It is privilege >you get Katja all the time. What group of people could go to Disneyland >and run around necked performing sex in public and not be arrested? No >one but you guys because you got privilege. Do I really care? No I don't >except when you keep shoving it in my face, crying like babies for more, >acting like you are so persecuted. > >Is your problem genetic? Heck if I knew and to be honest Katja, heck if I >care. It's your problem not mine. Why would I fund research for your >problem if I was rich? You guys got your political lobby getting NIH to >fund what you want, you work to keep any scientist from expressing his >opinion on your orientation. That is intellectual suppression and that is >done by you guys to the rest of us - it is not the reverse. That is the >freakin truth of the situation. > >As far as soccer, my daughter's teams and the people on them are about >soccer - nobody cares about who may or may not be gay, nobody cares what >you do in your bedroom. This is what I am talking about being self >centered and self focused. > >I don't know whether you are going to hell or not, I don't know if I am >either. If it exists and I don't know that for sure either, the decision >is not going to be mine whether I do or you do or whoever >does. Rediculous statements. But if the church is so durn offensive to >you guys, then why did your group have to take over the Episcopalian >Church and start redefining it to suit you? > > > Re: re: Disturbing article > > > At 10:20 AM 2/15/2004, you wrote: > >If you really want to address issues of " freedom " - then freedom of > >expression and freedom of belief that homosexuals seek to suppress in > >others who disagree with them is really much more relevant. > > see mary, again with this bitter confusion. you seem really intent that > somehow if gays marry, you will lose your freedom of expression. i don't > understand how that can be. you could witness a gay wedding and go to > church and complain about it all day to the other ladies over coffee and > donuts, and no one is stopping you. heck, you could write letters to the > editor about how disgusted you are with the depravity of these sinners > blah > blah fishcakes, and while you probably wouldn't make any friends in town > (except the ones you already have cheering you on), you'd be completely > free to do that. you can continue to believe in hell and believe that all > gay people will burn in it, and you can continue to believe in your god > and > believe that if you pray fervently, all those filthy gay people will be > saved and come to christ - and if they don't, then you can believe that > your god has turned his back on them and damned them to the aforementioned > hell you are still free to believe in. you are even still free to believe > that gayness is a genetic defect and if you're rich enough, you're free to > fund all the scientific studies in the world to try to prove that. you're > free to find a private school with no gay students to send your child > to if > you choose, where they won't teach anything in health class about gay sex > and where they won't teach anything in science other than creation and > gayness being a genetic defect (which the scientific study you funded > " proved " ), and where the children will not be permitted to question > anything their teacher says. you're free to play bridge with other > heterosexual christian homophobes, and if a gay girl wants to join your > daughter's soccer team, you're free to make your daughter play on a > different team so that she won't be contaminated with the gay cooties > you're free to believe in. you're free to choose to shop in stores that > are > not owned by gay people and to vote for heterosexual politicians. gay > people getting married doesn't change *any* of this. in fact, gay people > getting married won't change one single thing in your life! > > so, how are your freedoms being suppressed? > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 Heidi, You are mixing biology, psychology and sociology all into one field - they are not the same. Psychology and sociology are not really sciences in the sense the basic sciences are. Normal does not have the same connotative meaning in biology as it does in psych or sociology. When the guy was using the word, he was not meaning it like you are thinking. Biology by definition (please check in a dictionary) is the science of living organisms and their processes. ALL living organisms reproduce by particular processes for each species. Some are asexual, reproduction can occur by cell division. Others such as plants have processes with pollination I am sure you are familiar with. Most birds sit on eggs, some species give live birth. Innate drives are within the organism as part of the process affecting his behavior so he achieves the end result of reproduction. There are biophysical factors that can influence behavior such as temperature or light, many species reproduction is seasonal. In due respect to 's wishes and not to further antagonize, I won't elaborate anymore than to say that normal to a biologist would be the physiological way nature (or whoever) designed each species to achieve that end process of reproduction. Percentages and bell curves just don't have relevance to this stuff. They would from a psychological or sociological perspective when looking at behavior from a collective point of view and defining normal by percentages or rates of occurrence of certain behaviors but that becomes subjective. To understand his use of the word and why logically the loop exists that I stated, you have to comprehend the different perspective and meaning of the word as he is using it. Biologists just do not look at behavior in the way psychologists do at all. It is very nonpersonal, it has nothing to do with morals, or God, or any of that. It actually would not fit with free will or choice anyway. It is all a matter of electro-biochemical reactions to these guys. Those are going to be affected by what you eat as that is where the chemicals come, genes are another factor. Biologists are actually taking over in the area of behavior, many consider psychology a dead field, too much conjecture and too little science killed it. Re: re: Disturbing article >You cannot really as a scientist substantiate that homosexuality is normal - you got to define the word but it just can't be done rationally in science. Actually I'd have to disagree here ... the term " normal " *is* defined rationally in science. " Socially acceptable " is not so defined (and " socially acceptable " changes -- women wearing pants was VERY non-acceptable 100 years ago). But the " norm " has to do with " what usually happens " and can be defined in percentages and bell curves etc. And, as has been pointed out, what *normally* happens, in both animal and people populations, is that a smaller percentage of people (and animals) do not have the same sexual orientation as the rest of the population. The *rational* question is, given that reality, what do you do about it? Our answer in the US, up to recent history is: we hide the fact and ignore it and pretend it doesn't exist, same as we do with a host of other realities. Is such denial really healthy? We are just now beginning to tackle some of the OTHER issues we've swept under the rug ... incest, pedophilia, wife beating. Those have well-understood (by the psychological community, anyway) bad effects on at least one of the participants, hence, we enact laws against them. The psychological community at one point felt homosexuality also had bad effects, but the viewpoint is changing as the science progresses. -- Heidi Jean > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 > now if anybody needs me, i'll be at disneyland running > around naked performing sex in public! And, you can be sure that some fundie group will videotape you and sell the videos to the flock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 > >well of course they don't have anything to say about lesbian women. men >aren't threatened by lesbian women (on the contrary). they only need to >find an answer for gay men because they feel threatened. > >grr. > I dunno, Katja, I've known quite a few men who were threatened by me..LOL. Grrrr!! Michele _________________________________________________________________ Create your own personal Web page with the info you use most, at My MSN. http://click.atdmt.com/AVE/go/onm00200364ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2004 Report Share Posted February 15, 2004 > I don't think there is currently any group or idealogies who > experience more suppression these days in the US than Catholics and > Christians. ! > And all this blasting on the board the last couple of days represents > it. " Live " by the sword, " die " by the sword. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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